Man, it is not a matter of affection, who does not attach importance to family affection? Who doesn't want to be around someone who understands themselves, protects themselves, and has themselves in their hearts? Especially flesh and blood affection, there is blood relations

Man, it is not a matter of affection, who does not attach importance to family affection? Who doesn't want to be around someone who understands themselves, protects themselves, and has themselves in their hearts? Especially flesh and blood affection, there is a blood relationship, must be much closer than other friends around! But how many siblings, walking and walking, have formed a vendetta, and each other is not only no longer the most important person, but has become an enemy. The feud between brothers and sisters is actually a cycle of cause and effect, and many times it is caused by these three reasons. 

 01, parents are eccentric 

Will the eccentricity of parents lead to a feud between siblings? Absolutely!

Especially two children, originally one rich and one poor, the parents are biased towards the rich one, which will definitely lead to a brother-brother relationship and no longer be affectionate. The palm of the hand is meat, the back of the hand is meat, do not be biased, otherwise it will cause family discord. Some parents, their children have no money, not only will not go near, but when eating at the same table, there is sarcasm in their words, always putting: "You look at your brothers and sisters, how good is the mixture" hanging on the lips. In fact, such an approach will undoubtedly cause embarrassment to one's own children. Even if you hate iron and steel, you can't always criticize your children in person. Parents divide their children into "three, six, nine and so on", and ask how their children can balance their hearts. Love, treat all equally, do not be biased, once the heart is biased, the relationship is far away. 

 02, brothers and sisters pay, do not know gratitude 

People must know how to be grateful, even if they are close as siblings, or lovers, do not take the other party's efforts as they should be. My brothers and sisters have money, so they feel that if they borrow money, they don't have to pay it back, and the other party doesn't take it seriously. His brothers and sisters have good family conditions, give support, as a should, never know how to give back. If he does not help, he will have hatred and lose his normal heart. The above several situations are acts of not knowing gratitude. The efforts of the brothers and sisters, once they are not grateful, the time is long, the other party will definitely be chilled. In particular, when the brothers and sisters have become a family and have their own families, we have always relied on brothers and sisters, do not know how to give back, and after a long time, the other party will definitely leave us.

  03, between the hands and feet, there is a heart of comparison

 And your own brothers and sisters, don't blindly compare!

Some people can't see their brothers and sisters mixing well. When the other party has a better life, they have hatred and even jealousy. After a long time, when getting along, even if the other party does not say anything, they always feel that the other party looks down on them. Man, a weed grows in his heart, which will definitely affect his state of mind, and then affect communication. Even if the other party does not have eyes above the top, they will feel that the other party looks down on people. The uneven heart, the most frightening, jealous heart, is easily distorted. Don't compare between hands and feet, what is there to compare? Everyone has their own life. A good brother-sister relationship, not only does not compare, but supports each other, knows how to pay, knows gratitude, so that long-term getting along, brotherhood can be more intimate!