My aunt's two sons left Jingdezhen for many years through examinations, and now they are rooted in first-tier cities, the eldest married Xiaocui, a girl from the countryside, while the second is talking to the rich family Officiano. The countryside is a touchstone, and the secrets and attitude towards life in the hearts of the concubines have appeared in the countryside.
This Spring Festival, the two cousins were full of filial piety and each returned to their hometown in Jiangxi with their other half. The boss took a bit of trouble when he got home, taking the train first and then the shuttle. The second eldest was driving a private car, driven by him all the way. In contrast, the second brother mixed better, became the technical backbone of the unit early, and bought a house and a car by his own strength. Home is in the mountains, it is a building, but it is a little old. Considering that Xiaomei had never suffered hardships, her aunt deliberately gave her the best decorated and sunny room.
During the first month, rural relatives will pay homage to each other. There are many relatives in the aunt's family, the pressure of cooking is very large, the female protagonist is well, and the natural female comrades are more tired. On the fourth day of the first year, a large group of people came to my aunt's house, and I also went. My aunt in her 60s was busy with a white hair, like a top. The eldest daughter-in-law, Xiao Cui, wore an apron, washed vegetables for a while, cooked rice for a while, and kept helping her aunt to lay hands. The meal was almost ready, Xiao Cui carried a bucket of clothes to the small river in front of the door to wash, she was not afraid of the cold at all, the movement was sharp.
The second cousin was greeting guests in the hall, and when he saw Xiao Cui by the small river, he thought of something in his heart, so he shouted, Xiao Mei, go and help your sister-in-law wash her clothes. Xiao Mei was roasting the fire in the next room, and said that it was too cold outside to bear it. I saw that the second cousin was a little angry, he ran over to Xiaomei and said, everyone is busy, only you are roasting the fire, is this appropriate? Is it okay to pay attention to your own image? As the two talked, they theorized that their voices grew louder and louder. Suddenly, Xiaomei roared, I don't care, I am going to leave the country now and go back to the city. This roar went through the wall and shocked all the relatives present.
Soon, Xiaomei ran to the door with her bag, and the second cousin chased out with a calm face. Su Wen's second cousin and Meizi have a good relationship, and most people can be chased back, but I have a deep worry in my heart about their future life.
A happy family life is inseparable from the two pillars of recognition and concession.
First of all, although Xiaomei recognized the second cousin, she did not accept the future in-laws, and the psychological distance was thousands of miles away, and it was difficult to change. Fortunately, everyone did not live under one roof for a long time, and the meeting style greatly reduced the contradictions caused by non-recognition.
Let's talk about concessions. The key to whether two people can come together is recognition, and whether a family can live together is the core of concessions. Everyone has their own personality, everyone has their own opinion, and if they don't know how to give in, the world will be a mess. Family life is even more so, for those trivial things, why not let one? Only by making appropriate concessions can one show one's open-mindedness; only by making appropriate concessions can others have a way to go; only when appropriate concessions are made can others have a reason to take a step back. All harmonious family life is the result of concessions.
For Umeko, it is unlikely to approve of the future in-laws, but it is necessary to love The House and U and make certain concessions.
