Her niece, who studied nursing, went to the hospital for internship during the Spring Festival holiday, and half a month later, she told me about witnessing the two elderly people facing life and death, and suddenly burst into tears.
There is an old man from the countryside, 63 years old, sudden cerebral hemorrhage and illness, obviously spend money can be treated, can live for a few years, his two sons, four daughters, daughter-in-law and son-in-law together a total of twelve people, but discussed the initiative to give up treatment, in the words of the children, even if the rescue is also a vegetative person, the quality of life is reduced, and even the children spend medical expenses, it is not easy for them to earn money.
The old man was dragged home from the hospital by his children, and he remained unconscious, and his children took turns to wait, and died within a few days. After the funeral, the children are at ease with their own busy schedules.
Another old man is a retired worker, 70 years old, suddenly had a heart attack, was rushed to the hospital, the doctor told a number of heart vessel blockages, hurry to do bypass surgery, need to spend a lot of money, his only son did not say a word, quickly paid 100,000 yuan in advance, the old man successfully did the operation.
Later, the doctor said that if the family hesitated, or conservative treatment, it was likely to delay the condition, and the old man would die and not live the next day. Fortunately, the operation of the elderly was very successful, and he was discharged from the hospital after half a month, insisted on morning exercise in the morning, and occasionally danced square dance in the evening.
Listening to my niece's story, my mood was very depressed. It seems that everyone should cherish their own body, work hard to earn money, otherwise in the future, they will fall ill and fall down, and the people who are close to them may think about the future, weigh the pros and cons, and not necessarily try their best to save you.
As the saying goes, "filial piety comes first", in the face of huge medical expenses and major diseases, even the filial piety of the relatives is powerless, and even love can not help, everyone says is not it? #热点观察局新春季 #
