First of all, the result of today's blind date: fortunately, there was a harvest, not to disappoint my commute back and forth for 10 hours, turned more than a dozen buses, buses, subways, rain two kilometers of walking light rain (why not sit

First of all, today's blind date results: fortunately there is a harvest, not to live up to my commute back and forth for 10 hours to turn more than a dozen buses, buses, subways, rain two kilometers of walking light rain (why not take the high-speed rail?). I actually want to ink a little, the later I go back, the better). The other girl's personality is a bit like mine, and you can also talk.

But I still can't stand the attitude that my father forced me to go back today yesterday. Originally I had a particularly important job today, extremely important. But my dad didn't care at all, saying that I couldn't take a leave of absence, so he called my company to ask and called my leader. (I just wanted to say," my leader is so happy to take your call?) Your son is on a blind date, in charge of the company's ass, the company only cares about who does the work you have gone").

A. As a small employee in the cultural industry, I still have an understanding of the current "double reduction policy" and the next direction of education. Let me share my views: At present, it is a small beginning double reduction, and no training classes are allowed, so the New Oriental offline training is all cool, but many rich families will invite "one-on-one", such as a few of my mom colleagues, this winter vacation everyone spent about 20,000 to ask for tutors. What about the summer vacations after that? The annual "tutoring fee" alone is 100,000. There may also be a double reduction in high school in the future. Even I have a colleague, his grandfather and grandfather to support a child, he said that he can not afford to pay for tutoring, let alone buy a house in the future. I roughly calculate that under the double reduction policy, the cost of raising a child to junior high school tutoring is more than 500,000, and once the high school double reduction, directly 1 million?. Now that the reform of the middle and high school entrance examinations is also known, more than half of the students in junior high school cannot go to high school, and can only go to technical school. (What is a technical school?) Rely on the child's conscience to find 3+2 college, then specialize in the book, and finally go to graduate school? The environment determines the character, and the character determines the destiny. ）

B. Buy a house, Hefei is a "pseudo-first-tier city", Hefei for economic growth, the fastest way is real estate, so the house price everyone understands, only up and not down. Wages and housing prices in Hefei are arguably the most unbalanced in China. Although except for a few strong children's shoes, most ordinary people want to graduate from 0 on their own hands, and they can't afford to buy them in 10 years, right?

C. Buy a car, this actually does not matter if you don't mention it, everyone understands that most of the car is for face, isn't it? If you think about it carefully, you know that buying a car is cheaper than taking a taxi? No kidding. Even if a car is 150,000, this cost is not small in the hands of ordinary office workers in Hefei, right? There are also usual maintenance, repairs, parking fees are also not much. The more you count, the more painful it becomes.

Summary: In the absence of children, couples living together on a monthly income of 10,000 can support life, and occasionally extravagant. But like my dad's thinking, it's forced marriage now, and once you get married, you must be forced to have children. I calculated the above account to him, and he actually said, "Take one step at a time, say it again, and the money will be earned slowly." Are you kidding? A child from a family without money is born destined to go into the construction site to move bricks and enter the factory to tighten the screws, so will I give birth to him and suffer? But my dad didn't care, he just wanted to hold his grandson and make him have face on his face. Even if I have an irresponsible attitude, what if your daughter-in-law does not want to have children now? Divorce looking for a willing child? Anyway, in order to make your face light, do whatever it takes.