He Suohuan, a writer of sexual affective psychology, writes love stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.
I saw on the Internet that netizens calculated an account.
Combined with the recent hot search, combined with the increase in the demand for "savings" by many people since the epidemic, they increasingly feel that if they do not have enough money in hand, they will not feel safe.
You will find that young people are increasingly reluctant to buy a house.
In a sense, young people's choices, consumption habits, and living habits often determine the current social environment.
Young people have their choice, and they have their own "four emptiness".
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Young people who don't buy a house
One expert suggested extending the term of the mortgage to 40 years.
I don't hide from you, I can't stand it.
Now some young people, with 30 years of mortgages, have made them tremble.
How do the young people around me who buy houses and those who don't buy houses live?
Young people buying a house:
Half or even most of your monthly salary is used to pay off your mortgage.
Those who are married, the salaries of the two have to pay off the mortgage, raise children, living expenses, and personal relations.
The amount of money that can be saved is pitiful.
If there is a little bit of a problem, it is even worse.
Reluctant to buy new clothes, reluctant to eat out, reluctant to go out to play, and not brave to change jobs.
And what about those who didn't buy a house?
They are free and casual, sometimes living in rented houses, sometimes in their parents' house.
Buy a car, subtract living expenses from your monthly income, and save the rest.
I have a post-95 generation next to me, who has saved 500,000 plus a car.
Do you say he can't afford a house? With a down payment, he could have bought a home locally.
After all, a small city with a house of 1 million can have many choices, but he just doesn't buy a house.
There is money in hand, and there is no panic in the heart.
It can only be said that young people do not buy houses because they do not want to overdraw the wallets of the elders in the family, and then bet on their fate for the next 20-30 years.
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Young people who do not marry
Open a platform with hot searches at random, and you will find that there are many entries for "young people do not get married".
Judging from the data on marriage and divorce in recent years, the divorce rate has gradually increased, while the marriage rate has gradually decreased.
The desire to marry seems to be getting lower and lower among young people.
"It's okay to fall in love, but marriage is free."
Can accept a relationship, but can't accept a lifetime marriage.
Analyzing the reasons why young people do not marry, it is none other than these:
1. The cost of marriage is too high
I saw a post from a male netizen.
He said:
"I don't want my marriage to crush my family, which is already in bad conditions; Bride price, buying a house, marriage, these will not only empty the family, but also borrow money to get married; Such a marriage, I would rather not. ”
On the one hand, the cost of marriage is relatively high, and both men and women need to pay material conditions for marriage.
On the other hand, it is also too costly to divorce.
Divorce means that some of your assets are given to your partner.
2. Have a negative attitude towards marriage
The more unhappy marriage experiences around, the lower the expectations of young people about marriage.
People are easily affected by their surroundings.
The happier and more positive the person, the better he can see beauty in his eyes;
And the more depressed the circle he is in, the more people who have an unhappy marriage, the lower his evaluation of marriage.
3. It's good to be single, and you don't want to be bound by marriage for a lifetime
This is what a lot of young people think.
They long for singleness, for freedom, for freedom.
With electricity on their phones, money in their pockets, and gas in their cars, they can take a journey on the go.
And entering into marriage means that they have to give up their free life at the cost of giving up their free life, which some people cannot tolerate.
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Young people who do not have children
Some time ago there was a hot search on the Internet:
Negative population growth occurred for the first time, and the number of births reached a record low.
What does this mean?
It means that more and more people don't want to have children anymore.
Those who gave birth to the first child don't want to have a second child, at least I do.
When I had a child, I became more and more afraid of having a second child.
Those who have just got married, plan to live a two-person world, and are not ready to have children.
Those who have not yet entered marriage are very resistant to the matter of children.
What are the reasons why young people do not have children?
1. I hope to live a two-person world for a while
2. There is no guarantee that you can assume the responsibilities of "parents"
3. I am still a small child
4. Choose Dink's life
5. For a period of time, do not prepare to have children
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Young man who does not screw up
You will find that today's young people seem to be "not screwed" either.
What is screwing?
Simply put:
Compete with yourself and be forced to join the ranks of involution.
Doing poorly and feeling anxious in the heart;
Compared to the people around them, anxiety, jealousy, panic;
Fear of the moment, dissatisfaction with yourself, emotional ups and downs.
But this state of screwing is rarely seen in young people.
Especially the post-00s.
If the post-90s generation still has concerns, then the post-00s will probably show the latest, most indifferent attitude to life.
Unwilling to follow the flow gradually, unwilling to compromise easily, more willing to choose the life you like.
No screwing, no internal consumption, no internal rolling.
Everyone's life is a mirror.
Everyone's life has their own choices.
But no matter how we choose, we can only try to do a good job and not regret our decision one day.
Today's Topic:
What do you think of the "four empty" of young people?
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