Ms. Liu, 60 years old, with a pension of 6,000 yuan, helped her daughter with children for nearly 5 years, but was angry at her son-in-law's behavior, did not eat food, and left overnight. Ms. Liu has only one

Ms. Liu, 60 years old, with a pension of 6,000 yuan, helped her daughter with children for nearly 5 years, but was angry at her son-in-law's behavior, did not eat food, and left overnight.

Ms. Liu has only one child, and after she retired, she was called by her daughter to help her with her children. During these five years, she not only had to take care of the children, but also cleaned up the housework and cooked three meals a day.

Although the daughter does not give money to buy vegetables, she will often ask if there is any money, whether there is enough money to buy vegetables, Ms. Liu said that yes, enough. But the son-in-law never expressed anything, not even a word of thanks.

The son-in-law's income is not low, thirty thousand per month, but he often complains that the money is not enough to spend, and always says that his mother is not in good health, the pension is very small, and he has to give some money for living expenses and buy some nutritional products. Therefore, every month he pays money to his wife, but he is indifferent to his mother-in-law, at most, except for the New Year every year, he gives more than 3,000 pieces of hard work to show his filial piety.

Ms. Liu is also dedicated to the sake of her daughter, after all, her pension is enough, her body is still healthy, and she thinks that it is lucky not to drag her daughter down, how to ask them for money again.

Now that her grandson has grown up, Ms. Liu wants to take a break, working hard to raise children in the first half of her life, and working hard to help her daughter watch her children in the second half of her life. It just so happens that his wife has also retired and can go back to accompany him. Several times he offered to leave, but he was retained by his daughter and son-in-law.

But on this day, the daughter and son-in-law quarreled in the room, heard their conversation, and Ms. Liu, who was ready to call for dinner, was cold.

My daughter said angrily: If I hadn't heard you call, I wouldn't have believed it, and I only learned that you did this kind of thing today. What do you really mean? You earn 30,000 a month, you give your mother more than 20,000, and you don't pay a penny for the money to buy vegetables at home? I thought you gave the money, I didn't give it.

The son-in-law said straightly: My mother is not in good health, and you are not unaware. I only started to give her a little more money last month, why are you so careful?

The daughter was more airway: Is my mother in good health? All 60-year-old people, as soon as it rains and becomes a day, rheumatic bone pain, do you care? What's wrong with your mom?? Only more than 50 years old, he travels every day and can run with pigeons in foreign squares. Don't you see that my mother has lost a lot of weight now, so don't worry about helping us watch the children? You send a lot of money to your mother, and you buy a bunch of nutritional supplements and health products, and I think the money she spends on the tour is all given by you. But what did you buy for my mom? Don't even buy a single piece of clothing, you haven't even bought a dishwashing glove.

The son-in-law said: My mother only has a pension of 2,000 yuan, she does not have enough to spend...

When Ms. Liu heard this, she didn't even eat food and went back to her home that night. No matter how much the daughter and son-in-law retained it, they did not stay any longer.

@ Solo Journey: Ms. Liu regards her son-in-law as her own son, but now she knows that people are not related by blood, so they do not regard her as a mother. The son-in-law almost gave his one-month salary to his mother-in-law, and he came to nibble on the mother-in-law, the old man. I feel that in his eyes, it is normal for the mother-in-law to take the baby, the hard work is also normal, and how much to pay is normal.

And how careless the daughter is, in the dark for so many years do not know, the original son-in-law did not give the mother a penny, so many years of family money to buy vegetables is the mother to pay the old money.

Some people say that the greatest evil of human nature is not knowing how to be grateful. When you get used to it, you forget to be grateful.

The son-in-law is devoted to his mother, grateful to his mother, only to feel sorry that his mother is not in good health and will be tired, but his mother can travel everywhere, and the grandson is handed over to the mother-in-law to bring. In the eyes, he chose to ignore the selfless contribution of his mother-in-law, did not know how to be grateful, and did not feel sorry for the hard work of the old man. This will indeed make the mother-in-law feel cold.

Although the mother-in-law is not a blood relative, she has been using her own old roots to subsidize her daughter and son-in-law over the years, and she did not expect that in the eyes of her son-in-law, she was just a free nanny. Such gratuitous efforts are not worth it.

The son-in-law has been favored by his mother-in-law for a long time, but instead of returning it, he has done something that makes people feel cold, and it is detrimental and unhelpful to be close to this kind of treacherous person for a long time!

For this kind of selfishness, disrespect for the labor of the mother-in-law, and do not know how to be grateful, the son-in-law cannot afford it! Strongly support the mother-in-law to stay away when she is treated unfairly at her daughter's home.

The mother-in-law has paid for the son-in-law's family for so long, if you think it is easy to take care of the children, it is better to let your own father and mother take care of it, and let them feel the joy of the world.

There is a saying that there are two kinds of people in this world who are the most rare, one is to give grace, and the other is to repay kindness. People should learn to be grateful, and even more to learn to be grateful. As a person, you can not be excellent, not excellent, but you cannot be unkind and ungrateful. Gratitude is a person's most sincere expression.

If you want the family to be warmer and more harmonious, you must have more understanding, more warmth, and more gratitude. Don't feel that everything you give and contribute to your family is deserved, and don't take everything for granted. Understanding the hardships of relatives and knowing gratitude are the most cultivated character of a person.