This big boy is still a little shy, and his temperament is different from that of his father' generation.
He said, "It's also a bit of a shame, but it's ok." ”
He is his mother's cousin and grandnephew, his parents are authentic farmers, he is the most able to study among the younger generations of the family, all the way to the university, and then admitted to graduate school.
After graduating with a master's degree last year, he ambitiously wanted to pursue another doctorate, but his father did not agree and insisted that he hurry home to work.
Father said: A rural baby read so many books to do, read more books, this baby has nothing to do with their own family, went to the big city, married the daughter-in-law of the big city, the relatives and friends of the hometown are faded, there is something in the family can not help, the old can not count on it, but also raise your baby What does it mean!
He resisted for a while, and under the threat of his father, he obediently returned to apply for a job at a provincial bank.
During the Spring Festival, my father sent him to the homes of relatives to pay respects to the New Year. He said that he would go to the elderly in the clan to visit the New Year, and he also prostrated his head a few times.
Looking at the family, your father said that you should listen to your father's expression, and I wanted to support him with the idea that he wanted to study for a doctorate, and I was very silent.
In the eyes of most elderly people, this father did the right thing, and when an excellent son is raised, he must assume his responsibilities, close ties with the family, shoulder the inheritance of the bloodline, and be responsible for the pension of his parents.
But there are still many parents around who are very different from traditional ideas.
They do their best to help their children achieve their dreams, they encourage their children to spread their wings and fly high, they send their children to big cities, they send them abroad, some of them meet for many years, and some of them go to foreign countries to take their children and work as nannies for their children in spite of their old age and infirmity.
I don't know what kind of parents do. I am an ordinary mother, my children are ordinary, my work is ordinary, I can't enjoy the glory brought by excellent children, and I don't feel that there is anything wrong with cooking for the children around me and doing housework.
But when I see my relatives and children, because my father prevented me from achieving my wish to study for a doctorate, I still think that this father has little knowledge after all, and it is not good for him to let his children chase their dreams?
Rousseau said that children are completely independent of their fathers, and have only the duty of respect and not the duty of obedience to their father. For giving back is only an obligation, not a right that can be imposed.
I still hope that excellent children can fly higher and farther.
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(Some pictures from the Internet)
