Are some women born to love and love and compete for the wind and jealousy? The key is to eat some vinegar that is not empty. No, I learned that I had already laid down a gun innocently in my previous unit, and because of the appearance of new girls, I was regarded as an ally.
That said, my last unit was in Beijing. Boss's father is an old man in his 90s.
Speaking of this old man, there is quite a bit of legend. He came from an extraordinary background, and he himself was also talented, proficient in poetry, seal carving, and article calligraphy, and was quite famous in the poetry, calligraphy and painting circles.
Although he is in his 90s, he still works in writing every day.
The old man had a cerebral infarction in his early years, was half-dead, and because of his advanced age and mobility problems, he needed a wheelchair to go out.
The old man has a special life and writing secretary, who usually takes care of his daily life and helps him print documents and articles.
It's just that this secretary is a guy in his early 20s, and his education is not very high. For the old man's manuscript words, some can not understand, often typing mistakes, need to be repeatedly revised, time-consuming and labor-intensive.
Therefore, the old man sometimes asked me to help him print the manuscript, and also entrusted me to help him sort out the old Japanese manuscripts for future publication into books.
As a result, my contact with the elderly has increased.
The old man works and lives in a room, his life secretary is often lazy, when the old man's night pot is not poured, I also dump it casually, because I and the old man are fellow countrymen, sometimes, I will also make a bowl of hand-rolled noodles for the old man in his hometown.
In my opinion, this is just a show of hands, after all, this is an old man worthy of admiration, and I don't have any other ideas about doing this.
However, this kind of behavior of mine has long fallen into the eyes of people with hearts.
This person, because of the privacy involved, temporarily called her Sister W.
Sister W is not my colleague, but the vice president of an YI hospital in Beijing and the director of a department, 50 years old this year.
She is a woman I greatly admire. Sister W is born beautiful, a pair of eyes are particularly charming, but probably jealous red face, she had a disease when she was a child, resulting in some small defects in the body, affecting the beauty.
Therefore, Sister W studied extremely hard, and after taking up the job, she actively specialized in business, united colleagues, and stepped into a management position step by step, and now she is also considered a successful career.
She has three apartments in the bustling part of beijing, and her daughter is also married into the rich, which can be said to be a very inspirational winner in life.
But because of her health, her other half is not her own good partner. She also told me that she was a Cinderella who would never wear red dancing shoes.
About 10 years ago, she met my boss's father by accident.
Out of worship, for more than 10 years, she has been volunteering to take care of the body of the elderly, living with the elderly every weekend, and all kinds of fruits, ginseng, Ginseng, etc., will not hesitate to buy to the elderly. Even the old man's underwear was washed by hand by hand.
To tell the truth, she did a better job of caring for and accompanying the elderly than the children of the elderly.
What kind of feelings does she have for the elderly? Probably no one can say it clearly. I think that the longevity of the old man must be closely related to her companionship and care.
If anyone thinks she's trying to make money, then it's wrong. First of all, Sister W's salary is very high, and she is not short of money. Moreover, the pension, all documents and other income of the elderly are in the hands of the children of the elderly, so it is impossible for outsiders to get any material benefits from the elderly.
In the WeChat chat between Sister W and me last night, she actually said that the new 23-year-old girl in the unit coveted the elderly, and she had to be wary.
It's just that the old man often asks the girl to go to his room at night to print documents, instead of calling other male employees of the company, in fact, I know that the old man is often busy until late at night.
Moreover, the girl and the old man are 70 years apart. 70-year-old age difference, what can be? It is nothing more than the granddaughter looking at the grandfather, and the grandfather seeing the granddaughter's liking.
But Sister W insisted on elevating it to male and female love, or some other attempt, and she even sent a V letter to warn the girl. Fortunately, the girl looks average, if the girl is a beautiful woman, Sister W does not know what to look like.
After that, I was also innocently shot. It turned out that in her mind, I was also a person with other ideas like the new girl.
I couldn't laugh or cry.
Even if the old man is talented and born extraordinary, he is also an old man who can be my grandfather. How could I possibly like it? How could there be any other mind?
No wonder Sister W was polite and distant to me before, but she was very attentive to her male colleagues in the company. I always thought that she looked down on me, a foreign drifter, but it turned out that she had already regarded me as an imaginary enemy.
Once, in front of the old man, she praised me for coming to Beijing to become beautiful, and I thought she was sincerely praising me, thinking that the water and soil of Beijing were more nurturing, but it turned out that she had ulterior motives.
Shortly after leaving Beijing, my V letter was blocked by the old man. At that time, I was still curious, this person had just left, the tea was cold, not at all like the old man's approachable style.
Only yesterday did I finally understand that this is all the behavior of Sister W, and she will fantasize about all the women who are close to the old man as enemies.
My world is very simple, and my interactions with people are extremely sincere. But I couldn't imagine that I had a deep affection for other people's sisters, but others were scheming with me.
I think the talent of the old man, probably completely let Sister W surrender, she will feel that all women will like the old man, will love the old man, will take the old man as their life goal to pursue, I really don't know what I can say at this moment?
Didn't she know, "Honey of A, Arsenic of B!" "What she likes may not be liked by others; what she loves may not be loved by everyone else."
She even joked that when the old man was about to like me, I withdrew and left, cheapening others in vain.
I almost burst out laughing. What brain circuits are these? Because of the emergence of a new enemy in her mind, I actually became her ally.
I am simple, but people's hearts are complicated!
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