Text: Xi Xihuan
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As the old saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, so many people prefer sons to daughters, thinking that sooner or later they will marry into someone else's family, and then their own small family can't take care of it, how can they still take care of their mother's family? Naturally, the matter of old-age care cannot be counted on.
The adopted son is different, the daughter-in-law who marries in the future is also to honor the in-laws, plus some old people feel that as an in-law, they pay for the bride price and buy a house, and they deserve the filial piety of their children.
However, not every parent can get the filial piety of their children as they wish, because if they raise children who do not know how to be grateful, even if they give more, in the end they will give in vain.
Neighbor Aunt Sun was deeply distressed, originally thought that she could enjoy her old age in old age, but she did not expect that her life was almost lost.
When she was young, Aunt Sun was a particularly strong woman, and her husband died unexpectedly in his thirties, when her son had just entered elementary school.
Many people have advised Aunt Sun to find another one, or it is too difficult for a woman to bring a son, but Aunt Sun did not listen, it is not that no one chased her, but she felt that if she remarried, she would have another child, and then her son might be wronged, which she could not accept.
In this way, Aunt Sun did a lot of work, what to give more money to do, even if it is hard to endure, and finally brought her son up, admitted to college, but she herself fell behind.
After her son graduated from college, Aunt Sun was not idle, she has been doing casual work, she thinks that in the future, her son will get married and have children, all of which are places where money is needed, taking advantage of their own ability to move, the body is strong, and they can earn a little.
In this way, until the son was thirty years old, and Aunt Sun was almost sixty years old, she became a mother-in-law, watching her son finally start a family, although the bride price and the marriage room hollowed out all her savings in this life, and she also owed foreign debts, she also felt happy in her heart and felt that she had an explanation for her husband who died early.
Originally, Aunt Sun thought that when her son got married, she would not work part-time, live on her own in the small house of her hometown, and not disturb the world of her son and daughter-in-law, although the retirement salary was not much, but she was accustomed to saving her life, but it was enough to spend.
However, shortly after marriage, the daughter-in-law became pregnant, and the son called her, saying that neither of them could cook, that he was usually busy at work, that there was no one at home to take care of his wife, and that he was not at ease, so he wanted her to live together.
In fact, to tell the truth, Aunt Sun is not willing to live in her son's house in the past, many of the old guys around her are living with their sons or daughters, but in the end they are tired enough but they are not good at all, she is not an old man, but she also knows that the two generations of life concepts and habits are not the same, and it is inevitable that there will be differences in living together.
However, the mother's nature can't see the son is embarrassed, the daughter-in-law's parents also have to bring grandchildren for their sons, and they can't take care of their daughters, so Aunt Sun can only pack her bags and take the train to her son's house the next day.
When I first went, the little two were particularly kind to Aunt Sun, praising her delicious food, and saying that the family had been much cleaner since she came.
Seeing that there is no headache between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Aunt Sun is also relieved and takes care of her daughter-in-law until the birth of her little grandson.
After the birth of the child, Aunt Sun and daughter-in-law gradually have differences in the care of children, the daughter-in-law pays attention to scientific feeding, and Aunt Sun also knows to keep pace with the times, but after all, she is old, sometimes the daughter-in-law does not remember the rules, and if she does it wrong, she must look at the daughter-in-law's face.
But if she left, her son would not be able to keep busy at all, and she would not be willing to talk about her little grandson, so she put up with it.
After the grandson went to kindergarten, there is no need for people to accompany her every day, Aunt Sun wants to go back to her hometown, to tell the truth, she is really reluctant to leave her grandson, but in the past few years living in her son's home, she is like a nanny, she has covered all the housework in the family, because the son and daughter-in-law spend a lot of money, never gave her living expenses, even the usual family to buy vegetables and other expenses are she spends her own pension.
The old bottom of the pension has been hollowed out, Aunt Sun has no complaints, but the son and daughter-in-law do not know more and more about gratitude, usually the dishes are not suitable, the clothes are not washed, and there is always a complaint, which really makes her feel cold.
Before she could propose to her son to come home, Aunt Sun fell ill and fainted in the community and was found by neighbors and sent to the hospital in time, although her consciousness was not very clear at that time, she could also hear the sounds around her.
After the son and daughter-in-law rushed over, the doctor said that surgery was needed as soon as possible, and if the blood clot was not treated, it was very likely to be life-threatening.
Hearing this, Aunt Sun was not afraid of death in her heart, she thought that she was tired for most of her life, and it was good to go like this.
However, her daughter-in-law's words surprised her, did not make her think, and made her completely cold.
At that time, the daughter-in-law saw her with her eyes closed, thinking that she was still in a coma, and said to her son: "I don't think this operation is done carefully, we don't have any savings now, and we still have to buy a school district house for the child, if the mother did this operation, the money was spent, but in the end it was not saved, is it not a water drift?" ”
Aunt Sun originally thought that her son was her own child, even if the daughter-in-law was cruel, the son could not see death and not save, but the son also hesitated, has not been able to make up his mind, Aunt Sun thought to herself, this is the son she has paid for most of her life to raise!
In the end, at the urging of the doctor, the son still paid the operation fee, fortunately, Aunt Sun finally recovered well and did not leave any sequelae.
After being discharged from the hospital, Aunt Sun insisted on returning to her hometown, not because she was stingy and hated her children, but because the reactions of her son and daughter-in-law when her life was hanging by the line were too disappointing to her.
Parents often do not ask for anything in return for their children, and may always count their children in their mouths, but in fact they are actually the most selfless.
Crows still know how to feed back, let alone be born as human beings? Many working-class parents have worked hard for most of their lives, they are reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, in order to make their children live better, to be able to encounter less walls in society, even if they lose their smiles, they do not care about grievances, but in the end their children are not grateful, and even complain that their parents are impatient.
Children should know that how you treat your parents, may be seen by your children, filial piety is a virtue of downward inheritance, if you are grateful to your parents, filial piety to your parents, then your children will also support you well in the future, otherwise it will be negatively affected, and your own old age is actually pit by yourself.
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