When my relatives first got married, they worked with low wages and loved to buy clothes. A wardrobe is full, and of course it's all cheap clothes. The mother-in-law always said that she spent money indiscriminately. In recent years, I have money, clothes are bought, and the price is still expensive. Snacks are also bought box by box. The mother-in-law still thinks that she spends money indiscriminately, but she speaks differently. Say that the daughter-in-law's money earns herself to spend how to spend it, but also said that she is busy at work, eat less food, snacks to eat more is also to supplement nutrition. So women also have to improve themselves.
The bad habits of the countryside for thousands of years have favored sons over daughters. The mouth shouts that the son and daughter are the same, in fact, there is money thinking about the son, thinking of the daughter when spending money, as if spending the daughter's money is spending other people's money, not painful, and the daughter is good at bullying, even if a few words will not remember revenge. Afraid of the son is mainly afraid of the daughter-in-law, that careful ah.
This leads to a tacit idea in the blind date market, who dares to find a phoenix man! There are a lot of things in the family, and you have to eat soft rice and hard food. Who dares to touch the brother demon? In the future, I will not buy a house for my brother, and I will not divorce her?
The fear of the Brother Demon is not unfounded, and it is prudent to think carefully, it is wise to stay away from the lady who has a brother in the house, what if, what if your wife is a god-hating Brother Demon? After all, marriage is not a child's play, and it is understandable to be cautious. The younger brother is fine, regardless of men and women, he has a better job, if the younger brother's economic situation is not so good, the marriage will definitely be affected.
Indeed, my brother did not work before a lot of disgust my brother is still in college, and then my brother worked, the unit is very good, my family economy is OK, my marriage is also solved, can only say that the previous blind date is short-sighted, my own iron rice bowl work, urban family, family has a house and a car, what can my mother's family ask me to do?! I can only say that I think too much.
This is the reality, good health, life can take care of themselves even if one person lives no problem, most of the parents do not want to become a burden on their children, they are afraid of getting very old, they have to count on their children, at that time they can't help themselves, the two families that are only children are indeed very specific.
There are two brothers are also married to the female doctor from the countryside is also at the bottom of the chain of contempt, a question about the situation at home have run, when you are young, you can understand that there is no need to nibble, and now that you are so old, the family with many children does not have a little advantage of old age. The sister in the countryside is like this, the city is better, otherwise how will the sky-high bride price come. It is not terrible that a girl has a brother in her family, but it is terrible that the girl's family is poor and has a younger brother.
Boys have younger brothers, it is a bunch of things, basically one of the sons will be hard to pit, and the son who is pit still feels nothing, the in-laws do not give any property to this son and take out the son's money to let the daughter-in-law find a way to raise herself and the children she has, and the man who helps the brother and the devil will be more terrifying than the woman!
Whether it is to help the brother demon or the two brothers, it is difficult, but the two sisters are very simple, in the end, the man has become a burden to the brothers and sisters.
Therefore, middle school is actually the purest time, and at this time, the person who likes to become the object of marriage will be happier. Before entering the society, the campus love is more youthful and simple, and there is a hint of love, but when you enter the society, you will be complicated by the feelings based on material or marriage is more transactional, to see the marriage notice is more demanding than the recruitment conditions, and the marriage with love is less divorced and not married. It is not the low end of the contempt chain but the asymmetry of capital, you like to look down on you, like your you do not look up, the three views of discord is also caused by class differences.
Of course, there are also opposite views, some people think it is very good to have a brother, just like I married someone who left my parents, there is a sick, tricky thing can not appear around my parents in time, my brother and my parents live together, there are some things my brother has solved, a lot of them are only known to me afterwards, I feel that I have a brother I am a lot easier, if I am an only child, you can imagine how much pressure I will have.
In fact, many girls with good family conditions, her brother is also very capable, they all say that they rely on men to support their families, many men feel that they can raise wives and children, how can the wife's brother also be a man, and he has no ability to lose? In fact, if the wife is an only child, the future two children will have to take care of four elderly people, if the wife has a younger brother, most of the energy to take care of the father-in-law and mother-in-law can be saved, it is the wife and brother to do.
When the other party believes in their hearts that the girl is a brother-in-law demon, if they continue to communicate until they get married, there is also a gap in their hearts. When you doubt whether a watermelon is ripe or not, you have the idea of splitting it, and it doesn't matter whether it is ripe or not.
Women with younger brothers are not all single, there are many happy people after marriage, phoenix men are the same, everyone's concept of marriage and love, values are not the same, they like it. Happiness is actually your own feelings. Whether it is to help the brother's wife or the brother's husband, there is no problem in itself, the key is how to support, and the state and quality of the person being supported. The so-called help, can not raise lazy people, rescue emergency does not save the poor. Men mature late, my daughter will get married in the future, I will certainly not let her live with her parents, all need space, live close to each other can help each other.
It can only be said that in the case of choice, marry a wife without marrying Voldemort, and marrying someone without marrying a phoenix man. Phoenix men have eaten soft rice and hard food all their lives, they are more than sixty, and they also post money to their brothers and sisters all day long. Stickers in the open, stickers in the dark. A lifetime to glorify the ancestors of the childhood family!
A friend next to me said: I have a sister, I myself will soon enter the age of 25, no one to give me a blind date, now find a suitable boyfriend is really difficult, college does not talk about love, graduation to find a boyfriend is too difficult! The circle is so big, the suitable one is not available, I feel that I am not picky, it is close to home, the man's height is 175 on the line, why is it so difficult.
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