Some people say that it is a real couple to come together poorly and come all the way through hardship.
Indeed it is.
The real husband and wife, no matter how many winds and frosts have passed, are still by each other's side, and they will not abandon each other.
Not long ago, a "veteran learned that his ex-wife was seriously ill but resolutely remarried" news rushed to the hot search.
The story of this middle-aged couple watching out for each other has warmed the hearts of countless people in this cold winter.
In 2019, the couple parted ways because of the trivialities of life. But the husband Chen Zhenfeng could not let go of his wife Xie Hongxia, so he kept in touch.
After a casual chat with his wife's relatives, he learned that his wife had suffered from uremia not long after the divorce. But the wife was a strong man and said nothing about him.
Husbands who know the truth have offered to remarry many times, but the wife always refuses, saying that she does not want to drag anyone down.
But the husband insisted repeatedly, and the wife finally softened her heart and agreed to remarry.
After remarriage, the husband alone shouldered the burden of life. The husband is a staff member of the local transportation bureau, with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, while the wife's monthly treatment cost is 6,000 yuan, and the later kidney transplant also requires 800,000 yuan.
In order to treat his wife's illness, the husband worked part-time after work, desperately taking orders, and working until 12 o'clock at night every day. But this hard-earned money is a drop in the bucket for high medical bills.
The husband's next plan is to sell the house they are now living in and continue to treat their wives.
Many people have been touched by the couple's deeds, and the local civil affairs department and the husband's community are applying for assistance for them. Caring people from all walks of life have also donated money, sending them more than 20,000 yuan.
Husband Chen Zhenfeng said: "There is no obstacle that cannot be crossed, I just want to take my lover's hand and continue to walk so firmly!" ”
There is a saying: "Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when the great trouble comes." ”
However, in real life, there are always people who use their most ordinary lives to interpret the most moving stories.
There is a passage in "Paper Marriage" that reads: "Deciding to marry a person only requires a moment of courage and protection of a marriage, but it takes a lifetime of dedication." ”
Whether it is health or illness, we can face it together, which is the true meaning of husband and wife.
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In the eleventh year of taiyuan (386), the life of the Eastern Jin dynasty calligrapher Wang Xianzhi came to an end.
On his deathbed, someone asked him, "Have you ever done anything wrong in your life?" ”
Wang Xianzhi replied, "I don't feel anything, but I often think of the separation from Xi Daomao." ”
Xi Daomao was Wang Xianzhi's original wife. Wang Xianzhi and Xi Daomao grew up together, which can be described as a green plum bamboo horse, Lang Cai female appearance. Xi Daomao was also born in a family of official eunuchs, and wang Xianzhi was even more of a door-to-door match.
The two are sincere and like-minded. After getting married, the couple often wrote poems at the foot of Yunmen Mountain, raised their eyebrows, and lived a comfortable life of "walking to the water's poor place and watching the clouds rise".
But the happy life is always short-lived, less than half a year after marriage, the parents of both sides have died one after another, and the only daughter has unfortunately died.
Fortunately, the couple cherished each other, supported each other, and slowly walked out of grief.
But unfortunate things happen again. Princess Xin'an, admiring Wang Xianzhi's talent, swore that she would not marry him, so she asked the emperor to order Wang Xianzhi to divorce his wife and remarry.
Wang Xianzhi was naturally unwilling, so he did everything he could to resign, even burning his feet with wormwood, and asking the emperor to take back his life on the grounds of "lameness and no match for a princess".
But Princess Xin'an did not spare herself, bluntly saying that no matter what Wang Xianzhi became, she would marry him.
Wang Xianzhi weighed the pros and cons of all parties, and finally could only endure the pain of giving Xi Daomao a break.
Xi Daomao, whose parents died, was left homeless after being suspended, and could only live in his uncle's house. In the following years, he never married again, and he was lonely and depressed.
Wang Xianzhi was married at the behest of the king, and soon he was in an important position. In his dying years, Wang Xianzhi's greatest regret was that he had retired Xi Daomao and was able to survive.
When life encounters difficulties, marriage encounters crisis, and the two people of the original husband and wife are separated, we can understand.
But when the marriage encounters a severe test, there is no departure, mutual protection, and the two people who face each other together are closer to the essence of the husband and wife.
In 1989, Stetson and Chen Ximi married. At this time, Shi Tiesheng was 38 years old, and Chen Ximi was only 28 years old, but this did not prevent them from falling in love.
Shi Tiesheng and Chen Ximi met because of literature. In 1979, Chen Ximi, who was studying at the university, read Shi Tiesheng's article in the school magazine and was conquered by his talent.
Subsequently, Chen Ximi became the editor of the school magazine and got the contact information of Shi Tiesheng, after which the two began to communicate frequently through letters. With the deepening of the exchange, the two gradually became familiar with each other, from talking only about literary issues at the beginning, to talking about their dreams later, and finally becoming close friends who talked about everything.
Once, Shi Tiesheng fell ill and was hospitalized, and Chen Ximi learned about it and traveled thousands of miles from Shaanxi to Beijing to take care of him. During their time together in the hospital, the two interacted more closely, and even sparked a spark of love.
Shortly after Shi Tiesheng was discharged from the hospital, Chen Ximi resolutely married Shi Tiesheng, who was paralyzed in both legs, despite the strong opposition of his family and friends.
Life after marriage is sweet. Chen Ximi pushed Shi Tiesheng around the park, watching movies and blowing the sea breeze. Shi Tiesheng wrote poems for Chen Ximi, read poems, and told stories.
The writer Tie Ning once recalled the scene of visiting Shi Tiesheng's home: "In a small house of less than 70 square meters, Chen Ximi personally and dough and toasted bread, this home full of bread fragrance, neat, simple, warm, so dignified, every day they live, so affectionate and righteous. They read and talked and read Nietzsche together, and he told her about his past, about his mother, about his first love, and she always listened to it with tears in her eyes. “
Shi Tiesheng once wrote a poem for Chen Ximi: "Ximi, Ximi, seeing you is like seeing hometown, and all the looks I am familiar with." Hemi, Hemi, you come to the night to understand the expectation, you come to the day to see through the fence. ”
Chen Ximi also wrote for Stetson: "Besides you, who else do I have in heaven?" I have no love on earth but you. ”
Can feel happiness together, can walk through the wind and rain together, do not give up, is a real couple.
Husbands and wives pay each other, understand each other, do not abandon each other, stay together for a lifetime, are thin water and long flow, hand in hand to old age.
Truly touching love is to share hardships together, enjoy bitterness, rely on each other, and use the years to jointly guard a true feeling and a persistence.
Real couples, able to withstand the temptation of money and fame, endure an ordinary and silent life.
May there be no years to look back on, and to share a white head with affection.
Text / Cold