Gorky once said: Marriage is the spiritual union of two people, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together.
Yi Shu also wrote in "The First Half of My Life": Why people want to get married, it is not because life is not easy, they need to find someone to help each other.
Why should people get married, and can't they live a good life alone? In fact, the reason why people want to get married is not because they want to find someone to share happiness and hardships and tide over difficulties together. If after marriage, the other party can't even do the most basic happiness and suffering, then the rest is free to talk about.
01, the husband's monthly salary is 20,000, and the wife is deceived to say 10,000
Mo Qiao and her husband have been married for 5 years, and Mo Qiao was an only child with a good family background, while her husband was a phoenix man from the countryside, and her original family background was very general.
Everyone is not optimistic about them, thinking that Mo Qiao is a flower planted on cow dung, even if the husband has the ability to play again, it is only a low-grade version of the phoenix man. Mo Qiao did not believe in evil, insisted on choosing her husband, and married her husband in a high profile, because she always thought that her husband was a potential stock, but she had not yet met his Bole.
In the third year after marriage, my husband really began to exert his strength, promoted and raised his salary, and became full of spirit. Mo Qiao was particularly happy in his heart, over the years, he and his parents had endured too many gossip from others, and now her husband had finally proved himself with strength.
However, when Mo Qiao asked her husband for a salary card, her husband refused, saying that he had a monthly salary of 10,000, and could only give Mo Qiao 5,000 per month, and the remaining 5,000 had to repay the mortgage and his own social expenses.
Although Mo Qiao didn't believe it, her husband said it well, and she had to compromise. Just 5,000 yuan, or not enough to spend, especially after the family has children, Mo Qiao had to take out his own salary to subsidize the family. Sometimes her parents would subsidize some money from time to time.
02, the husband cheated on his wife, just to secretly help his parents and brother buy a house
If it were not for Mo Qiao's inadvertent discovery that her in-laws, who had no financial ability and a lazy little uncle, suddenly bought a house in the county, Mo Qiao had not yet discovered that her husband had cheated on her.
Mo Qiao saw that his in-laws and uncles could buy a house in the county with their own ability, and they had not yet borrowed money from them, which was particularly incredible. In his hometown, the in-laws rely on doing odd jobs to earn some living expenses to subsidize the family, and the little uncle has been in a state of not being able to support himself since he came out to break into the society, where is the remaining money to buy a house?
But Mo Qiao asked his in-laws and uncle, and they were all tight-lipped, but they only said that they were thrifty and used the down payment they had saved. Until Mo Qiao inadvertently found a transfer on her husband's mobile phone, she understood that the house of her in-laws and uncles, where they were bought by their own ability, was completely the masterpiece of her husband's foolish filial son.
Mo Qiao took a screenshot and took this screenshot to ask her husband, but her husband refused to admit it at first, only saying that Mo Qiao thought too much. However, when the facts were in front of him, his husband bowed his head and admitted that he was also a piece of filial piety, and his parents had emptied the family foundation in order to provide him with study, and after so many years of hard work, he should also get his return and filial respect.
Her husband's confession made Mo Qiao feel very uncomfortable. She thinks that she and her husband have been married for so many years, but they have never known him. His monthly salary was obviously 20,000, but he lied to himself that he only had 10,000, and then took all the salary he saved to buy a house for his parents and brother, and also lied to her in-laws.
03, the husband always refuses to hand in the pay card
Thinking that he was obviously the closest pillow person to his husband, but he didn't even know his husband's most basic financial situation, Mo Qiao's heart was particularly uncomfortable.
The husband is behind her back to buy a house for her parents and brother this time, then next time, is it still behind her back to pay off the mortgage to her parents and brother, otherwise with the little uncle's ability to even feed himself, how to repay the mortgage on time every month?
She did not believe that her husband would stand by and watch, nor did she believe that her in-laws would bear to watch her younger son suffer, but she did not turn to her eldest son for help. Thinking that he was taking the dowry and taking his parents' pension money to support the family and raise the children, while the husband took his hard-earned money to adopt his parents and raise his brother, Mo Qiao admitted that he was envious and jealous.
But even though her husband spread out and said it, he still refused to hand over the salary card to Mo Qiao, and even told Mo Qiao that his parents were older and left more money on him in case his parents needed it from time to time.
Mo Qiao was silent, her heart was cold, and she thought of divorce for the first time. Just looking at his son, who was still young, he hesitated again. But when is the husband subsidizing the in-laws and when is it a head?
Today's Topic:
Do you support Mo Qiao's divorce?