When it comes to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many people subconsciously put the two in opposite positions, as if the mother-in-law is born as a pair of enemies, but there seems to be no source of conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is annoying, and now many girls are afraid of marriage, and some of them are afraid of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, afraid of being bullied by their mother-in-law after marriage.
Just as the so-called ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law, why put the mother-in-law in front of the west?
Because for a family, the daughter-in-law must be at a disadvantage when she first marries in, whether it is the father-in-law or the husband, it has been managed by the mother-in-law for many years.
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a conflict, the two are likely to not help much, and even become the accomplice of the mother-in-law, at this time the daughter-in-law is isolated and helpless.
I saw that some netizens shared a very distressing video, a mother-in-law accused her daughter-in-law of knowing to buy and buy all day, and wasted all the money her son earned.
In the eyes of the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law does nothing all day, but spends money endlessly, which is simply the biggest scourge in the family and drags down her family.
The daughter-in-law was furious after listening to it, and the daughter-in-law said bluntly: "As far as I am the easiest, am I the most relaxed in this family", it is obvious that the daughter-in-law does not approve of the mother-in-law's statement.
However, the mother-in-law said that you only know money all day long, and you keep buying it all day long, and the mother-in-law bluntly says that the daughter-in-law is not a good person.
Although there are no dirty words in these few words, the harm to people is very great, and the daughter-in-law is angry and directly asks: "Is it because I scold myself afterwards that I am a bad person?" ”
It turned out that this woman and her husband were married twice, and it was not easy to be a stepmother, and as a result, she came to such a difficult mother-in-law, and life can be imagined.
I thought that the two people were arguing, but the mother-in-law came up and gave the daughter-in-law a big ear scraper, listening to the sound is not the usual force, the mother-in-law obviously used a very large force.
The wronged woman originally wanted to cry for comfort from her husband, but the husband ran over and not only did not comfort himself, but also helped his mother to accuse his wife.
The husband said: "You ran over to talk to your mother-in-law, you are wrong, do you understand", many netizens have said that they can't understand, don't know who made the rules.
Women are also angry, slightly crying to say that what is their fault, in this home on their own easy, on their own birth is the most relaxed.
The video of just a few seconds has triggered a lot of netizens to discuss, and many netizens have said that after watching these few seconds of video, they probably know why his ex-wife divorced him.
Some netizens said that the mother-in-law is also the daughter-in-law who came over, and it should be understood that a woman is not easy, how now after becoming a mother-in-law, she has become an evil mother-in-law who is difficult for her daughter-in-law.
Seeing that the daughter-in-law is not the kind of person who is fancy, she must have done a lot of housework, although she did not go out to make money, but also paid labor.
The money earned by the husband is not all the husband's, it should be called the joint property of the husband and wife, and it is also natural to spend a little, and the mother-in-law has no need to make such a fuss.
Maybe their life in that era was relatively difficult, and everyone was more diligent and thrifty, but if the daughter-in-law did not spend randomly, and bought some things that the family needed, the mother-in-law did not have to find trouble.
Moreover, looking at the daughter-in-law's kind of person who loves to spend money indiscriminately, the mother-in-law directly comes up and smokes her mouth, and her son's ignorance is in stark contrast to the woman.
Many netizens have said that when they meet such a family, they will leave early, otherwise they will become more and more painful in the future, and the man will obviously not be distressed at all, and he will maintain his mother without a bottom line.
It's very realistic that your mother-in-law can smoke a big ear scraper today and hit you with a stick tomorrow, and no one in this family can help you yet.
Marriage is to run to happiness, to make each other better, not to suffer, to be slapped by others, but to become the object of rejection by others.
If the woman chooses to swallow her anger, the mother-in-law will definitely feel that you are a bully, and will bully you more brazenly in the future, so that you will completely become a puppet without your own thoughts and can drive the object for the other party for free.
Even if the daughter-in-law spends money a little indiscriminately, the mother-in-law can accuse a few words, but there is no need to come up and slap, and the few words spoken by the woman's husband are more in character.