A person's good for you has good family affection, good friendship, and the same good for love.
The goodness of family affection is related to blood relations, it supports you unconditionally, encourages you, does not need your return, just wants you to take good care of yourself, and do not treat yourself badly when you go out.
The goodness of friendship is related to interests, because there are no eternal friends in the world, only eternal interests. As long as you pay a little, the other party will pay a little, you turn your face, the other party immediately does not want to pay attention to you, think that there is something wrong with you, the friendship boat said to turn over, very real.
But love is not as plastic as friendship, nor as precious as family affection, but it is a very special feeling. As long as you give a little, the person who likes you will pay you back half. The heartbeat of love cannot be explained clearly in words, but the other party wants to be good to you continuously.
But the other party can't give you the following things, don't blindly pay, after all, everything has a shelf life, love is no exception, often you pay the most, and finally the other party's attitude towards you has a polar opposite.
1, willing to spend money for you
Although it is said that family and friendship will spend money for you when it comes. But affection spends money for you because you have family blood flowing in your body, God gave your parents to you, let your parents raise you, provide you with food and drink, parents do not ask you to return anything to them, just think that you can do what you like, be a happy person.
Friendship spends money for you because you can close each other's friendship, please eat or send you something, does not mean that there is really only one party to pay, are to be polite, if only friends spend money for you, but you do not give them anything, they will feel that you do not understand the sophistication, is a stingy person, slowly will alienate you.
In love, there is both the power of family affection and the interests of friendship. Love, because one of the parties is interested in the other, if you are in love, you will slowly have the result of being together, willing to spend money for you, because you are worth it. Willing to spend money for you is not necessarily to love you, but it must be to cherish you, care about you, and have you in your heart, otherwise, you will not spend money on people who do not have good feelings.
Therefore, no matter how good the object is, it is better to spend money on you.
2. Take the time to accompany you
As the saying goes, "Companionship is the longest confession of affection." ”
Spending money for you only gives you external satisfaction, but the spirit is not satisfied. People who are not spiritually satisfied are more likely to produce betrayal. For example, long-distance love, when sad, he is not around; when sad, there is no his embrace; when happy, there is no joy that he shares by watching himself around; he has a cold and fever, he is just a sentence of "drink more hot water", "take care of yourself more", "I will come back to see you after I am busy with this side of work", etc., more or less helpless, but more disappointed.
Couples who are not around, others are more likely to take advantage of the void, others can take care of your object at any time, maybe your object will also think that since others know how to take care of me, why does he not come back in my mind?
Therefore, it is easy to have an emotional crisis, the difficulty of long-distance love is that the other party is not by their side, many unknown things in the future, the people encountered are also various, it is inevitable that couples will not be able to withstand the test.
Companionship can fill the spiritual emptiness, such as parents often accompany their children when they are young, children will have a sense of dependence on their parents, reluctant parents, there is a lot of love for parents, but if parents go out to work for a long time, leave their children to the care of the elderly, children will not have much love for their parents, but children will think: why parents will abandon themselves, is not not loving me.
Companionship, in love, is a way to draw closer to each other and generate trust, which plays a very important role.
3. Trust you
Because when every couple is together, both men and women want to know each other's past, but it does not mean that the other party does not love you, but the other party wants to know more about you, and then formulate a way to get along with you next.
Both men and women will hear the information of the object through each other's friends, but everyone cannot be liked by everyone, so there are always some people who do not like you, and when your object asks what kind of person you were before, they will say a lot of bad things about you, and smear you more and more. At this time, your object can still be on your side, indicating that he trusts you, and he will stay away from those people.
epilogue:
There is no straight man in the world who does not understand love, and if there is, he just does not love you and does not want to pay for you. If he really likes you, he must know how to do it, because men sometimes think more and have more delicate thoughts than women.