"I really hate long-distance love" survived a long-distance relationship, is it a lifetime?

Seeing such a lengthy headline, I believe that many people's reaction is: "This is most likely a rotten youth movie." A little more nutritious sigh is: "Chinese films are not short of money, what is missing is imagination." But if you think about it, it is the first domestic film work to focus on "long-distance love", which is in line with the love psychology of Chinese young people. It is estimated that it has poked at the nerves of many people, and the "number of people who want to see" on the cat's eye has reached 120,000, so that the release team has advanced the release date from the sweet 5.20 to the fierce and cruel May 1st file, which is enough to reflect the confidence of the main creative team. To be fair, "Long-distance Love" has only a small probability of becoming a classic film in the history of Chinese film, and it cannot bring out some big stars like "Waiting Alone" or "CarryIng Love to the End" and other love bibles, but "long-distance love" has become an unavoidable topic in Chinese society, which is not only related to the love trend of young people, but also reflects the imbalance in China's regional economic development. In fact, long-distance relationships and migrant workers, left-behind children, and the three-child policy are all urban-derived problems of a one-type nature.

The film tells the story of a long-distance relationship that is in love but tested by distance: after graduating from high school, Zhao Yi confessed to Xu Jiashu, who had been secretly in love for many years, but his fate began a long-distance relationship. They firmly believe that surviving a long distance is a lifetime, as long as they love each other, distance is not a problem. The film uses warm colors and brisk BGM, coupled with a face of "squeezing out the water", the director seems to be deliberately beautifying long-distance love, but when the love on the mobile phone screen is weak, and the entanglement and confusion around them rush in, everyone hates long-distance love.

Long-distance relationship, a relationship with the phone

The story of the movie is not complicated, and the acting skills and old drama bones are incomparable, but the youthful face, the sparkling white legs, and the "fawn bumping" in the bathroom can also gain a good audience. There is no doubt that mobile phones play an important role in long-distance relationships, and the creators have adopted "bubble pictures" to strengthen it, and have done a lot of articles around mobile phones. This also seems to be in line with the psychological characteristics of young people, the number of "want to see" is high, and young people contribute very much. For example, one of the daily routines of long-distance love is to send "thinking of you" on the mobile phone, and then cooperate with the careful heart of kissing. Also, early morning greetings and good night before going to bed also rely on mobile phones to become the standard for long-distance relationships, more precisely, only in long-distance, there is this standard.

In addition, this is an era of "sharing", young people can share everything in daily life through the circle of friends and live broadcasts, and people in long-distance relationships generally have a strong desire to share. In such a situation, the advantage is to textize and visualize the ordinary life, which is expected to amaze the work; the disadvantage is "this is really not life".

The thousands of words and WeChat expressions in the mobile phone are not worth a hug of "face to face" or a smooth encounter. Now, mobile phones have become a part of human beings, which creates the illusion of "24 hours online". As a result, lovers always expect the information to be "seconds back", hoping to be as fast as the physiological response. Based on this, in addition to acting as a daily communication tool, mobile phones will more often bring suspicion and anxiety. In the film, the girlfriend often asks Zhao Yi a series of questions, which makes her feel sad: if she can see her boyfriend on the mobile phone every day, she does not have to listen to the girlfriend's broken thoughts every day.

In fact, mobile phones can bring information, bring instant communication, but do not bring breath, taste and touch, even the snoring of men and the cold hands and feet of girls on menstrual leave, these are valuable experiences in love.

Love without touch, simply soulless. If you extend the time again, it is easier to cause suspicion, such as Zhao Yiyi will complain: the message reply speed is getting slower and slower, the number of words is getting less and less, is this a manifestation of "lack of love"? In addition, any picture of the girl or the traces that have appeared will trigger a discussion, and the five girls will enter the "vicious circle of suspicion", but inadvertently accelerate this cycle.

Surviving a long distance, there is no life

The line skills of young actors are not as good as those of the old drama bones, but there are also some wonderful sentences, such as "The Cold War is something that children do, and I want to solve it in an adult way", or "You go out naked, give him a big surprise", and "This kind of girl grabs a lot on the street, she has no characteristics". These fresh and dramatic dialogues, which are pervaded in the trailer, have a very powerful "drainage effect". Of course, the finishing touch of the movie should also be: surviving a different place is a lifetime.

In fact, surviving a long distance is a lifetime. This line is really quite good, and it is estimated that it is also the divine stroke of a playwright, full of romanticism, but such a value is quite naïve, or it is just a painkiller used to resist the "pain of lovesickness", or a deformed product of "traditional culture".

In fact, love, marriage, childbearing, and even the whole life is a "process." Humans are born to find happiness, not to stay up for a while and wait for happiness. For example, traditional Chinese culture believes that learning is bitter, to boil, to hang the head, cone thorn stock, tiger stool pepper water; one day, the champion and the first, will forget the sage book into the belly of the dog, everyone hates it because of boiling; giving birth to children is also bitter, until the children graduate, get married, and the grandchildren grow up, and the parents will not be able to survive. The reason why a simple "boiling" word should be cursed is that it "bitter" the main theme of life.

Now, the word "boiling" has come to plague long-distance relationships. When Zhao Yiyi finally confessed to Xu Jiashu, when the two sides expressed their love for each other to confirm, when the two of them swore to greet each other by phone and short message every day, at that moment, they were really happy, but with a time dimension, a "boiling" word, so that each other was absent from each other's lives, which meant that the sweetness of love had deteriorated. If you really survive it, your heart will die.

Obviously, long-distance love is very annoying, but it has to be said that it will also exist for a long time, the earlier the love, the easier it is to go to a different place: Zhao Yiyi high school confessed Xu Jiashu, a choice question will let them go to different cities; college graduation to find a job, every year is the most difficult employment season in history, the two sides are likely to part ways; even if they work for many years, have children, but also face the expansion of the company, the establishment of branches overseas, often open up new markets and other conditions. Perhaps, we can only accept the long-term existence of long-distance relationships, patiently dispose of it, and survive a lifetime. (Science Fiction Galaxy Constantine/Text)