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I saw a topic on the Internet: "How much do long-distance couples need to feel safe?" ”
Perhaps, the most terrible thing for a long-distance couple is not that I need to be alone to live the life that belongs to both of us.
Rather, when I need you, you will never be with me.
1. The sense of security I need
Why do long-distance relationships need more security than local ones? Because, you're in love with someone you can't touch.
Your life trajectories are different, you are doing different things, and you will not feel the empathy of other couples for each other.
It is possible that you are eating breakfast and the other party has already started work; your copywriting is hard to write, and the other party opens the meeting do not disturb mode.
It's hard to finish the day, you think that the other party can finally have time to accompany you, but he still has endless socializing.
Therefore, the reason why long-distance relationships are easy to quarrel. It is because of the lack of companionship that a higher degree of crisis is lacking.
You are not with me, and even contact has become a luxury. Such love, of course, will make more people feel insecure.
Later, you began to quarrel, began to express your dissatisfaction and distrust of the other party, and had to end up unhappy.
2. Rules for getting along with long-distance relationships
In fact, long-distance couples, in comparison, they need to be more careful to maintain their feelings.
And that's not hard. That is nothing more than not cold war; not losing contact; not turning over old accounts; not engaging in ambiguity; and not breaking the contract.
I once watched a video where a little girl would show her boyfriend the funny things she had experienced every day.
During the day, the boyfriend is busy at work and may not be able to reply to a message for a day, but he will reply to the girl's message one by one after returning home at night.
When a girl needs him, even if he can't show up on his own, he will find a way to make the other person feel his presence.
A promise to the other person will never be a blank promise. They are all working hard, looking forward to the day of the reunion.
Until the end of the boys' assignment, they got married, had children, and lived happily. This is where lovers in long-distance relationships eventually become dependents.
In fact, there is no naturally suitable love in this world, and those who go down are laborious.
3. Please let me know that you love me
A person who loves you will naturally reject ambiguity for you. And those who come do not refuse, often because of loneliness and love.
For long-distance couples, loyalty is really a big hurdle. After all, there are always people who think they have an opportunity.
So, if you're in a long-distance relationship and identify with that person, then, please reject all ambiguity.
Don't say you can't identify, anyone who has no reason to be nice to you and tries to have an intimate act must have ulterior motives.
Love this thing is not just talking. It takes giving, it takes commitment, it needs to be implemented with tangible proof in all aspects of life.
Whether it is a long-distance relationship or a local relationship, the most important thing is that you want to let each other know through your actions, and he is the most right choice.
4. Romance should not be lost to distance
If you really meet a loved one, even if it is an exotic love, they can come together.
So don't feel that it's because you're off the same place that you have to leave the person you promised with regret.
The reason why you are separated is not because of a long-distance relationship, but because you both know that the other person will not be the one who will give you the final result.
If that's the case, giving up is an ending, at the very least, so that you're qualified to meet a better life.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.