Picture: Heap sugar (invasion and deletion) Text: Little Dream
【Night Dream Talk, Little Dream Listening】: The whole network has the same name, welcome to pay attention, reprint please authorize, plagiarism must be investigated! Looking forward to your story.
Some time ago, I saw a large number of pushes on the Internet about the lives of ordinary people after the opening of the two-child and three-child policies.
In those pushes, it seems that families with several children are all happy.
However, the netizens in the comment area almost did not agree much, and even satirized that such a push was too one-sided.
A netizen said: "In recent years, there are more and more ways to promote marriage, but how many people will really believe these contents?" ”
1. I haven't forgotten, and I'm having a hard time
A video of a six-year-old girl left on the bus on the Internet was pushed to the hot search.
In the video, the mother goes out alone with two children, and the girl lies on her mother's lap and sleeps soundly due to the long distance.
But when the car arrived at the station, the mother woke up the eldest daughter and went down with the stroller. She thought her daughter would follow.
However, the daughter who was sleeping soundly at that time did not realize that the mother next to her got out of the car, and did not find out until ten minutes later and cried.
After the incident, with the help of the bus company, the girl returned to her mother's side, and her mother was also helplessly interviewed.
She said: "I thought she would come up and I was alone with two kids. I also have my own difficulties. ”
In fact, when netizens are complaining about this woman's carelessness and even her own children can't see it, she also has her own embarrassment.
It may seem like an easy thing to do with two children, but in fact, the hardships are known only after experiencing them.
The vast majority of mothers love their children. So, when children have problems, no one is more anxious than them.
2. It is not easy to have two babies
There was once a video on the Internet, taken by a netizen, in a subway station, a mother holding her two children.
Neither child looked very big, and at that time, they were sleeping sweetly on their mother's shoulder. But the mother looked tired.
She held her two children tightly, and because her strength was constantly depleting, she had to let the bodies of the two children lean against the wall.
But in this way, in fact, not much weight can be reduced, more often, it still depends on the ability of her own body to support.
Since the opening of relevant policies in 2016, it seems that all kinds of so-called marriageable people who are married and unmarried have been spawned.
At home, a woman can only be considered a complete woman if she has her own children.
If you can have more children and grandchildren, that is the true family blessing. However, the growth of children is not accomplished in a day.
In the process of raising and carrying a baby, the time, energy, money, patience, etc. paid by each woman are immeasurable.
Children should not be the responsibility of a person, and their growth needs absolutely not only the mother.
3. Some heartache, you have not seen
In the variety show "Warm New Home", there was once a record of a full-time mother's day.
In the eyes of most people, stay-at-home moms must be a very relaxed state, after all, she does not need to go out to work.
But in fact, she has to pay not only for the tidying up of the family, but also for the daily diet and various chores in the process of parenting.
It seems like an easy errand, but in fact, she has to do far more than work, which can be described as exhausting.
Sometimes, there are always people who complain online that their wives can get their full salary by doing nothing.
In his opinion, he worked hard outside, his wife seemed to have an easy life, and her life was much more leisurely than hers.
Such a person, if he tries his wife one day, will never continue to say so.
For any family with a baby, no one is not hard, and any family is a common effort.
Your wife is not good at eating and lazy, because of her presence, there is a bright living environment and a warm home.
Whether it is a family or a child, it is not a single person, and since it has been agreed to go together, do not think that what either party should do is what it should be.
4. Be responsible and talk about the future
In today's era of 'widowed parenting' and 'widowhood marriage', it is not easy for anyone.
If you really want to get married and want to have children of your own, then first of all you have to have this ability to take responsibility.
Love is very beautiful, but marriage not only requires love, but also requires a lot of practical efforts and sacrifices.
If you're not ready, don't drag others down. Marriage and parenting are not as easy as imagined.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.