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Recently, the news of various emotional betrayals on the Internet can be described as endless.
Some people report their husbands abandoning their wives and daughters in real names, and some people do 16-page ppt to accuse their boyfriends of spending time and abusing their feelings.
People who have retreated from love have strengthened their determination not to fall in love because they heard these news.
However, is love in this world really so unbearable? Is there really no love that can stand the test of time?
1. There will really be someone who loves someone very much
I once read a set of data surveys, what is the probability of true love in this world? According to statistics, less than 5%.
In other words, in some corners of the world, there have been people who have met someone and held hands with them for a lifetime.
Even if they are separated by illness, pain, or tribulation, no one else will join for the rest of another person's life.
And the vast majority of people other than that, their love road, will not be as smooth as imagined, or even full of bumps.
But among those couples who have experienced betrayal, hurt, and torture, there are also many people who have lived their lives through ups and downs.
Because, for them, the person next to them is no longer a lover, just a family member living together.
Since they are family, there is no reason to abandon each other. It's just that their lives will not have any more waves.
But no matter what others go through. Love is always there, it's just that we don't feel it ourselves.
2. She is my wife
When it comes to this matter about affection, in fact, in addition to the protagonist in the song "Mohe Ballroom", which was very popular some time ago.
There is also a couple that we are familiar with, they are TVB actors Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan.
For every white-headed couple with an old man, what they need is never just love, but righteousness.
In 2002, Wang Mingquan was diagnosed with breast cancer. After that, Luo Jiaying put down all his work to take care of her.
At that time, Luo Jiaying was just an unknown little actor. Before shaping the classic image in "Journey to the West", many people did not look favorably on them.
However, he did not give up pursuing Wang Mingquan because of the gossip from the outside world. He chased this for 21 years.
After 19 marriage proposals, Luo Jiaying never wanted to give up, until he fell ill, he had a little retreat.
He thought that he would not be able to marry his 'sister' in this life, but in the end, they still had lovers and relatives.
Although, they were both in their sixties when they got married. However, love is not diluted by the aging of the face.
Now, he can proudly hold Wang Mingquan, no matter where he goes, he must tell the other party: "You see, this is my wife- Wang Mingquan." ”
3. Love, will not deteriorate, but people will
Many times, we see all kinds of gossip about love on the Internet, and there are also many love runs, and finally there is no disease.
Everyone is telling the world that they don't need love, and they are afraid of the arrival of love, but do they really have no expectations in their hearts?
Indeed, we see too many betrayals and hurts, whether it is cheating or domestic violence, whether it is verbal conflict or physical injury.
But most of the time, in failed marriages, it's a story that shouldn't have started or ended sooner.
There is always one party who chooses to be patient, thinking that as long as they tolerate it, the other party will always change back to the gentle person they once were.
It is because of this that it has led to the failure and entanglement of their marriage. Not that something is wrong with love itself.
Love is not wrong, some people love for decades, even if they wear a breathing mask, the next second they have to close their eyes.
They can still hold each other's hands and make vows to meet again in the next life.
Whether that vow comes true or not, at least for this lifetime, for those couples, their love has been fulfilled.
4. Love, not afraid of late
Luo Jiaying once wrote a letter to Wang Mingquan, which included the following sentence:
"It doesn't matter if love is a little later for me, as long as there is a good ending."
In my heart, it doesn't matter if I can meet you later, as long as that person is you, it's good enough.
Even if we don't have much time together, and we can't grow old together, as long as you have your chapter in the story, it will already be satisfied.
Love is not afraid of late, what is afraid is to change the heart, it is hurt in the name of love. That's the scariest thing.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.