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In 2019, Luo Jiaying was diagnosed with prostate cancer.
After several surgeries, Luo Jiaying's physical condition gradually deteriorated, and even the most basic daily life became a heavy burden. To make matters worse, the aftermath forced him to use diapers frequently, making it difficult to perform on stage.
Faced with such a grim reality, Luo Jiaying's heart couldn't help but feel endless confusion and helplessness.
However, just when Luo Jiaying was on the verge of despair, Wang Mingquan, who had always been silently waiting by his side, took the initiative to ask him for marriage. This woman, who has politely rejected Luo Jiaying's pursuit many times, has finally opened her heart and is willing to spend the rest of her life hand in hand with this man.
Faced with this sudden marriage proposal, Luo Jiaying's heart swelled with complex emotions. On the one hand, his heart was full of joy and excitement, because this woman he had missed day and night for 22 years was finally willing to accept him.
However, on the other hand, he also has a clear insight into Wang Mingquan's inner struggles and contradictions.
Luo Jiaying knows that the reason why Wang Mingquan made this decision was not entirely due to his sincere love for him, but more importantly, because of the fear and reluctance to lose this man.
After all, in the past emotional experience, Wang Mingquan has suffered many painful blows, and has lost his original courage and belief in feelings.
Faced with the confusion and fragility in this woman's heart, Luo Jiaying's heart was also full of helplessness and grief. He understands that the reason why Wang Mingquan took the initiative to help him was more out of dependence and nostalgia for him, rather than completely based on sincere love for him.
This intricate emotion makes Luo Jiaying's heart full of contradictions and confusion.
Despite this, Luo Jiaying still chose to accept Wang Mingquan's marriage proposal. Because he knows that deep in this woman's heart, she has long been deeply imprinted with dependence and nostalgia for herself.
Although this relationship may not be as pure as crystal, it is undoubtedly the deepest emotional bond between two people who have been through the test of life and death. Realizing this, Luo Jiaying's hesitation slowly turned into firm belief and endless strength.
At this special moment, Luo Jiaying's intricate emotions in her heart undoubtedly make everyone feel deeply. He was not only rejoicing at the long-awaited dream coming true, but also inevitably revealing a faint sense of loss and melancholy.
In the face of the unknown future, his inner panic and uneasiness are understandable. However, it is this perseverance and determination to move forward that allows us to see this man's persistent pursuit of love, as well as his unwavering belief in life.
Looking back on the relationship between Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan, we must freeze the time in 1988. That year, they met on the set of a large-scale costume drama and began a deep friendship.
At that time, Law Ka-ying was already making a name for himself in the Cantonese opera industry, and won wide acclaim from industry insiders for his superb acting skills and professionalism.
As a new powerful actress, Wang Mingquan also has emerged in the theater industry with her unique temperament and excellent acting skills. The two gradually developed feelings in the process of cooperation, and finally after an important performance, Luo Jiaying finally mustered up the courage to confess to Wang Mingquan affectionately.
However, this seemingly romantic moment actually became a major turning point in Luo Jiaying's life. Surprisingly, after receiving Luo Jiaying's confession, Wang Mingquan did not give an immediate reply, but chose to hesitate and avoid.
It turns out that this once high-profile female star is also suffering from emotional trauma deep in her heart.
Prior to this, Wang Mingquan had experienced two failed marriages, and her trust in feelings was almost exhausted. In the face of Luo Jiaying's passionate pursuit, she couldn't help but feel fear, worried that she would fall into the whirlpool of feelings again and be hurt.
Therefore, she chose to retreat, trying to stay away from this budding relationship, but deep down she was attracted by Luo Jiaying's sincerity.
This tale of constant struggle and entanglement, which lasted for 22 years, eventually evolved into a long cycle of pursuit and rejection. Luo Jiaying never had the slightest idea of giving up, he consistently poured his deep love into Wang Mingquan, and despite the cold response again and again, he was still not discouraged.
On the contrary, he was more active in looking for breakthroughs, caring for himself wholeheartedly, and showing himself selflessly and sincerely, so as to touch Wang Mingquan's heart.
In this long period of time, Luo Jiaying has experienced the joys and sorrows of Wang Mingquan's life, and witnessed her perseverance and perseverance despite the vicissitudes of life. He gradually realized that this seemingly strong woman was actually full of sensitivity and fragility deep down, but she was used to using a resolute appearance to cover up her weakness.
This deep understanding made Luo Jiaying's feelings for Wang Mingquan deeper and deeper, and also made his love more innocent and firm.
Even in the face of Wang Mingquan's rejection again and again, Luo Jiaying has never changed his beliefs. He has always patiently waited for his own opportunity, firmly believing that as long as he is sincere, he will one day be able to touch her heart.
Sure enough, just when Luo Jiaying felt the most desperate, the wheel of fate began to turn again, and Wang Mingquan took the initiative to lend a helping hand to him.
At that moment, endless joy and excitement surged in Luo Jiaying's heart. He finally ushered in the ending he dreamed of, however, at the same time, he also had a clear insight into Wang Mingquan's inner contradictions and uneasiness.
The reason why this woman chose to accept him was more out of fear of losing him than out of true love deep in her heart.
Luo Jiaying knew this, but he still decided to accept Wang Mingquan's marriage proposal. Because he understands that deep in this woman's heart, his dependence and attachment to him have long been deeply imprinted.
Although this relationship may not be flawless, it is ultimately the most sincere emotional bond between two people who have gone through the trials of life and death.
In the long love between Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan, the most unforgettable thing is the difficult years they spent together.
In 2002, Wang Mingquan was unfortunately diagnosed with breast cancer and was physically and mentally devastated. This former gorgeous female star has now lost her former style under the torture of illness.
At this time of crisis, Luo Jiaying did not flinch, but firmly chose to wait by Wang Mingquan's side! He resolutely gave up the heavy work in his hands and took care of this woman who was very important to him wholeheartedly.
This woman, who has rejected Luo Jiaying's affection countless times, is now finally able to let go of all her worries and scruples, and firmly chooses to join hands with Luo Jiaying to accompany each other for the rest of her life.
There is no doubt that this profound spirit of decision-making is the best interpretation and reward of Luo Jiaying's unremitting efforts for this relationship in the past.
Although this deep relationship may not be completely equivalent to fiery love, it is undoubtedly the purest friendship bond established by the two of them after going through life and death.
In the face of life and death choices again and again, they supported each other and overcame many difficulties together, and this perseverance and courage are really moving.
In the relationship between Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan, the most impressive thing is the other two unforgettable feelings that Wang Mingquan has experienced.
One of the feelings that Wang Mingquan deeply regretted and will never forget for a lifetime is the fate between her and He Shouxin. He Shouxin is a loving and kind man, who has always been silently by Wang Mingquan's side when she needs love and support the most, and has soothed her inner wounds with sincere care.
Over time, subtle emotions developed between the two. However, in the end, He Shouxin still chose to leave his wife Ou Jiahui to pursue true love with Wang Mingquan.
However, this decision not only brought him endless guilt and remorse, but also left Wang Mingquan's life with indelible regrets.
In the face of these ensuing emotional setbacks, Wang Mingquan has lost the courage and confidence to re-invest in the relationship. She was afraid of being in the same predicament again, hurt emotionally again.
Therefore, when Luo Jiaying expressed her heart to her, she instinctively chose to avoid it.
It wasn't until she met Luo Jiaying that she gradually realized that deep down in her heart, she also longed to be loved deeply.
However, this love does not come from Luo Jiaying's passionate pursuit, but more from the fear and helplessness in her heart. Faced with the risk of losing Luo Jiaying, she finally realizes the pivotal position this man occupies in her life.
Although she had always refused to admit her feelings for Luo Jiaying before this, when she was really faced with the possibility of losing him, she realized that she had already been deeply dependent on this man.
This deep and cherished feeling stems from Wang Mingquan's countless losses and deep regrets in the past! She is afraid of feeling the pain of losing her beloved again, so she would rather choose to escape all the time than bravely pursue the true love buried deep in her heart.
Because of this, Wang Mingquan has always struggled on the road of love and missed the happiness that should have been held in his hands. It wasn't until she met Luo Jiaying, the man who had been obsessed with her and persistent pursuit for 22 years, that she suddenly realized and understood the true desire in her heart.
This profound realization made Wang Mingquan realize that the good times he had missed were now irretrievable. And the regret she left behind, like a fatal scar, is deeply imprinted in her life.
Although she has finally found her own happiness, those beautiful moments that she could not hug tightly have permanently become an indelible regret in her heart.