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I know that someone asked a question, he obviously did not do anything wrong, and he did not know why the other half suddenly ignored himself.
He recounted in detail the bits and pieces of his relationship with each other, and it seemed that they were a very loving couple.
However, in the details of those stories, it is obvious that the girl does not actually love this boy at all.
Love, this thing, can be pretended for a while, but it cannot be pretended to be a lifetime. People who don't love you can see it.
1. Your existence is a mistake
What kind of performance do you have when you like someone? The simplest embodiment is to start to find reasons for the other party.
No matter what the other party does, and it doesn't matter whether it has a positive or negative impact on you, you will accept it.
Because, you like each other very much. So, no matter what he does, you will feel that he is doing it for your own good, for your future good.
Thus, let you more and more have a feeling of attachment to each other. It is even said that love is so overwhelming.
And conversely, if a man you don't love him. It's even said that you just chose each other because you were lonely to pass the time.
Well, the most obvious gap is that you will also find a bunch of reasons for each other. However, these reasons are negative.
No matter what the other person does for you, you will not be moved, and you will even feel superfluous. Even if you say thank you when you accept it, your heart is full of disgust.
Of course, you won't say it explicitly, after all, who wouldn't want someone to pay for themselves? It's just that some people's efforts are not cherished.
2. Just happened to meet you
There is a type of love that is called passing each other's lonely time. Of course, one or both parties must be aware.
In other words, we all know that the relationship won't have an ending. But I just haven't met the person who made my heart move.
And it just so happens that at this time, you suddenly appear. Then, in order not to appear out of place with the surroundings, I promised you.
However, this kind of feeling is doomed to have no end. No matter how much one of them gives, it's just as pointless.
Because, once the love disappears, the other party will take back all patience for you, and besides, he has never loved you.
So, that's why, there are a lot of people who, after giving a lot, still receive only ruthless treatment.
This story, they all forgot. People around them have advised them more than once not to believe it.
On the road to love, it is not enough to have effort. There are many other conditions that must also be considered.
3. You made me like this
A long time ago, there was a saying on the Internet: "The reason you said you loved me at the beginning became an excuse for you to leave." ”
In fact, many times, the matter of feelings varies from person to person, and it is also necessary to consider time and emotional changes.
When two people are like-minded and decide to start a relationship, they will identify with each other as their only one.
Then, at this time, even if one party has done something wrong or has any problems, it will be gladly accepted, and even used as a shining point.
But if the love slowly fades, then even if the person lives carefully, he will be blamed and even insulted.
But she probably didn't do anything wrong from start to finish. Love is right, people are not wrong, but the feelings are gone.
When the other person talks to you, it is full of impatience. All that is left for you in life is the time to complain.
Perhaps, he is telling you in another way, for the sake of my image, I hope that the breakup is mentioned by you.
4. People are not perfect, and so is love
Someone once said, "Why is it that after I got married, my other half was like a changed person?" ”
In fact, it is because many of the things he has done before are just hoping to make a good impression on you.
Love this thing can be pretended. However, it cannot be disguised for a lifetime.
If one day, you don't love, then let it go. Don't dwell on it, don't wronged yourself. No one deserves that.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.