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I saw a saying on the Internet: "No money, is the beginning of the collapse of adults." ”
Recalling the various news I see on the Internet today, and remembering all the things I have encountered, it is true that this sentence is the most real life realism.
We used to think that when we grew up, there would be a lot of good things happening, and we would be free to do what we wanted to do.
However, until we grow up, we don't know that the original childhood is the best time in our lives.
1. I love her very much, but I don't know what to do
In "A Year Without a Job", He Yu is actually the profile image of many real young people at present.
There is no good job, betrayed by the lover, obviously always working hard, but it seems that life has not improved.
When his mother was sick, He Yu sat on a bench and talked to his friends about wanting to sell his car to treat his mother's illness.
Even her friends felt sorry for her. After all, it was the possession of a loan she had just paid off.
But in the face of his friends, He Yu just said: "They are all things outside the body, I am not distressed, what are you distressed about?" ”
In fact, everyone can hear the helplessness in He Yu's words, but this is the most real reality, she is just a character, and we are real life.
Perhaps, the follow-up of the drama will encounter willow dark flowers and bright flowers, and will encounter the perfect ending of the peak circuit, but the reality is much more cruel than the TV series.
Life always takes advantage of when people are defenseless, and only then do people truly understand how difficult it is to survive.
2. You are the pillar of the family
I remembered the experience of visiting a friend's family in the hospital. On that day, because it was too long to wait for the elevator, I decided to take the stairs.
But just when the iron door of the escape ladder was pushed open, a man could be heard sobbing in a low voice.
Looking for a moment, I saw the landing on the next floor and sat a man who looked to be in his forties. He just leaned there weakly.
Later, I inquired with my friends and learned that the man's family was sick, and the burden of the whole family was on him alone.
During the day, he has to go out to work, and at night he has to come over to take care of his family. Other relatives occasionally came to work as shifts, and he would also work part-time.
Once upon a time, people always sought wealth and freedom, but they never thought of protecting their bodies.
When we are really faced with those red lights that come on in the body, we will find out how important health really is.
Especially for middle-aged people with old and small, when the pressure strikes, how many people can survive to the end?
3. Our life is a lot of helplessness
In life, when we encounter something, there will always be someone to advise you: "It's okay, you want to open a little." ”
But is it really that easy to start a little bit? Would it really be helpful to open up a little bit for the development of the event?
The answer to reality is no, the problem that needs to be solved doesn't disappear just because you want to open it, it's still there.
Some netizens said: "Many times, the helplessness of adults is that words cannot be spoken when they come to their mouths." ”
Because we all know that friends around us also have their own troubles, and our troubles will also be a burden for them.
So, we begin to miss the past, and we begin to regret that we did not cherish something or a certain period of time, but it is meaningless.
Life strikes everyone, some hold on, some fall. But no matter what, life goes on.
The world does not stop all development because of the disappearance of any one person. It's just that the story of the man who left is over.
4. Think a little more about tomorrow
Zhihu once asked a question: "For the current situation, how should ordinary people survive?" ”
The answer is: "Learn to save money, keep working hard, save enough food, and maintain a good body and mood." ”
The lack of money may be temporary, and while it is helpless, it is not necessarily immutable.
But if your body spans, then nothing is useless. So, please love yourself.
Not just for yourself, but for those who love you and care about you.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.