In love, to do "three no's", but the feelings are better

Many people will enter a love cycle, thinking that as long as they are good enough for each other, then the other party will not leave themselves, and even the feelings of two people will get better and better.

But they may not know that effort in anything has the result of effort, only feelings, not by the length of time and how much effort to pay.

The book says that true love should be a two-way rush, if only rely on the efforts of one party, then the other party will leave sooner or later, because the feelings of two people are not symmetrical from the beginning.

It's easy to start out in a relationship, and it may only take a few seconds to make the decision, but it's hard to run a relationship, and some people even need to run it for a lifetime.

If you want to have a good relationship, then management is definitely indispensable. If flowers want to look good, they are indispensable to the care of the owner, and if a relationship wants to go on for a long time, then you must also learn the secret of running a marriage.

In the TV series "A Year Without a Job", He Yu is a thirty-two-year-old woman, but she only thinks about work and does not care about her boyfriend's emotions, resulting in the final situation of losing her job and her boyfriend.

The reason why He Yu came to this step is largely because she considered too many problems after marriage and wanted to save more money to make her and her boyfriend's quality of life better after marriage, but she completely ignored the real thoughts of her boyfriend.

In love, it is not blindly for the sake of the place, or doing things that you think can move him, and the relationship can be long-lasting. On the contrary, if you do these three no's in your feelings, your feelings will get better and better.

01, do not settle, follow your own heart.

Suitable and like the topic point is a topic that everyone has been arguing about for a long time, some people feel that likes are virtual, love without bread is nothing, so falling in love is not the same as getting married has become an excuse for many people to spend their hearts.

So when life enters a fast pace, many women have chosen the right one when they mean that love does not bring them a good life, and let themselves be with a man they don't like.

In fact, when you start at the moment of your will, it means that you did not choose this man because of love.

And you may not have feelings between you, and natural contradictions will come with them.

Not to be will be a kind of respect for feelings, but also a kind of responsibility for feelings. So if you want to have a good relationship, then don't be with someone you don't like.

02, do not give up their own bottom line and principles, insist on being yourself.

Women who have seen too many love brains have repeatedly given up their bottom lines and principles for the sake of so-called love.

They think that they have paid so much, the other party will definitely love themselves with the same intentions, but they do not know that such a practice is a very humble performance in the eyes of men, but it is even more unshakable.

Love should have been mutual respect and mutual understanding, after all, it is love that runs in both directions, and the feelings of unilateral payment can only move themselves.

Society is dyed different colors by different people, so people continue to abandon their principles and eventually forget what they were originally like.

In the face of love, please do not wronged yourself to the other party, only by maintaining a proper sense of mystery will the other party have the desire to be closer to you.

03, in the feelings are not casual.

The best respect for a relationship is to distance yourself from the opposite sex and give your partner enough security.

Many people can't grasp the boundaries of getting along with the opposite sex, and even some women will use words such as "male girlfriend" and "brother" to prevaricate the other half, thinking that the other party is wide.00.

The process of society seems to be doubled, fast-food love is particularly ordinary in life, more and more people casually pay a relationship, and then quickly leave when they learn that the other party is not as they expected.

They all said that they envied their previous feelings, when the cars and horses were slow, the letters and mail were slow, and they only loved one person in their lives, but now netizens laughed and loved a few people in their lives.

Not casual is an affirmation of men and women, only when their own self-esteem and self-love, you can also win the respect of others, so do not start and end a relationship casually.

Summary:

Everyone comes into this world for a reason to exist, so don't veto yourself.

Sometimes, the days in the ordinary life are the days that will always be missed.

Treat feelings, do not need who is humble and who is high. Although the person who loves you will grind his own character for you, the run-in does not mean that he wants to lower his bottom line and principles.

Good feelings need to rely on the management of two people, in the feelings, do the above three no, the feelings of the two people will get better and better, do not believe it to try it.

Life is short, and no one can be an excuse for you to wronged yourself. That ordinary but not mediocre self, one day will also meet the person who appreciates the shining point in you.