Text/Flying Fish
There is a saying in the movie "Forrest Gump", "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what the next piece will taste like." ”
Life is impermanent, ups and downs, and it is the norm of life. Ups and downs, peaks and turns, even if you are in a low valley, remember to look up at the stars.
Life is not satisfactory things ten times eight nine, do not complain, do not pessimistic, life can not always be at the peak, life is like a roller coaster, there are peaks, there are also lows, when we are in the trough, do not be afraid, bravely go out, remember these four words: learn to precipitate, let you suddenly open up, cheer up again.
Learn to precipitate and calm your heart.
Life can't always be smooth, maybe when you are proud and expect the highest, suddenly give you a blow, let you fall into the trough, you must also accept.
When we are in a low point, don't be so anxious, don't feel that you are very noble, and feel that some less decent things will make you faceless.
In fact, people are already in a low point, this is a fact, we must accept calmly, the low is not a bad thing, try to let yourself precipitate, calm down, let go of yourself, open-minded.
Just like Xiao He Yu in "A Year Without a Job", her mentality is very good, she has no job, but she is also passionate about life, even if she goes out to set up a stall, she does not feel ashamed. And Da He Yu, she suddenly lost her job, and she was frustrated, and she simply looked down on the stall, afraid that the stall would be recognized and make her faceless.
Later, under Xiao He Yu's words, she woke up, and only then did she put down her body and shelf, bending down to set up the floor and shouting.
Zeng Guofan said: "Things come to conform, the future is not welcomed, the time is not complicated, and there is no love." ”
People are at a low point, try to calm their mood, calm down, when you learn to reconcile with yourself, the mood is smooth, everything will go smoothly, then in fact, you will be able to go out very quickly.
Learn to precipitate and settle the mind.
The more you are in the trough, the more you can't think about it so much, the more anxious, the easier it is to hit the wall, but let yourself settle down, let your heart settle down, in order to break through yourself and do better.
Big He Yu is He Yu, when she was at a low point, looking for a job everywhere hit a wall, thinking that she had a strong ability to work, she could find a job at any time, but in fact, it was not the case, once there was a problem in an industry, it soon spread throughout the entire industry, and no one dared to ask for herself anymore.
Later, He Yu felt that a sentence on the person who framed himself did make a lot of sense, that is, you have no posture, no education, and no overseas background, how to compete with others.
So He Yu decided not to look for a job first, but to enroll in an elite class to enhance her value, which is actually a way out, she can set her mind at home to study, in fact, it is very good.
Life is like this, when you have concentration, you can not be afraid of any obstacles, let the concentration achieve yourself, push away the obstacles, you will gain a lot.
Only those who are not dependent on forgiveness and fearlessness can rely on strong faith to go to the other side of life.
Learn to precipitate and let yourself look down on everything.
On the road of life, there are often twists and turns, learn to rely on their own willpower to stand up, because life can only rely on themselves, is the best way out.
Even if life encounters changes and life encounters setbacks, we must also learn to look down on everything, accept the gains and losses and successes and failures of life, not discouraged, not self-destructive, but optimistic to live, those who can't defeat you, are destined to make you strong.
When you learn to precipitate and look down on everything, you can be willing to unload your baggage and let yourself start easily, in fact, there are too many tedious things in your heart that will only trip you up and tire yourself, but you will look down on it, and your heart will not be tired.
Precipitating yourself, letting yourself be calm, learning to be content, in order to retain happiness, learn to look down, in order to retain happiness.
In short, the trough will not be a lifetime, only temporary, as long as you do not give up, do not get discouraged, dare to face, learn to precipitate, then everything will slowly get better, will also pass.
Life is not a perfect thing, when it is not perfect, we must learn to perfect ourselves, don't embarrass ourselves, want to let ourselves go out, then first learn to let ourselves go, reconcile with ourselves, learn to precipitate ourselves, people's hearts are quiet, the heart is fixed, the heart is indifferent, and naturally everything is seen.
When the mentality is correct, everything will go smoothly.
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