What is happiness? Each of us has a different definition of happiness in real life.
Happiness is actually to be able to be with the person you love the most, from green silk to whitehead, but in real life, such happiness is mostly rare, because about love, everyone will have more or less regrets.
Sometimes happiness seems simple, but it is actually difficult, because most people can't escape the teasing of feelings in life, and there will be too much helplessness in feelings, and sometimes they can be together because you love each other enough.
Zhou Jie and his girlfriend are long-distance lovers, both of whom have stable jobs in their own cities, but the long-term long-distance relationship has made the feelings between the two begin to fade.
If you give up your stable job, it is a difficult choice, so after thinking about it for a long time, the two still chose to break up.
The long-term long-term distance and contradiction has long exhausted the feelings between the two, so letting go is the best choice for each other.
In fact, through this incident, we can also see whether a person really loves you and cares about you.
For a man, in fact, they will also weigh the pros and cons in the relationship, when a man does not love you enough, in fact, he will not give up for you or make sacrifices for you.
When a man faces a woman who loves deeply to the bone, he will have these three uncontrollable actions, don't understand.
01.
Don't give up
Feelings are not three minutes of heat, and if a person's love for you is just a whim, then such love is meaningless.
True love is based on mutual respect and care.
Many men in the pursuit of women, do not understand the meaning of persistence, WeChat chat for a few days, if there is no progress with each other, then the relationship between the two will be gone.
If a man really loves you, then his pursuit and love for you is also unrelenting.
Behind every successful man, there must be a woman he loves deeply, because he loves deeply, so he will choose to insist.
When the love between two people has reached a certain stage, if you want to know whether a man has intentions for you, then it depends on whether a man's love for you is the same as always, if not, then such a man is only good at disguise.
02.
Know how to accommodate
Men are actually more macho in many cases, many men will feel that women should obey a man unconditionally, but in fact, such an idea is not correct, unconditional obedience, will only make the feelings between the two become indifferent.
If a man can't even accommodate you, then such a man has no sense of responsibility in his feelings.
During your relationship, if a man even quarrels and argues about winning or losing, then such a man is not worth your trust.
To love a person is to know how to accommodate the other party, and to love a person, you must love the imperfection of the other party.
Love is not casually promised, two people together, the most important thing is to tolerate and understand each other, women in the face of feelings, will be more sensitive and suspicious than men, at this time, men should give women more tolerance and understanding, rather than blaming women for making unreasonable trouble.
An emotionally stable man is the object of a woman's dependence, and when a man loves a woman deeply, he will show his gentle side.
03.
Keep your promises
Everyone is an adult, so for the cake drawn by others, we should not be too trusting, in the relationship, only by saying and doing, can we make love eternal.
Because when we are full of expectations, if the other party breaks his word, it will also cause trouble to the feelings between the two people.
If a man only has verbal kung fu and does not know how to pay practically, it will also make the relationship between the two people break down quickly.
Adult feelings are practical, not to mention women's materialism, in fact, when a man loves you enough, he will not be afraid of you and him to talk about material, because even if he does not have enough money, he will work hard for you, rather than a sentence that does not solve the problem.
Love is the white clouds in the sky, sometimes we feel close to ourselves, but sometimes we will feel very far away from ourselves, in fact, love is not illusory, but real, when a man is really willing to pay for you, he is willing to give you everything.
If a man can't even give you a future, then such love is meaningless.
Bacon once said, "Man cannot extinguish love, nor can he be obsessed with love." ”
True love is not a temporary interest, and if two people together are just a passion or a momentary impulse, then such love cannot last long.
No matter how good the feelings, in the end will return to plain, love is not casual, like and love is different, like your man, will try to change you into what he likes, but the man who loves you, the heart is all you, he will be willing to obey you.
Only when a man truly loves you will he make the above moves for you.