Some people say: "Love does not distinguish between ages, some people are hurt to tear their hearts and lungs, and still love is incurable." ”
The more I feel that life is not easy, the more I want to find a partner, in fact, not for love, but for the desire to have someone to accompany, so that when I encounter difficulties, I will not be so lonely.
Jilin has a blind date program, which has attracted the attention of many people, not because of the appearance, but because it is too real, the blind date process, but also the analysis of human nature, so that we can also feel some of the truth of life in the process of eating melons.
01. Simple uncle, only spend 2 yuan a month
Uncle 57 years old, good health, people are also diligent, he contracted a pig house in the countryside, help people raise pigs can have 40,000 income per year, plus the income from growing grain, a year can have 50,000.
He had few hobbies other than work, did not smoke or drink, and was busy at home whenever he had time, cleaning up the house and wiping the stove loudly.
Grandpa's wife has been dead for many years, his children have become a family, he also feels lonely at night, no one talks, he feels that life is flawed, he is eager to find a close old partner, the two have a dependency in life, and they can also help each other when needed.
Such a request is not excessive, and the uncle is not very old, according to the new age algorithm, he is still only middle-aged, and he has the right to pursue happiness.
Speaking of his own conditions, Uncle Cai is very confident, he has a two-bedroom and a living room of 56 square meters in the city, and there is a suite in the countryside, and after the old wife can go to the city in winter to live, and come to the countryside in the summer to feel the pastoral life.
For the pension, he also has arrangements, saying that he has been saving, because he grows vegetables and grain, eating basically does not cost money, there is only 2 yuan for a month, which is not a door, but there is no place to spend money.
Uncle Cai is not afraid of hardship, the annual income is fixed, the children have become a family, he has no burden, after remarriage, he is fully capable of taking care of his wife and children, the other party can buy anything, if he is sick, he will not care, he is willing to take the other party to see a doctor.
In general, if you meet the right person, Uncle Cai is willing to dig his heart to be good to women, such an attitude, let many women envy, look back at the pig teammates around, eager to let the pig teammates learn from the uncle.
Among the people who signed up for the blind date, Uncle Cai had good conditions, and the red lady was also more attentive, showing him a photo of Aunt Li, Aunt Li's big eyes and double eyelids, smiling and revealing a row of white teeth, Uncle Cai was suddenly moved.
He quietly asked the other party the size of the clothes, ready to give the other party a surprise, it turned out that like a person will be willing to spend their minds, this has nothing to do with age.
02. "Three noes" big mother, a mouth to ask for money
Aunt Li is 55 years old, originally a full-time mother, after divorcing her husband, she has some money in her hand and has never looked for a job.
She has a hobby, that is, she likes puppies, and she has a teddy at home, and she takes good care of the puppies, in her words: "I don't want to go out to work, I just want to accompany the puppies, and I worry that the puppies are too lonely." ”
Such a thought can also see the psychology of dependence, in fact, it is not that the puppy is lonely, but that she is too lonely, since she can't rely on her husband, she simply bases her sense of security on the puppy, because the puppy will not betray herself.
Sure enough, in further understanding, she learned that Aunt Li had a bad relationship with her ex-husband, her ex-husband was not single-minded, and she fell in love with other women after marriage, she tried to save it, but her ex-husband has always been very indifferent to her.
Insisting on until the child goes to college, Aunt Li does not want to be on it again, although there is no shortage of food and drink, but the ex-husband's attitude of ignoring her is also a kind of cold violence, so that she has been insecure, simply proposed divorce, and lived independently.
But her ability to live is really average, the lights at home are broken and will not be repaired, the water pipe is broken, and there is no income, no matter how much savings are spent, the house must be left to the children, her current situation is no house, no money and no pension, equivalent to "three nothings".
Big mom's heart is not steady, she wants to find a reliance, that is, someone can be unconditionally good to herself, such a person, only blind dates can find.
She signed up for a blind date, the conditions are not low, the man can tolerate her dog, but also to bear her life, she likes the clothes, the other party can not be too stingy, where is looking for an object, it is clear that it is looking for a cash machine.
But the emotional thing is not clear, sometimes it is Zhou Yu to hit the yellow cover, one willing to fight, one willing to be beaten, her photo is published, it is looked at by Uncle Cai, so can they rub out the spark of love?
03. People who come for money will also go for money
After the two met, Uncle Cai was very satisfied, feeling that the other party was better than the photo.
He grabbed the other party's hand, the palm of his hand and the back of his hand were not enough, and Aunt Li was not angry, laughing and asking how much Uncle Cai earned.
Uncle Cai introduced himself to the situation again, saying that he was in good health, and he was not afraid of hardship, as long as he had to do the work of earning money, the real income would only be more and not less.
Here Aunt Li did not express her position, she was thinking, how to make Uncle Cai willing to give him money, Uncle Cai is not able to hold his breath, see Aunt Li does not speak, directly on the bottom card, indicating that they want the two to be together, the income is under the control of the wife, the male and female lords, as long as they can have hot meals to eat at home.
This statement is exactly in line with Aunt Li's wishes, and she asked with a smile: "What about the house?" ”
Uncle Cai was really arrogant and told her: "When you get married, add your name, and the house has half of you." ”
He also showed his mentality, as long as the two are living well, their needs are very low, the money can be spent by the wife and children at will, even if there is only a penny, it will be used for each other, because the wife is his only one, and then he took out a red mink coat as a gift for each other.
This confession is very weighty, which makes Aunt Li like it, she smiled and said: "I don't want anything, I just want a sense of security." ”
To tell the truth, Aunt Li is really hypocritical enough, grabbing the other party to like herself, step by step to master the resources in her own hands, and also hanging a nice name for her greed.
What is security?
The real sense of security is given by yourself, your pragmatism and hard work, so that you have the courage to cope with life, will not feel panicked because of changes, such reliability is the confidence of life.
Aunt Li does not want to work hard, but she longs for someone to provide her with a warm living environment, and what she wants is not love, but the satisfaction of desire.
It is her luck to meet the talented uncle, it is estimated that another person, has already driven her out of the door, how old is it, and she still can't see life clearly, thinking that she looks good, there is a sense of superiority? The problem is that we don't see where her beauty is, we can only say that a woman's desire psychology has nothing to do with age.
This blind date was successful according to the view of the program group, after all, the two took a group photo and were willing to further communicate.
I also hope that the program team can continue to follow up, don't just care about matchmaking, see if Uncle Cai is doing well, honest people, need to be protected.
Sometimes when you meet a woman who is only for money, it is better to be single, and we also hope that Aunt Li can sincerely treat Uncle Cai, the other party has given you a stable life, and you have also let the other party have a stable old age.
What do you think about that? Are you bullish on their feelings?