His wife's name is Huang Juan, a city girl engaged in the financial industry, who is not only beautiful, but also versatile. Zhou Qiang fell in love with her at first sight, and after two months of getting along, the two were happily married and entered the palace of marriage. People in the village say that Zhou Qiang only took great luck to get such a talented and beautiful wife, but this marriage that everyone envies is now on the verge of breaking.
After getting married, Huang Juan only stayed at Zhou Qiang's house for just five days before returning to her mother's house, why is this?
Zhou Qiang told his family: When he first married Huang Juan, although his parents were happy, they were very surprised, because Huang Juan was in the financial industry, with a monthly income of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan, the conditions were relatively superior, and his son did not look very well matched.
Even the surrounding neighbors believe that Zhou Qiang and Huang Juan are not only far apart in family conditions, but even their appearance and talents, and Zhou Qiang can get Huang Juan, which is simply incredible in their eyes.
So, what is the reason behind the separation of Huang Juan and her husband, who has been newly married for less than a year? To figure out why? Zhou Qiang and his family came to his wife's house, but Huang Juan did not want to see her husband.
The Zhou family offered huang juan to follow Zhou Qiang home to live. Huang Juan said: It is not that I do not want to live with my husband, but before I got married, I made it clear to him, you have no money to buy a house, it doesn't matter, we can rent a house in the city first, he also promised me!
Relatives of the Zhou family emphasized: Zhou Qiang is marrying a daughter-in-law, not a door-to-door son-in-law, if you hate Zhou Qiang is rural, then do not choose to marry him in the first place. Less than a month after getting married, they moved back to their mother's house and did not live with Zhou Qiang, so that they had to wonder if Huang Juan had any purpose in getting married.
Huang Juan said: Because of the emotional problems with her husband, she quit her stable and high-paying financial job, turned around and started the hot new media, and is now a small and famous Internet celebrity!
At the beginning, the gap between the two was huge, why did Huang Juan agree to this marriage?
"Because the two of us originally got married relatively quickly and did not live together, how can we see what he usually looks like?" I think it may be that the man is a little worse than me, maybe I can catch him, I think I can control him, but the reality is not like this, or the gap between the ideal and the reality is very large. Huang Juan spat bitterly.
Huang Juan said bluntly: Zhou Qiang was diligent and generous when talking about love, but after marriage, he found that it was not the husband's original appearance, even in this case, Huang Juan did not think of giving up this marriage, but what happened afterwards made her unable to continue to endure?
"All the money for marriage is borrowed and is to be repaid. The kind he did before was advertising, others had activities and he would do a few orders, and others would play at home without activities. The problem is that sometimes others only have two or three days to do things a month, the work is very unstable, sometimes six or seven hundred yuan a month. Later, I introduced him to a job, that is, running a us group, and I told him many times that I didn't listen. Finally I said, if you don't go tomorrow, I will leave you alone from now on, but in the end he still didn't go! Huang Juan wrongfully counted down her husband's not!
Because Zhou Qiang is lazy and has no sense of responsibility, this makes Huang Juan feel very disappointed in the marriage. Now Zhou's family accused her of cheating on marriage, which made her angry and difficult to accept.
Huang Juan's mother said: "She divorced very early, her daughter was brought up by her, in order to let her daughter have a happy marriage, she kept her daughter for a few more years." Zhou Qiang is the worst among the daughter suitors, but the daughter is also older, I am also anxious, plus Zhou Qiangren looks honest and generous, so I agreed to the marriage between my daughter and Zhou Qiang. ”
If this is the case, why does the Zhou family think that Huang Juan is cheating on marriage?
Zhou Qiang said: "When I first discussed the dowry of 88,000 yuan for Huang Juan by my own family, the woman gave a dowry of 100,000 yuan, but after marriage, the woman did not fulfill her promise, which became the heart knot of the Zhou family. ”
In this regard, Huang Juan explained: That is because her father heard that the dowry given by Zhou Qiang was borrowed, and he may use this dowry to pay off the debt. Out of concern for his daughter, he said that the dowry would not be given to his daughter first, and that he would keep it first.
So, why is Zhou Qiang so angry about his wife's 100,000-piece dowry?
I also said at the time: We don't have much money in our house, can we ask for a little less, right? He said it doesn't matter if you borrow it first, and then talk later! ”
Because the family conditions are indeed not rich, Zhou Qiang once asked if he could give less dowry, but Huang Juan said that he could borrow a little first, and after marriage, he could pay it back together with two people.
Huang Juan said: Because the conditions between the two are too different, I am worried that my father will not agree. In order to help Zhou Qiang gain his father's approval, he asked for so many bride price.
His house is a bit far from where I work, and before I got married I said, how do we live in it, how do we get out? He promised me at the time that it would be okay, that every day you would pick you up in the city after work, and then I would send you every morning at work. As a result, less than half a month after getting married, I have to go to work, and I have a morning meeting at 6.7 o'clock in the morning, and I can't get up one, two can't get up, three can't get up, and I can't get up alive or dead.
At this time, the relatives of the Zhou and Huang families quarreled, and the Zhou family said that since Huang Juan did not want to continue the marriage, she would return the bride price. Huang Juan believes that she has done nothing wrong, and the reason why she has created this situation is because of her husband's lack of appreciation.
For this marriage, Zhou Qiang can be described as painstaking, whether it is a well-arranged wedding room or wedding photos, it is to cater to his wife and get her pleasure, he knows that his conditions in all aspects are not as good as his wife, and he has a strong inferiority complex. Especially after getting married, when she found that she could not integrate into her wife's social circle at all, this inferiority did not decrease but increased.
Now, where should this little couple go?
Coming to Huang Juan's house again, Huang Juan said that she did not accept mediation, when the Zhou family slandered herself for having married and had children, accusing herself of cheating on marriage, Zhou Qiang knew the truth, but did not stand up and say a fair word for herself, which made her lose her expectations for both this person and this marriage.
For the bride price, Huang Juan said that the Zhou family can go to the court to sue, and the court will pay as much as it wants!
Summary: When there is a problem in the marriage, the two families should communicate more, which can solve the problem very well. Silence and doubt will not solve any problem, but will only make it more and more serious.
