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Guide
How to manage the marriage happily is also a science that needs to be continuously studied and explored, everyone's temperament, family situation, etc. are different, and the mentality of treating marriage needs to vary from person to person.
Either, try to fall in love, in order to understand what the feelings you really want to look like, love is a must for marriage, without the support of the emotional foundation, the marriage can not be stable, or quarrel continuously, or like a stranger.
The happiness of marriage requires us to care about many details, but at the same time, we must pay attention to basic things, such as loyalty and responsibility, due diligence to the family, filial piety to parents and children, is a must to maintain the stability of the whole family.
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Twenty-three years after marriage, the door-to-door son-in-law was swept out of the house
Wang Jian, who lives in Zhuzhou, Hunan Province, is now more than half a hundred years old, he and his wife Liu Lili have been married for twenty-three years, and they have a son and a daughter under their knees who have reached adulthood.
Two days ago, Wang Jian received a text message notice from the court, saying that Liu Lili had filed a lawsuit with the court and applied to the court for divorce of the two, and Wang Jian did not believe it at first until he received a telephone notice from the court.
Wang Jian said that his relationship with his wife is very good, he has been working outside the home for many years, his wife is working at home with children, and this year a son and a daughter have also gone out to work and study, before this, his wife has not mentioned divorce with him.
Not only that, Liu Lili also blocked his WeChat phone, he now has no contact with his wife at all, he came to Liu Lili's home, hoping to get a statement from his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
However, Liu Lili's parents did not want to care about their daughter's marriage, it seemed that the matter had been decided for a long time, at this time, Wang Jian suddenly said that it was okay to divorce, but the woman must give him 700,000 yuan as a compensation.
Wang Jian said that he was a door-to-door son-in-law, and the money earned over the years had been handed over to his wife, and now if she wanted to sweep herself out of the house, she had to give herself a compensation.
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"Divorce is OK, I want 700,000 compensation"
It turned out that when Wang Jian and Liu Lili got married, Liu Lili originally went to her husband's house to live, and a few years later Wang Jian proposed to live in the home of her father-in-law and mother-in-law, and the Liu family's parents were also very happy, and also specially purchased a set of mahogany furniture.
But it is Wang Jian's voluntary son-in-law, but this actually does not matter, as long as the husband and wife are in the same heart, wherever they live, they can take care of the family and honor their parents, but after Wang Jian moved over, it was like a changed person.
Liu Lili's parents said that they have been helping their daughter with two children in recent years, and in the past ten years, Wang Jian's door-to-door son-in-law has been idle all day, but it is her daughter Liu Lili who is working hard to make money outside.
No, Wang Jian also often quarreled with Liu Lili, and when he didn't agree, he had to beat his wife, and it wasn't once or twice, in this regard, Wang Jian's statement was that it was normal for two people to quarrel and fight.
Liu Lili is currently working in a mask factory, because of the epidemic situation can not leave the factory door, Wang Jian contacted his wife by phone, the end of the phone, Liu Lili jumped like thunder, she is extremely disappointed in Wang Jian.
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"Ten years, not a day of work"
Liu Lili said that this year the child wants to take the driver's license, ask him to take a few thousand yuan he can't get out, and these years the child is brought by his parents, but also she is making money outside, Wang Jian rarely fulfills his responsibility.
Wang Jianzhi was unable to argue for a while, saying that he could earn ten or twenty thousand a year, and then saying that he had given his wife thirty or forty thousand a year, and according to his calculations, his wife should give him seven hundred thousand in twenty-three years.
In the face of such a ridiculous and ridiculous request, the Liu family could not agree, Wang Jian changed his mouth again, wanting Liu Lili to forgive himself, Liu Lili did not agree, he turned back to find his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Wang Jian's cousin also came to the Liu family, hoping to reconcile the contradiction between Wang Jian and the Liu family, as the saying goes, it is better to demolish a temple than destroy a marriage, in the eyes of Wang Jian's cousin, he does not want Wang Jian and his wife to divorce.
The cousin said that he could give Liu Lili five thousand yuan first, and let Wang Jian go out to work in the future, but Liu Lili's parents were no longer willing to believe in their son-in-law, and they had heard enough promises over the years.
"Ten years, I haven't gone out to work for a day," Liu Lili's mother angrily told reporters, she did not want to see the disgraceful door-to-door son-in-law at a glance.
Mother Liu directly asked Wang Jian to take his things and leave, but Wang Jian saw that there was no result in seeking peace, and he had to leave sadly.
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Dianxing said
This twenty-three-year marriage is over, only hate Liu Lili did not file for divorce earlier, Wang Jian' son-in-law is more like a guest who lies in the Liu family, and the difference with the guest is that he still has to beat Liu Lili.
As a man, in the marriage should stand up to the sky, play a good role in the pillar, make money to support the family is a man's duty, Wang Jian is idle, but also domestic violence wife, really ashamed of the title of seven-foot boy.
It can be seen that Wang Jian has no sense of responsibility for this family, the child is also brought by his parents-in-law, and he can't bear to let his wife get up early and go out to make money in the dark, which shows that he does not attach importance to family construction, or that his heart is quite naïve.
At this point, Liu Lili resolutely proposed a divorce, and there was nothing wrong with Wang Jian asking for money and fruitlessly asking for peace, before and after congratulations, it was laughable to say, and I only hoped that he would reflect on his mistakes in the future and fulfill his responsibility as a father.