There are always people in the world who want to take all the benefits to themselves. It seems that in their eyes, this is all taken for granted. If you do not achieve your own satisfactory results, you will even feel that you have been wronged and others have done wrong.
This kind of self-centered good self-feeling is not in the minority.
There was a man, although he was an only child, but the family conditions were very ordinary, unable to come up with a high dowry, so he went to the woman's house as a door-to-door son-in-law. However, when receiving the kiss, he actually made a request, saying that the child would follow his surname in the future. I don't know who gave him such a big face and made such a request. Only to see the father-in-law domineering reply: Impossible, this is the rule of the upside-down door, you have to abide by the rules.
The door-to-door son-in-law proposed that the child should take his surname
On the wedding day, the man and the bride stand together and make a request to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, hoping that their future children will follow their surnames.
The mother-in-law said, you don't understand, the back door is this rule, the child can only be with my daughter's surname.
The man is still selling misery to win sympathy, he said, what rules ah mother, the rules are dead, people are alive, my family is rural, I am one in the family, even if I can accept it, my mother can't accept it, where is it said that the child follows the daughter-in-law's surname? You understand me.
For the man to say such a thing, the father-in-law and mother-in-law, of course, will not agree. Mother-in-law said, don't mention your mother, your mother knows better than I do, can you not understand what is going on? And my family spent so much dowry, to be honest, not only bought your name, but also bought your last name.
The father-in-law replied domineeringly: Impossible, this is the rule of inverted door insertion
When the man heard that his mother-in-law said the word "buy", he was very uncomfortable in his heart, and he said, What is buying? I came to take my daughter-in-law home, not to be a slave to her.
Speaking of this, the relatives and friends next to me also couldn't listen to it, and a girl asked directly: Without so much money, can you continue to go home?
Indeed, this man's approach is somewhat cheap and selling well. He did not pay any price, the bride price was paid by the woman, since it was a door-to-door son-in-law, he should abide by the rules, and the future children were of course the woman's surname.
Seeing that the atmosphere was becoming more and more awkward, the ceremonian of the wedding stood up and played the round field, saying that he would talk about this matter later, right? After all, there are still so many friends and family here.
But the man still did not spare, and had to let them give a promise today, insisting that the child must be born with his surname.
The father-in-law, who had been silently silent next to him, couldn't help it, he really had never seen such a brazen person, he said directly: It is impossible, this is the rule of inserting the door upside down.
I have to say that it is really very domineering. Treat such a person should not give him a good face, it is simply to kick the nose on the face, get cheap and sell well.
My opinion
Everything, including the bride price, the three golds, the car, the marriage room, etc., was handled by the bride alone, and the man married the bride without paying any price. But he didn't know what to do, kicked his nose in the face, made such unreasonable demands, and wanted the child to follow his surname. He even said that he was the only child in the family, and it was impossible for the child to follow his wife's surname.
In this regard, I would like to say, where is there such a good thing in the world, how can all the benefits be occupied by you? If you want your child to follow their surname, then you have some backbone, don't be a door-to-door son-in-law, really insatiable, soft rice hard to eat, not ashamed.