The man in front of him was swearing to heaven that he was going to prove that he was not lying. This man named Xiao Chen was the door-to-door son-in-law of the He family, and seeing Xiao Chen's behavior, his mother-in-law also quickly ran out of the house and knelt on the ground like his son-in-law and swore. What happened between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law? What kind of estrangement is there that makes the two make such a move?
The mother-in-law told us that she and her wife only had two daughters, the eldest daughter was married, and when it came to finding a partner for the second elder, they considered that they were old and did not have to rely on, so the second elder recruited a door-to-door son-in-law. Originally, the family was still happy and harmonious, but the sudden behavior of this door-to-door son-in-law cast a shadow of irritability on the whole family. What did the second son-in-law do? It turned out that not long ago, the son-in-law Xiao Chen suddenly threw out all the clothes of the eldest daughter and the child, not because there was any contradiction, because the mother-in-law helped the eldest daughter to take the child for a few days, and Xiao Chen was uneven.
For this matter, the mother-in-law and the son-in-law had a big fight, but they did not expect that the son-in-law not only did not restrain, but also threw out all the children's clothes. In the face of the scolding of his mother-in-law, Xiao Chen smiled and admitted his approach, and believed that he was not wrong. Xiao Chen said that his wife asked her mother-in-law for a few eggs and scrambled vegetables, but she sternly refused. Xiao Chen was angry in his eyes and thought that his mother-in-law would bring children to the old people. The mother-in-law said that these were all made up by Xiao Chen, and that the family had originally eaten together, and that there was any practice of asking for eggs.
Hearing this, Xiao Chen said again, because he ate a little bit of pig's trotters, his mother-in-law spoke harshly to each other, and even said that it was better to give the dog to eat. The mother-in-law listened angrily to the son-in-law and asked him to swear to heaven that he had not deceived anyone, which led to the opening scene, and the two swore to each other like children, which was really ridiculous. Seeing the basic situation of things here, they also understand, they are some small things of garlic skin, Xiao Chen should be a little more generous, and the mother-in-law should also let this door-to-door son-in-law balance in his heart, and everyone will tolerate each other.
Seeing that Xiao Chen's wife had not expressed herself, we asked her opinion. Xiao Chen's wife Xiao He said that her relationship with her husband is still good, that is, Xiao Chen and her parents always have friction, and Xiao He is sandwiched in the middle and overwhelmed. Perhaps seeing his wife's identification with himself, Xiao Chen continued to count the domineering behavior of his mother-in-law. Xiao Chen said that because of the domineering mother-in-law, he did not dare to go to the funeral when his father-in-law's father died, and many of his father-in-law's brothers no longer move around, which not only existed between relatives, but even the neighbors around him did not get along. The father-in-law wanted to save some face for himself, but everyone present could see who had the final say in the family, and even if the explanation was superfluous.
At this time, the wife Xiao He spoke, she thought that there was something wrong with her husband Xiao Chen, because the child did not eat well, the husband lost his temper with the child, and the grandfather saw the child crying and couldn't help but go up to protect the short, but she did not expect that Xiao Chen even scolded her father-in-law, which made the parents have a special opinion on the son-in-law. Xiao Chen always insisted that his father-in-law should not intervene when he was educating his children, in fact, no one had a bad heart in this matter, and his father-in-law was also for the good of his children, and he did not want adults to scold children because of a little thing. Originally, the two people could solve it by communicating well, but Xiao Chen adopted the most undeserved way.
Xiao Chen also admitted that his behavior was a bit inappropriate, and he went on to tell another story, Xiao Chen accused his mother-in-law of saying that he had been a door-to-door son-in-law in order to get their family's family property, and this was the last thing he wanted to hear. Hearing that the mother-in-law was unwilling, she denied her son-in-law's statement. Xiao Chen pointed to the outside of the house and asked her mother-in-law to swear, and the mother-in-law involuntarily knelt on the ground and swore an oath. These two people really make people cry and laugh, originally it is a common small thing in life, but when it comes to the two people, it has become the starting point of contradiction. The reason for this is mainly because neither side sees the other as their own, if Xiao Chen treats his mother-in-law as his biological parents, and his mother-in-law treats Xiao Chen as his own son, then there will be no such contradiction.
Xiao Chen still chattered and complained about her mother-in-law, accusing her of only changing the diapers of the children of the old people and treating them differently from the old people. Xiao Chen said a lot of small things in life, and everyone saw it at this time, which is completely Xiao Chen's psychological role. The mediator asked Xiao Chen to extend his palm and let him see if his toes were the same length, and Xiao Chen seemed to realize the problem, and he smiled and hated. It is impossible for anyone to be absolutely fair, and to see everything must be grateful.
After seeing Xiao Chen release her feelings, his wife Xiao He also glanced at Xiao Chen angrily, and she said that every time the eldest sister returned to her mother's house, Xiao Chen took it upon herself to drive away her sister and threatened the eldest sister to slap her, which also aroused the disgust of the family. The mother-in-law also said that the eldest child came to the house for two days on vacation, just happened to encounter Xiao Chen's child's cold, Xiao Chen accused the eldest child of being a broom star, and the mother-in-law wanted to see the child and was slapped by Xiao Chen. The whole thing has been very clear, the main reason is Xiao Chen's psychological role, always thinking about other people's bad, not seeing others' good for themselves, a small thing also broke out of their own temper, which is very bad, Xiao Chen finally realized his mistake.
The mediator also persuaded the mother-in-law's family to forgive Xiao Chen, and only by understanding each other and helping each other can a family prosper. As the old saying goes, the door-to-door son-in-law is not good, and the reality is true.
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