There is a saying that parents still have a place in life, parents are not there, and life is only a way home.
Therefore, many children will be wronged by this sentence. Because all parents in the world are children, the last thing that should be morally kidnapped is the parents.
However, the children are reasonable and understand the difficulties of the parents, but in turn, do the parents understand the hardships and difficulties of the children?
01, the mother-in-law left her father-in-law to go to the city to take her granddaughter
When her daughter was 8 years old, her mother-in-law, who had never been a director or nosy, suddenly left her wife and asked her son to go to the city to help her daughter-in-law and granddaughter.
The mother-in-law's sudden abnormality made Zhang Qiao's vigilance fill up at once. The sudden dedication of the mother-in-law at this time is not a good thing, more often, it is to add to the chaos.
When Zhang Qiao and her husband got married, the mother-in-law said that "the son has grown up and become a family, and he should no longer eat the old man", so the mother-in-law did not have anything to do, allowing Zhang Qiao and her husband to borrow money everywhere to buy a house and do a wedding.
Later, the wedding was successfully completed, Zhang Qiao became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter, the mother-in-law still did not move, but also said conclusively, whose daughter who serves the confinement, she as a mother-in-law does not have this obligation. Therefore, Zhang Qiao's mother left the family's trivia and rushed to serve her daughter Yuezi and bring her granddaughter, so that the area was 8 years.
Now that the mother-in-law has suddenly changed her nature and wants to help bring her granddaughter, how can this not make Zhang Qiao disgusted and disgusted? The children can take care of themselves, is the mother-in-law planning to come to the pension? Zhang Qiao vigorously opposed.
02, the husband refused to leave: I can't get rid of my mother-in-law who has been with the baby for 8 years
However, the mother-in-law has always been unscrupulous. Even if Zhang Qiao did not agree to her coming to take the child, the mother-in-law still came uninvited. Because she thinks that the daughter-in-law does not agree, but the son is always unlikely to refuse. After all, she was her biological mother.
The mother-in-law came to Zhang Qiao's home confidently, and Zhang Qiaohao said that the child grew up and did not need the mother-in-law to help, so that the mother-in-law could go back to the father-in-law to provide for a good pension. But the mother-in-law did not listen, and had to insist on waiting until her son came home from work.
Zhang Qiao originally thought that her husband would compromise softly and settle her mother-in-law. As a result, the husband directly refused to go out, and also told the mother-in-law: My mother-in-law helped me take the baby for 8 years and was taken away, my biological parents did nothing but enjoyed their success, there was no door, I could not get my mother-in-law away.
Her husband's words not only surprised Zhang Qiao, but her mother-in-law was even more incredulous. Her husband has been a filial son since he was a child, otherwise he would not have even opposed Zhang Qiao, and he also insisted on giving his in-laws a monthly pension fee of 2,000 yuan.
This attitude of her husband pleased Zhang Qiao and her mother. Mother came to the family for so many years, contributed money, hard work, it is not easy to survive now, Zhang Qiao also wants to take his father over a period of time, the family shares the joy of heaven, where will you accept your mother-in-law?
03, the mother-in-law scolded and grinned
The mother-in-law did not accept this fact, and how could her son, who had been pulling for more than 20 years, turn aside because her mother-in-law helped bring the child for 8 years, and even her own biological parents were unwilling to support her?
The mother-in-law scolded and grinned, insisting on staying, saying that the parents stayed at the son's home for the elderly, it was natural and righteous, and if they wanted to leave, they should also be the daughter-in-law's mother, and she stayed. After all, the blood relationship, her biological mother and grandmother, are the most qualified.
Zhang Qiao was very embarrassed, and she also saw that her mother began to waver. Although her husband did not say that she wanted to drive people away, her mother was not such a blind person, she began to pack her own luggage, and did not want her son-in-law to quarrel with her biological parents for her own sake.
However, before the mother stepped out of the gate, the husband dragged the mother back and said that whoever should leave should not be the mother-in-law. The husband's words made the mother's eyes red at once. And the mother-in-law who stands on the side is extremely unbalanced, thinking that she is not qualified, and what qualifications does the mother have to stay and retire?
The husband did not explain more to the mother-in-law, but very plainly told the mother-in-law, either you take 2,000 yuan a month to retire in your hometown, or do not give a penny, you are good for yourself.
Hearing that her husband wanted to cut off 2,000 yuan of living expenses, her mother-in-law was extremely reluctant. If the eldest son breaks 2,000 yuan, what money do they take to subsidize the younger son? There is no money, and the strong and domineering daughter-in-law is definitely not willing to raise them, let alone let them live in.
Thinking of this, even if there is more dissatisfaction, the mother-in-law can only reluctantly take the 3,000 yuan given by her husband and leave. Seeing this, Zhang Qiaocai was greatly relieved.
If the husband takes away his mother because of his mother-in-law, then his marriage and family are bound to be insecure. After all, in the past 8 years, without the help of their mother, the couple could never pay off their debts so quickly and live a stable life.
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