Many people say that a woman marrying a man is equivalent to marrying the original family behind the man. Even if you want to resist the struggle, you can never escape the shackles of fate.
As a wife and a daughter-in-law, the most frightening thing is to meet a mother-in-law who has a set on the surface and a set on the back. Such a mother-in-law will make the daughter-in-law have words of suffering and grievances.
Because the mother-in-law does not leak on the surface, no one blames, but behind the scenes, only the daughter-in-law understands the key. Blood is thicker than water, no matter how clever a woman is, men will only think that women are not filial piety, and they do not know the blessing in the blessing.
01, daughter-in-law pregnant, please come to the mother-in-law to take care of
Zhang Qiao, who has been married for 2 years, finally got pregnant under everyone's expectations. Originally, Zhang Qiao did not want to be pretentious, and she did not want to invite her mother-in-law to take care of her as soon as she became pregnant. But helplessly, his body did not fight for breath, morning sickness was tortured for more than a month, and Zhang Qiao had to stay in bed to raise a fetus.
It was not until three months later that Zhang Qiao's health slowly improved, and at this time, the mother-in-law who had been delaying in her hometown for more than a month finally came to the door and said that she would come to serve her daughter-in-law.
Zhang Qiao thought that when his mother-in-law came, he could enjoy the treatment enjoyed by others. However, a month after the mother-in-law came, Zhang Qiao was miserable, but her truthful account became the dissatisfaction and complaint in her husband's mouth.
In front of her son, the mother-in-law promised to be well, and served three meals a day. Then, as soon as the husband went to work, the mother-in-law changed her face, saying which woman is not pregnant, others can take care of themselves when they are pregnant and have children, how did they get to you, but also need someone to serve you, too squeamish?
The mother-in-law's accusation made Zhang Qiao have some face. But thinking of the child in his belly, Zhang Qiao did not dare to be strong. It was only after that that, the mother-in-law began her acting career.
When her husband was not at home, her mother-in-law casually made a green vegetable egg soup to send Zhang Qiao away, and said with a straight face that the whole family had to rely on her son to raise, and they would have to raise children in the future.
02, the mother-in-law was disliked, and the husband drove people away after eating a meal
Zhang Qiao repeatedly told her husband that her mother-in-law was inconsistent, and her husband did not think so, and even thought that Zhang Qiao was too harsh, the requirements were too strict, he did not know the blessing in the blessing, and he also picked and chose his mother.
Every time Zhang Qiao complained that she did not eat well, her body could not make up for it, and the fetus would have no nutrition, her husband thought that she was not filial piety and asked for too much. It was said more often, and then later, Zhang Qiao learned to shut up, and if he was really hungry, Zhang Qiao secretly went back to his mother's house to fight the tooth sacrifice.
Until that day, the mother-in-law, as usual, casually made two dishes and a soup, and before Zhang Qiao had time to eat, her husband left work early. The mother-in-law was suddenly a little flustered, and immediately jumped up from the sofa and said that she would cook two more dishes for her son.
The husband inadvertently glanced at the dinner table, saw two dishes and a soup, and decisively stopped her mother-in-law, let her rest, and said that the meal was enough. But when her husband came to the table and began to eat, his face became more and more gloomy.
Looking at Zhang Qiao, who had no appetite on the other side, her husband casually asked: Do you eat such meals every day? Zhang Qiao nodded his head with a smile, and her husband immediately lowered his eyes.
The two dishes and a soup on the table are actually fried vegetables with minced meat, and the soup is only seaweed egg flower soup. Because the amount of the mother-in-law's stir-fry is large, a plate of minced meat stir-fried vegetables is divided into two plates. In fact, from the beginning to the end, it is still a dish and a soup.
03, the husband drove away the mother-in-law: Mom, you go home to find your brother to retire
Zhang Qiao thought that her husband would, as usual, accuse her of being picky and picky about his mother. But who knows, the husband didn't say anything, just asked the mother-in-law: Mom, you still go home to find your brother for the elderly, I really can't afford to raise you and my brother's family of four.
The husband's words not only stunned the mother-in-law, but even Zhang Qiao, who was watching the play, also froze. She did not expect that her husband had a brain, not to scold her for being picky, but to directly drive away her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law could not accept this fact, and she served her daughter-in-law at the call of her son, and now the son did not say a word of thanks, but he wanted to send her away, and the mother-in-law was very unwilling. Although she also wanted to go back to her hometown, she had the merit of going back, which was different from being driven away by her son.
The husband did not pay attention to the mother-in-law's crying, but very calmly told the mother-in-law: I give you 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses, every day you and Zhang Qiao eat at home, no matter how luxurious, you can't use 3,000 a month. But you give her these meals every day, how can your daughter-in-law and children raise a good body?
On the contrary, the younger brother's family of four, the couple do not go to work, but they can eat and drink spicy, and the life does not know how comfortable it is. And this money, it is estimated that you withheld it from me to subsidize your brother.
Seeing that her husband had exposed the truth, her mother-in-law immediately forgot to cry. But before Zhang Qiao made a statement, her mother-in-law rushed to say, the money you give me belongs to me, I use my own money to subsidize my younger son, why can't I? You are his own brother, how can you be so cruel, even your own brother does not care, let them fend for themselves?
When my husband heard his mother-in-law's scolding, he immediately jumped up angrily: the money for my brother's bride price and marriage was out of me; the birth of my brother's two children was also paid for by me, and I was even more responsible for my parents' illness and pension. I have already posted my parents and brother to this position, do you really want to make trouble for me to be divorced before I give up? You go, go back to my brother for the elderly, I can't afford to support the whole family alone.
The mother-in-law scolded and grinned and carried the luggage away, while the husband felt ashamed of Zhang Qiao. Zhang Qiao complained to him many times about his mother-in-law's selfishness and indifference, and her husband thought that it was the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But until this moment, the husband understood that all this was caused by the mother's eccentricity.
Today's Topic:
Do you support Zhang Qiao's husband's righteous extermination of relatives?