The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a problem for eternity, but all mother-in-law who is distressed about her son will choose to be good to her daughter-in-law, because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be stored, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not relatives, but only because of a common man will have contact.
But too many mothers-in-law always regard their sons too important, and watching their daughters-in-law is all kinds of unpleasant, which is really puzzling. The wise mother-in-law knows to spoil her daughter-in-law, because if she spoils her daughter-in-law, her son's life will be better.
However, there are too many evil mothers-in-law in the world, and even many mothers-in-law will say that they do not expect their daughters-in-law, but are counting on their own sons, or counting on their daughters.
In fact, is this really useful to expect a son or daughter, too many mothers-in-law are actually relying on daughters-in-law, when they are young, they are not good for their daughter-in-law, and whether there is someone to take care of them after they are old is still unknown.
Especially when the daughter-in-law is pregnant and confined, it is also a more difficult stage in life, if in the most difficult stage of the daughter-in-law, there is no initiative to extend a hand, this should be something that cannot be compensated.
Recently, I saw a mother-in-law who was also saying in front of her son, I don't expect you when I'm old, I count on my son, this son has always been silent, watching his mother and his wife theorize.
When there is a contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, this man is still quite critical, because the man will be the mediator in the mother-in-law relationship, the man who will do things will hide at both ends, the man who will not do it will be passed on at both ends, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also enter the rigid stage in the end.
And who is this child with, most of them used to be mother-in-law to help with the child, no matter how to say, the child is the blood of the man's family, it should be the man's parents to help bring.
Many young people have begun to choose to bring their own children, or let the mother-in-law parents help with the children, if your family is also the mother-in-law to help with the children, or hope that this man can be sensible, from time to time to the mother-in-law to send gifts to express gratitude.
They all say shake and shake, shake to grandma's bridge, but there is no song in praise of grandma, why is this? The mother-in-law brings herself back, in fact, she has more love for her daughter, and grandma and grandma are normally with children, in fact, it is better for the mother-in-law to take the child.
Now many families are grandmothers with children, mother-in-law does not! However, try not to let your mother help with the child, suffer from unpopularity, and finally have to mess with it.
It is very reasonable not to persuade people to be kind without suffering, and not to morally kidnap young people just by looking at the poor old people in ten years.
The mother-in-law who is not complained about is at home to wash and cook for the son and wife, clean up with the children, of course, do not have to be complained. The mother-in-law who is bullied by the daughter-in-law is basically not highly educated and will not go online, you taste it! Isn't it!
Now say that you don't expect your son and daughter-in-law to raise them, and when you are old, you are still tired of your sons and daughters-in-law, so you don't help your mother-in-law now, and when you are old, see if you will be retaliated against. Do you think there are still mothers-in-law under the heavens who don't expect their daughters-in-law?