The in-laws came on vacation and were arranged by their wives to stay in a simple hotel, and the husband returned home to drive away her parents-in-law

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After marriage, we face not only the lover who is always with us, but also the parents and relatives of the other party.

Whether you like it or resist, as a junior, you should give each other the respect they deserve.

The heroine in the next case, because she treated her in-laws harshly, was finally driven out of the house by her husband's anger.

Sun Meng and her husband recently had an awkward quarrel, and the two have not spoken for three or four days.

The main reason is that the wife has taken her parents to live.

In fact, Zhang Chao is not a stingy person, and he is also welcome to come to the house to stay in the house.

It's just that in the past three months, Sun Meng's parents have been living like this, and they have no intention of leaving.

The father-in-law and the mother-in-law kissed again, after all, it was still separated by a layer, and he was more and more uncomfortable living like this every day.

So a few days ago, I found my wife and asked my mother-in-law when they were leaving.

Who knew that Sun Meng was unhappy and asked, "What's wrong, isn't this only three months?" Are you in a hurry to bombard my parents and leave? ”

Zhang Chao quickly said that this was not the meaning, but Sun Meng did not continue to say more, rolled his eyes and left.

Zhang Chao's heart suddenly became annoyed, hating that he had no personality and even lived in his own house.

In fact, when they first got married, the families of the two sides also had some contradictions.

Because the total price of the marriage room at that time was relatively high, the down payment of money Zhang Chao's family saved was also a bit difficult.

So I hope that the woman's parents can be more considerate, make a little down payment, and then write the names of the two children in the house.

But Sun Meng's parents rejected this proposal, they believe that their family is marrying their daughters, and the man should be responsible for buying a house.

In the end, not only did not take the down payment, but also asked the loan part to be paid by Zhang Chao's parents.

Zhang Chao was a little angry in his heart, was he still so out of sight with his biological parents?

But the mother-in-law said that Zhang Chao repaid the loan, and her daughter's life would be tight.

Zhang Chao, who has a gentle personality, can only agree to the request of his mother-in-law's family, not only let his parents buy a house with a down payment, but also hand in his own salary card.

Fortunately, Zhang Chao's mother is a person with an idea, and she insists that only Zhang Chao's name be written on the house book.

Unsurprisingly, Sun Meng's family did not agree to this, and had to write the names of the two people.

At this time, Zhang Chao's mother said: "Dear family, this down payment is taken by us, and the loan will also be out of our old two mouths after the loan." My son's salary card is at your daughter's. You should not add your daughter's name. ”

Sun Meng's parents were killed by this card, and finally gave up asking Fang Ben to add a name, but this dowry was enough to add 100,000.

To tell the truth, if it wasn't for Zhang Chao's parents stopping him at that time, he really wanted to pick a son and not get married.

In the end, although he successfully got married, Zhang Chaochao did not have the mood of expectation.

Sun Meng was still good to Zhang Chao after marriage, and sometimes took the initiative to cook.

In fact, Zhang Chao did not know that this marriage room was the best house that Sun Meng had lived in since she was a child.

Not only is it a bungalow with one ladder and two families, but even the decoration is particularly foreign, which has aroused the envy of many people in the circle of friends.

And Sun Meng has always had some inferiority because of the poverty of her original family.

Therefore, after living in a big house after marriage, I did not invite relatives and friends to visit the house.

Once, after my cousin from my hometown came to visit the house, her face obviously became ugly.

Yin Yang said strangely: "Cousin, your house is old and expensive, and it can't be compared with the suburban tile house you used to live in..."

Although this made Sun Meng uncomfortable to hear, she was still beautiful in her heart.

In addition, her parents did not miss the marriage room of her son-in-law, which made her former neighbors blush.

Later, somehow, Sun Meng wanted to take her parents to live at home for a while.

That day, as soon as Zhang Chao came home from work and opened the door, he saw his father-in-law and mother-in-law watching TV on the sofa.

Seeing that the son-in-law had returned, they quickly came up to say hello, and Zhang Chao, although a little surprised, was not angry.

In the evening, he asked his wife how to take his mother-in-law to live without saying a word to him.

Sun Meng said that her parents had never lived in such a good house in their lives, and it was not okay for them to enjoy the happiness of being a child.

Zhang Chao's temper has always been relatively good, coupled with the fact that he is busy at work, he arranged with his wife.

But Na Cheng wanted to live for a month, and then lived for two months, and now he has no intention of leaving.

So the two couples made a little unpleasant trouble for this matter, but in less than a week, Zhang Chao was not counted.

Thinking that the old man loves to live, he can't live for a lifetime anyway. Besides, after having a baby, the room will definitely be moved out.

The good-natured Zhang Chao did not forgive his wife because of this matter, after all, it is not easy to get married, and he can no longer let his parents worry.

But he did not expect that the peace he had endured would soon be destroyed by his own hands.

Because Zhang Chao's parents had a conflict at home a few days ago, he zhang Luo's parents came to relax and went on vacation.

The old couple did receive their son's invitation and were in a good mood, and they didn't make trouble at home anymore, so they bought a ticket and came over.

After his wife Sun Meng knew that her in-laws were coming, her attitude had not been very positive.

But people were already on the way, and she could only ask her husband unhappily how to arrange it.

Zhang Chao was still in a hurry to go to work, so he asked his wife to pick up the station, and he tried to return from work early.

As a result, after Zhang Chao arrived home at night, he did not see his parents.

Only the wife is busy in the kitchen, and the father-in-law is watching TV.

Puzzled, he asked, "Alas, my parents didn't let you pick them up?" ”

The wife said in passing, "Oh, I've already arranged accommodation for them, and in a moment they'll come here for dinner." ”

Zhang Chao called his parents with questions, and his mother was very unhappy and sent a location to Zhang Chao after saying a few words.

When he arrived at the place, he was almost angry, and his wife actually arranged a small hotel for his parents to live in, and the environment was particularly remote.

He immediately carried his parents downstairs to his house, and couldn't bear to rush upstairs to let his wife take his parents and roll immediately!

The mother-in-law was frightened and wanted to go forward to persuade her, but Zhang Chao, who was angry, directly dragged the mother-in-law out, and then drove his wife out.

That night, two people made trouble with the police, and the next day they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to divorce them.

Sun Meng and her parents, who had nothing, once again lived in the broken house in their hometown, while Zhang Chao took his parents to live in his new house...

In this case, the wife is mistreating her in-laws, so that the hard-won marriage also disappears.

This tells us not to be too careful in our lives, but also to remember the following two truths.

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One: In marriage, it is a kind of wisdom to level a bowl of water for both parents.

Marriage is not only a life for two people, but also a fusion of two families.

Neither party wants to snub their parents after marriage.

Therefore, it is particularly important to level the bowl of water for both parents.

The heroine in the case is too different to make her husband intolerable.

In the end, the point of divorce was caused by one's own hands, after all, when the children can watch their parents be wronged.

Therefore, when treating your partner's parents after marriage, you should also pay attention to being measured and polite.

Not to say that it is like a biological parent, but the minimum respect and love is to be done.

A harmonious family should not only be a small couple and a beautiful family, but also deal with the kinship behind it.

Maintaining a face-to-face balance on parental issues is not only a necessity, but also a wisdom.

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Second: The so-called high emotional intelligence in marriage is a human touch.

No matter who you get along with, you must talk about emotional intelligence and have a human touch.

In the long river of marriage, it is even more necessary to adapt to changes and appease all parties.

Especially with the parents and relatives of the partner, excessive indifference leaves a handle and makes people point fingers behind their backs.

After all, being a junior has no human touch, and it is unreasonable to go anywhere.

Those girls who can take care of the four sides will always make the elders happy and praise.

Not only because their mouths are sweet, but most importantly, the heart that is willing to give.

Family is always a warm place, and more enthusiasm and humanity will be more beautiful.

When we rack our brains to find out what high emotional intelligence is, it may be simply warm-hearted.

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Life can be salty and sweet, and people's interactions also pay attention to scale and human feelings.

I hope that each of us can enjoy the family and family affection after marriage.

Don't let selfishness and narrow-mindedness stand in the way of happiness.

Text/No Pen