Only people who have brought dolls know how broken it is to get up early and be greedy and take the little one
Many young new moms with dolls are a bit silly with them that they are depressed or ignorant.
Probably all the mothers under the heavens have thought that if only their husbands could help share the hard work of sharing the baby...
On March 20, Xiaoshan, Zhejiang, came to his son-in-law
This dad is probably the superhero in the minds of many mothers, because after the guy leaves work; he will take the initiative to take the baby at home.
The most important thing is that he is not like the perfunctory baby of many dads (the kind of playing with the child and calling his wife when he cries); but he earnestly concentrates on taking the baby, playing with him, getting him food; crying and coaxing himself...
Whenever the boy concentrates on taking the baby after work, it is really concentrated; even after the company has any notification news, he does not look at it or reply.
The young man said that his wife's work is busier; and his own work happens to be more flexible and has more time (the family's main income depends on investment), so he actively takes the initiative to take the baby.
The mother-in-law saw that he was so serious and attentive, so she gave him an extra 10,000 yuan a month; it was used as a baby allowance.
For the novice dad and mom, it is really not easy to take the baby; the guy said that especially at night, he has to get up four or five times at night.
So for a long time, the sleep at night was not very good; staying up late made him gain more than a dozen pounds...
The young man said that through the matter of taking the baby, he learned a lot of mothers' difficulties; he also wanted to hope that more husbands could care more about their wives, especially the wives who had to take the baby alone at home.
The young man said that his mother-in-law gave him money, which surprised him; because he felt that as a husband, he was the father of the child, and it was his responsibility and obligation to do such a thing.
However, this performance of the young man in the eyes of some relatives, but feels that it is a very humiliating, unproductive performance.
A small number of netizens also feel that the man's son-in-law as a door-to-door son-in-law is in such a rich family; it can be seen that there is really no status.
But for this dad, most netizens still praise him; first of all, people have classes, even if the family has money and does not do full-time dad lying flat.
The second is to be able to take the initiative to share the burden of taking care of the children for the wife, which not only assumes the responsibility of a good father; but also fulfills the obligation of a husband, loves the children, and hurts the wife...
However, it is not that other fathers in the world do not want to take care of their children and are unwilling to share the pressure for their wives; but in most families, the father's work pressure is great, and he is already very tired of working outside; it is difficult to get up three or four times at night to take care of the children after returning home...
[In terms of work and childcare, I hope that all couples can understand each other a little]