Last month, I gave my daughter's unwanted bag to her nanny, Xuelian, who later said she had 20,000 cash and a gold ring in it. I asked Snow Lotus if she would die and wouldn't admit it. Yesterday Snow Lotus dropped 2

Last month, I gave my daughter's unwanted bag to her nanny, Xuelian, who later said she had 20,000 cash and a gold ring in it. I asked Snow Lotus if she would die and wouldn't admit it. Yesterday Xuelian left 20,000 cash to resign, she said "I will buy the ring as soon as possible to return to you." In the evening, my daughter said that she had found cash and a ring, and I realized that I had wronged Xuelian.

I am 75 years old, from Shandong, I am a retired civil servant, and my wife has been dead for 3 years. The family has a daughter who married far away to Guangdong.

After my wife and I retired, my daughter asked us to move to Guangdong to live together, but we refused, and we were not old enough to walk, so we did not want to trouble our daughter too early.

3 years ago, my 70-year-old wife fell ill and eventually died and left me. After my daughter and son-in-law came to do the funeral, they once again invited me to move to Guangdong, I thought about it for a long time, but still refused, I am old, or more nostalgic.

But my daughter decided to hire a live-in nanny to take care of me, and I gladly accepted.

The nanny is 36 years old and is named Xuelian. She is 5 years younger than my daughter, whose hometown is rural, widowed for many years, and has a 10-year-old son in her mother's house. The first month the nanny came, she told me that she hoped I would give her 4 days off every month so that she could go back and spend time with her son. I agreed.

After that, the nanny also took good care of me. After coming to my house for 3 months, I said, "Xuelian, you bring your son to my house, my house is also big, and it is convenient for your children to receive a better education." Xuelian agreed. I also like her son very much, always treat him like his grandson, I often give him pocket money, and for me, this child is also very respectful.

Xuelian has been working in my house for 3 years, and I have become accustomed to her care, and I often think that if only she were my wife. But I know that it is not realistic, after all, our age gap is too big, and I am embarrassed to open my mouth, I can only think about it. In the past 3 years, I have raised her salary twice, and now I have 5000 per month.

Last month, my daughter said she was on vacation to stay at her mother's house for a few days, and I was glad that my daughter would come to visit me. My daughter is also very satisfied with Xuelian, after all, under the care of Xuelian, the more I live, the more energetic I am.

Once, my daughter took me and Xuelian mother and son to go shopping, and my daughter spent more than 10,000 yuan to buy a new bag, and she bought some gifts for Xuelian mother and son.

After staying at my house for half a month, my daughter also returned to Guangdong. At night, I saw a bag on the wall, the one my daughter had carried before she came. I immediately called my daughter and said she had forgotten to take her bag back. The daughter said, "I don't want that bag." You help me throw it away", I took a look at it, the bag is still new, and it looks good. Knowing that my daughter had spent more than 8,000 to buy it before, I was even more reluctant to lose it.

I said, "Since you don't want it, it's a pity to lose it, or I'll give it to Xuelian", my daughter did not object, she said that she would do whatever I wanted, and she didn't want it anyway.

After I handed the bag to Xuelian, she was very happy. I know that this kind of bag is indeed a bit expensive for her. In those days, Xuelian carried this bag every day, loved it, even bought vegetables, accompanied me shopping, sent her son to school, she and the bag were inseparable.

Last week, my daughter called me and said, "Dad, I have 20,000 cash and a gold ring that is missing, I remember it was in that bag, and I forgot to take it out at that time." Hearing my daughter's words, I immediately asked Xuelian, "Do you see anything else in your bag?"

Xuelian said, "Uncle, when you first gave it to me, there was nothing in it, it was empty." Hearing her say this, I asked again, "Are you sure there's nothing in it?"? Xuelian thought for a moment, and she said again, "It seems that there is a hairpin, but I threw it."

I must have believed my daughter, since she said that there was 20,000 cash and a ring in the bag, there must be, and my daughter would not be untargeted. But Xuelian said nothing.

I said "Xuelian, I'm not thin to you, I hope you honestly confess", Xuelian was confused, she asked me "Uncle, what do you really want to say"? I said, "You knowingly asked, there is 20,000 cash and a ring in the bag, if you are short of money, you can discuss it with me, but you are a little too dishonest."

Xuelian said, "Uncle, I didn't lie to you, there was nothing in the bag." I didn't believe her words, and I said, "You should have taken it out earlier, I should have done it." For the next few days, Xuelian was silent and did not speak to me.

Yesterday at noon, I went to an old man's house to play cards, and when I came home in the afternoon, I found that Xuelian and her son were not at home, and I used to see 20,000 cash on the table, as well as a bag for Xuelian, and a note that said, "Give me 2 months, I will return the ring."

I felt a pang of discomfort in my heart, Xuelian's things were all moved away, and she actually resigned. For me and my daughter, cash and rings don't really matter, but I just want her to be honest. Xuelian was gone, and my heart was suddenly empty.

In the evening, my daughter called me and said, "Dad, I'm sorry, the money and the ring were found and I put in the car." Hearing my daughter's words, I suddenly realized that I had wronged Xuelian and wronged her. I regret it so much that I wronged her indiscriminately, but can you imagine how uncomfortable her heart is?

I immediately took out the phone and called Xuelian, and I said, "I'm sorry, I wronged you, you come back soon." Xuelian cried at once, she said, "Uncle, I have suffered great grievances in the past few days, on the one hand, you are very good to me, on the other hand, you do not trust me, so I am very uncomfortable, and I can only say goodbye."

I apologized to her and hoped she would come back immediately, after all, I was used to her care. But she said she was thinking about it for a few days.

If Snow Lotus doesn't come back, what can I do to get her back?

@Moving Emotions I would like to say:

You have indeed made Xuelian suffer a great grievance, but she has been a nanny in your family for 3 years, you should listen to her explanation.

Nowadays, it is normal for Xuelian to be a little aggrieved, and no one wants to be wronged for no reason. All you can do now is apologize more and return her money, and I think I'll just wait until she's discouraged. #情感 #