Live up to love, live up to you and me
At the beginning of the two acquaintances, in order not to let the other party feel that they are taking advantage, they will agree to get along in the way of AA system. Among the vast majority of people-to-people relationships, AA can be said to be the fairest and most just way.
However, this mode of getting along does not seem to apply between husband and wife.
The emergence of the AA system will break this balance, we are willing to believe that every couple with the AA system has unavoidable hardships, but in a healthy couple emotional life, the AA system should not have appeared.
Although the AA system can alleviate the pressure between each other in the short term and distribute all kinds of troubles in life to the husband and wife in the most fair and just way, for couples, where does such a fair lifestyle put feelings? Could it be that after years of getting along, after thousands of storms and rains, the looks of each other have ended up being like strange roommates, so clearly and clearly divided.
And all this is obviously not conducive to the long-term development of husband and wife.
01 Because of love, I chose to marry, but also because of love, so I agreed with AA
Sissi is a silly girl, at least when she chooses to give everything for love, she is really stupid.
Sissi and her husband met by chance, Sissi can be described as love at first sight, of course, in this relationship, a person's initiative can not be exchanged for the consummation of love, in the end, under the mutual proximity of the two, Sissi and her husband have become an envious pair in the eyes of friends around them.
After a period of time together, Sissi married him.
There have been some small episodes before marriage, because the husband's family conditions are not good, plus the dowry in Sissi's hometown is very high, so under comprehensive consideration, Sissi consulted with her parents, hoping that her parents could dispense with the bride price of her husband's family, when Sissi's parents gave Sissi's reply: As long as my daughter is happy, everything is easy to say.
Therefore, without asking for a dowry, Sissi also took a lot of dowry with her dowry, and in this way, she married into her husband's family.
Friends around them all say that Sissi is stupid, since they are married, why not bride price, to some extent, the bride price can see the importance that the in-laws attach to the new daughter-in-law.
But Sissi said: Because my husband loves me, so all this is what I am willing to do.
However, what Sissi did not expect was that no matter how good the love had to fade one day, how could the feelings that were not supported by the economy be long-lasting.
In the third year after marriage, the husband faced a crisis of unemployment, and the family's economic situation suddenly became much more severe. And there are more quarrels between husband and wife, and Sissi thought that this period is more special, and it is better to survive.
However, I did not expect that after a long time, my husband would actually put forward the AA system request, trying to alleviate the pressure on his body in this way.
Sissi looked at the face she had once loved deeply, not knowing why the two had come to such a point, but since her husband had already proposed it, it meant that he had done it after careful consideration, and if he refused, it would obviously be in vain. Therefore, Sissi agreed to her husband's request for AA system.
02 Give your parents 5,000 a month, and your husband envies them
Before she knew her husband, Sissi had her own dreams and careers, but after meeting her husband, she was willing to retreat into the background and become her husband's helper.
However, at this point, Sissi had to regroup and regain her dream from many years ago.
But after all, when idle at home for a long time, at the beginning, it was so easy to adapt to the new environment of the workplace, but fortunately, Sissi's age is not too old, coupled with previous experience, soon, Sissi's career has a new start.
Although Sissi's career is gradually stable, since the AA system with her husband, the feelings between husband and wife have been consumed very quickly, and the two have almost reached the point of strangers.
In fact, it is also normal to think about it, after all, the AA system, which is a husband and wife mode, is doomed to the final outcome from the beginning of implementation.
Later, Sissi's parents gradually aged, at that time Sissi's career has also improved slightly, so she gives her parents a monthly pension fee of 5,000 to make up for the regret that she cannot accompany her.
However, this matter was finally known to the husband, and after the husband knew, he clearly told Sissi: Sissi, it doesn't matter if the feelings between you and me are weak, but for the elderly on both sides, it should be fair, I heard that you give your mother 5,000 pension fees a month, but now my mother is older.
Inside and outside the words are accusations that Sissi has done an unfair job.
Xi Qian looked into her husband's eyes, and after a long time she spat out a sentence: Since we both AA, I don't need you to take care of my business, moreover, I take care of my parents, if you want your mother to have pension expenses, please cheer you up!
After Sissi said that, she went to the back room. After returning to the house, Xi Xi saw the original wedding photo of the two of them, and the photo of herself smiling so happily and looking happy, and at this time, Xi Qian's heart was full of mixed feelings, and she did not expect that her original lonely courage would end up like this in the end.
And all this, rather than saying that the AA system is the initiator, it is better to say that you chose the wrong person.
Conclusion: The meaning of marriage for women is naturally self-evident, meeting a responsible husband is more important than anything, he will do his best to take care of this small family, and will not make some so-called AA system requirements to his wife.
Only couples living in this environment will have their feelings as harmonious as ever and their families happy.