I know that both husband and wife are constantly running into each other to maintain a longer time. But there is such a thing, because the man actually said that his wife and before marriage, after marriage, completely sentenced to two people, and even regarded money as more important than anything, in the eyes of his wife, he was a cash machine. As long as there is a shortage of money, the wife will definitely come to her, that is, to face such a situation. The wife denied her husband's intention because he said on the wedding night that his parents helped him borrow money to buy a building for marriage, and owed a lot of foreign debt, so he wanted to use the name of the husband and wife to borrow money, but the wife was afraid of the pressure and was unwilling to take out a loan, that is, in the face of such a situation, the wife had various restrictions on money. It can be seen that this is the wrong way for the husband and wife to do it. The most egregious thing is that the husband actually asked his wife to take out a loan for himself on his wedding night.
The husband said that after he married his wife, he found that his wife used herself as a cash machine
It can be said that men belong to the state of second marriage, because they have a marriage before meeting their current wife, but the marriage is not happy, so they have been living with their six-year-old daughter, until they meet their current wives, the two people also know each other through blind dates, so in the face of their wives, they are relatively very fateful, they still choose to be with their wives, and at the same time, when they are in money, their wives also understand themselves in every way, and also take the initiative to think about themselves. That is to say, in the face of such a thing, the husband has super high expectations for this marriage, which is also the case, but when two people are married, they find that the wife tries to be completely different from before marriage, and even regards money as more important than anything, and opening his mouth is a matter of money, that is, in the face of such a thing, the husband chooses to be very angry.
Is the gap between such a wife and his wife before marriage very large, is it because before marriage and after marriage, he is hiding his feelings? Even because he has been working outside for many years, the time at home is small, so the wife is mainly responsible for the housework and taking care of the children, so the husband will give his wife the money he earns every month, but the wife says that he does not spend enough every time, and has been chasing him for money, and even suspects that he has hidden private money, that is, to face such a thing. The husband once suspected that his wife and himself married to see his own house, and even made himself into a long-term cash machine, but when the wife heard the husband say this, his wife immediately refuted it, and the husband had another plan.
It is also because the husband said that there were too many loans, and he had no choice but to ask for more money for his family
The wife said that when she was married to her husband, on the wedding night, the husband said to himself that because the two people married, the husband's parents took out a lot of money for him, so it was a lot of foreign debt, and he was very distressed about the foreign debt that his parents owed for himself, so he wanted to use the loan money in the name of the husband and wife to turn it around. But when the wife heard about this matter, she hesitated repeatedly, because he said that such pressure was very high and refused to take out a loan, that is, he knew that because the two were married, his in-laws had a special amount of loans, so he tightened himself and her husband, and every time the husband paid his salary, he saved up to repay the loan.
And it is indeed very harsh on yourself, but it is not very vague about the in-laws and their children. Therefore, the wife is a very filial wife, but also to do the wife to the daughter-in-law responsibility, he is vague about himself, but not ambiguous about his in-laws, children, it can be said that he forced his husband to live a better life, but the husband thinks so, his wife expressed a very cold heart. Because the husband is not at home for many years, go out to work, the big and small things in the family are entrusted to themselves, and they can say that they are husbands for a while and wives for a while.
The husband is very distressed to face his wife, but also realizes his mistake, but also claims that he will not go out to work like this in the future, find a nearby job at home and live a stable and stable life with his wife, so for such a thing, the husband and wife must be solved with both heads, and the biggest contradiction is also because the husband and wife do not live together for a long time after marriage, but the reason for long-term work is that there is not much running-in after the marriage of two people at both ends, so they all live a one-sided life, so there will be some contradictions. For such a contradiction, it can only be said that after each other appears, they are happy to explain, and the pain in their hearts is said, so that both parties can understand your hardships and can maintain the marriage very well.
summary
For this matter, it can be said that the husband thought wrong online at the same time he was a little too demanding, in the wedding night even asked his wife and himself to make a loan, that is, in the face of such a thing, the wife chose to be more stressed, did not agree to the loan, but withheld herself and her husband, but never did not bring their own in-laws, that is, in the face of such a thing, it can be said that both people think of the wrong way, but they are for each other's sake. The most fortunate thing is that both parties have solved the contradictions and have not embarked on the road of divorce, or very lucky, and the husband also said that he will not go out to work for a long time in the future, find a nearby job and live a safe and stable life with his wife, but think of their future.