To know that in life, whether it is a friend or a couple will have a time to divide into AA system, that is, in the face of such a time, everyone will pay as they should, everyone can understand, but there is a mother-in-law who forces her daughter-in-law and her son to carry out AA system life, she is simply very absurd, because for this matter, there is no need for the AA system between husband and wife, if you have to calculate it very clearly, it is not a husband and wife at all. It can even be said that cohabitation life faces such a situation. It is incomprehensible, and even feels that this mother-in-law is making unreasonable trouble. Therefore, there is no way for couples to live in the AA system.
Because the wife earns more money, the man feels that there is no face, so he says to his wife that in the future, he will say that I earn more money outside, and the wife also agrees with the husband's statement
In fact, for this couple, it is a phenomenon of strong women and weak men, because this woman is very good than her husband in both career and ability, but the two people are together because of love, and even his husband also ridiculed you to say that I am not as good as you Why would you choose to be with me? And his wife said that everyone is good at different things, but I am in terms of making money. Very capable, but I take care of the family and cook can be said to be very unfortunate, so I think the husband and wife should be complementary phenomenon, and I look at you is Wang Ba's green bean to the eye, that is, in the face of such a statement, it can be said that this woman is very humorous. He and his husband are women who earn money outside, and her husband is responsible for taking care of the family.
That is, when the husband heard the wife actually say this about himself, he was not completely angry, and even said to his wife that if we both went out, could you tolerate me and let me blow a little bull, after all, our family is a big man who wants face, if you make more money, then I don't want face, in the face of her husband's words, the wife also said that there is no problem, because you are my man, if there is no face outside, I have no face, so for this idea, I agree, That is, in the face of such a statement, when every time his mother-in-law asks his husband who earns more money with his wife, he generously admits that he earns more money, that is, in the face of such a situation, the mother-in-law also says in front of various relatives and friends in the family that his son is very capable, and the specific real situation is only his own. The wife knows that in the face of such a thing, she just smiles and does not speak, because he thinks that his husband is his own man, and the other people who want face will let him go.
The mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law is lazy at home and asks for an AA life with her son
That is, in the face of such a mentality, it finally led to the mother-in-law thinking that she was lazy at home, never earned money, and even spent money that was his son's, that is, in the face of such a thing, the mother-in-law could no longer bear it, so she said to her daughter-in-law, the son is so capable, why do you have to look up to you? Can't find any women, why did they marry you? He was blind, that is, facing such a thing. The wife chose to be patient, because for such a thing he also had nothing to say, can only complain to his husband, the husband is to persuade himself to endure, it is the wife who says that he can't bear it, he came up with a policy, in front of the mother-in-law to manage his husband to ask for money, one is several thousand, several thousand out.
That is to say, for such a situation, the mother-in-law can't stand it, and even said that you want to live with my son under the AA system, my son's salary card is handed over to me for safekeeping, your salary you spend yourself, don't ask my son for money anymore, that is, this is the decision. The daughter-in-law agreed very much, but the son was very embarrassed and very reluctant. So I couldn't bear to say to my parents. Out of his own real situation, saying that the money I earn myself is not as much as my wife, and I am just bragging outside, calling my face, not wanting to let myself think that I have achieved nothing, money earned less than my wife, and most of the family expenses are paid by my wife.
That is to say, in the face of such a situation, when the mother-in-law heard her son say this to herself, she was also very embarrassed, because he himself knew what he did to his daughter-in-law, he thought that his daughter-in-law was good at home and lazy, and he really did not think that this home was the body of the daughter-in-law. The money for the house is paid by the daughter-in-law, and she also supports the house that her son pays, and it is also for such a situation that he chooses not to face the daughter-in-law, so he returns to his hometown to live, and since then the two sons have been very clean.
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So for this matter, there is no AA system between husband and wife, if the AA system is implemented, then for this husband, his money is simply not enough, so it is not necessarily a bad thing for a woman to earn more money, and this woman is also very generous. In front of his husband, he was very cooperative with his husband, and he did not throw his face to his husband, and even claimed that he could give his husband face in this way, while his mother-in-law had never understood his son, and liked to support his son like his son, but in the end he fell into a gray and slippery end.