There is no road in vain in life, and every experience will bring growth and understanding. Every step you take and every sentence you say actually "counts." On the road of love, some people are stagnant, some people are hesitant, some people repeatedly hit the wall, and there do not seem to be many people who can touch true love at once. We long for love that will never end, but we are also looking forward to a colorful life. Everyone has their own opinion on the relationship experience. Some people say that "love history" is the most useless experience because it brings pain and consumes time; others say that love is the best "teacher". Youth is not only an important capital for women, but also a "chip" when they are looking for love, and finding true love is also their eternal appeal. It is very lucky and romantic to develop first love into a life partner, but there are still some people who pursue a rich and twisted emotional life. Different lovers can bring different love feelings and life experiences, and the process of changing lovers can also bring passion and freshness. The concept of love will affect your emotional trajectory, a woman's life, "experience" how many men are "enough"? Listen to their hearts.
Ms. Zhao: My husband is the first love, and he loves me very much, so it is enough to have him
Six years of love run, in exchange for a beautiful marriage, Ms. Zhao and her husband are college classmates, the two became lovers during their studies. After the job stabilized, they immediately got married and started a family. Ms. Zhao said frankly: "I do not envy girls with rich love history, because my love is always immersed in romance. Giving youth to your husband is the luckiest and happiest thing. "For most women, finding true love is an obsession in their hearts. Many women fall out of love because they choose the wrong lover, don't get attention, or have been cheated on by their partner. If you enjoy endless romance, almost all girls will "end from one". In the eyes of those girls who are relatively conservative and word-of-mouth, life only needs to experience a man who loves him deeply.
Ms. Liu: At least 3 men, once "ignorant", once "bone-cutting", once "eternal"
Because of the pursuit of romance and passion, Ms. Liu is very emotional in love. Her standard of measurement of feelings is what she calls "feelings." Her husband happens to be her third boyfriend. In her opinion, a woman has to go through at least three men to be mature. Eighteen-year-old childishness, twenty-five-year-old infatuation, and stability after thirty years old are the three states of a woman in love. Initially looking for a partner, girls crave passion, then they begin to care about each other's inner and potential, and finally, they focus on the "stability" of feelings and hope to harvest eternal happiness. As we move forward, we will have a few heartbeats. In the eyes of those girls who pursue romance and are relatively casual, it is "enough" to talk about three or four times in love, only in this way can the emotional life be considered complete.
Ms. Sun: I have talked about more than 5, but I regret that I was too "casual"
Pursuing herself and longing for a free life is a major pursuit of Ms. Sun, but she has a stubborn personality, is somewhat rebellious, and never listens to the emotional advice provided by her parents. Because she is more willful and casual, she often changes boyfriends, and even when looking for a marriage partner through blind dates, she still has a "cynicism" in heterosexual interactions. She confessed: "I have talked about seven or eight boyfriends, and each boy has made me grow, but I will never trust love again, so most of the time, I just have the mentality of playing." Because she did not know how to cherish and was too willful before, Ms. Sun missed true love, and later, many of the boys she met had a purposefulness, and looking back on the past, she had a deep remorse in her heart. It is true that rich emotional experience can bring wonderful life experiences, but in repeated parting and frequent screening, many girls have lost their original intentions and lost the happiness that should have belonged to them.
Emotional message: In love, we must maintain self-love and pursue quality, and we cannot blindly pursue quantity. In the end, what kind of love and marriage you can harvest may have been doomed in the beginning. Because of your love concept, grade taste, and personal quality, it will match you to the corresponding opposite sex. Some people say that if you talk about love more, you don't suffer losses, but in my opinion, the happiest thing for girls is not to eat the pain of love and meet a partner who takes care of her life in the most wonderful years. In heterosexual interaction, girls should learn self-love. Maintain a self-discipline, you will be respected, more favored by the opposite sex; the pursuit of quality, you can carefully weigh and choose a lover who is truly suitable for you.