A man with a successful career and a prominent reputation will probably not have a "shrew" wife behind him.
There is an old saying that goes: "Marry a wife and be a virtuous, and marry a wife without a virtuous person for three generations." ”
Married men must all feel the same way about this sentence.
A family, if the husband and wife quarrel at every turn, make the atmosphere in the home very bad, affecting not only the feelings of the husband and wife.
After all, people are thoughtful, and it is difficult to keep bad emotions in their heads in time and not show them. Working with bad emotions will make your work worse, your promotion and salary increase will become far away, and you will be fired in serious cases.
Therefore, choosing a wife that suits you is crucial.
The following three kinds of women will bring good luck to the husband, and the man will earn it when he marries, do you believe it?
1. Positive and optimistic women
Recently, there is a video on the Internet that is very hot, the male protagonist in the video is "sewn" on the sofa by his wife, and he can't get up after waking up.
According to the man's wife, this was done by himself, because the husband lay on the sofa for more than 5 hours, and he could not find anyone to play with himself and his children.
Ms. Rong was very angry, and simply took advantage of her husband's sleep to "seal" him on the sofa with needle and thread, and since she did not think about it, she did not get up. The son of the two even made a manicure for his father, and I have to say that this family is very skinny.
Later, Ms. Rong's husband said that he was also confused when he woke up, and when he found that he was sealed, he burst into laughter.
It can be seen that life is full of fun, depending on whether you have the heart to find it.
Many couples, after having children, quarrel more and more, and the feelings between the two are in jeopardy. Especially some men, they feel that taking care of children is a matter for their wives alone, and they only need to earn money to support their families.
Widowhood parenting has made countless women cry bitterly, but divorce is reluctant to have children. Over time, women's mentality will change, and some women will vent their inner dissatisfaction by throwing tantrums, dropping things, and so on.
When a man comes home and sees his average grumpy wife, his mentality will also become very poor.
But if the wife is a positive and optimistic woman, they will express their grievances in a way that is easy for the husband to accept.
Even if the result does not meet their expectations, but the bad emotions have been vented, naturally there is no such thing as being angry, and it will not affect the feelings of the husband and wife, and it will not scare the children.
Generally speaking, in a happy atmosphere, men will most likely understand the difficulty of their wives, so as to assume the responsibility of a father and let the children grow up in a loving family.
Living in a loving family, every day will be full of motivation, even if there is a setback, it is difficult to be defeated by it, this is the impact that a family can bring to people.
2. Filial piety and kindness of women
Friend Xiaoyun is 27 years old this year, her husband is a rich second generation, the two families have a great difference in family background, when the man wanted to marry Xiaoyun, he was opposed by his family.
Xiaoyun had already decided to break up, although she loved her boyfriend very much, but she loved herself more, if she did not have a good life, her parents would worry, and it would be difficult for her to be happy.
Until one day, Xiaoyun, as usual, rode his bicycle to work. No, that day she met an old man, who was lying on the ground, life and death unknown.
Xiao Yun immediately took out his mobile phone and dialed the emergency number. The old man was quickly carried to the ambulance, and Xiao Yun followed. In the end, the old man was successfully rescued, and although Xiaoyun delayed her work, she was not unhappy, but was happy because of her kind actions.
On the other side, Xiaoyun's boyfriend, hoping that she will give herself another chance, the two go to their parents together and try to move their parents with sincerity.
After Xiao Yun opened the door of her boyfriend's house, she accidentally saw the old man who had been rescued by herself before. It turned out that the old man was the mentor of the boyfriend's parents, and the old man and Xiaoyun's parents told the scene of that day and expressed their gratitude to Xiaoyun.
With this layer of relationship, in the end, Xiaoyun and her boyfriend got the support of both parents and smoothly entered the marriage. After marriage, the young couple is very loving, the man's parents are more and more fond of this filial and kind daughter-in-law, and Xiao Yun's husband's business is also booming.
A filial and kind woman, often has no bad intentions, and after getting along for a long time, it is easy to like each other.
The reason why many mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law are constantly contradictory is that they have a lot to do with the personalities of both sides, and it is easy to have problems if they think too much.
After marrying a man, a good woman will gradually integrate into the man's family, from an "outsider" to an "insider". They will run the family well, which makes people unconsciously relax their guard.
Men will also be confident in the future because they have married a virtuous wife, and they will be particularly energetic in everything they do. When work efficiency rises, it is easy to get the attention of leaders, and promotion and wealth will naturally not be too far away.
In life, we often hear people say that who has a "Wangfu life", in fact, this is based on the various advantages of the other party, such as filial piety, kindness, generosity and so on.
3. A woman who is diligent and thrifty
In "Thirty Only", Gu Jia is undoubtedly a good woman, and after marrying Xu Huanshan, Gu Jia was busy with it, and even gave up her own preferences and social networking, willingly doing a lot of things for Xu Huanshan, thinking of making the other party easier.
But Xu Huanshan did not know how to cherish, he enjoyed his wife's efforts while engaging in ambiguity with other women. After Gu Jia learned of her husband's behavior, she was extremely disappointed.
Even if Xu Huanshan did everything to keep it, Gu Jia knew in his heart that the two could not go back to the past. After losing a woman who loved herself, Xu Huanshan was full of regrets, but it was useless, life did not come back, life did not rewind, and his regret was worthless to Gu Jia.
Xu Huanshan's final outcome is to be arrested and imprisoned, because his fireworks factory had an explosion accident, the company has also declared bankruptcy, as the person in charge, he has an unshirkable responsibility.
Losing his wife's love and career, this must be worse for Xu Huanshan.
For a man, if there is a wife in the family who knows how to be diligent and thrifty, it is really like a blessing cultivated in the previous life.
There is a saying that goes: "Eat not poor, drink poor, do not calculate to be poor." ”
In today's society, many families are male and female, and the husband will hand over his salary to his wife.
But if a woman does not know how to be diligent and thrifty in running a family, and wants to buy everything when she sees it, she does not have the heart to live in peace and think of danger. Then this family, once it encounters a crisis, it is easy to fall into passivity.
So marrying a thrifty wife is half the battle.
epilogue:
Everyone gets married for their own reasons, such as wanting someone to love, or wanting their parents to stop worrying about themselves, or wanting to have an "ATM" and so on.
A long time ago, there was a saying that "men are the pillars of the family".
So compared to women, men tend to work a little harder in a marriage. Of course, the men who rely on women to earn money to support their families are not absent, or there are not many of them.
Therefore, for men, marrying a virtuous wife will bring good luck to themselves, and the above three kinds of women can marry is a great blessing. When you meet it, cherish it, don't lose it to know that you can't regret it.
Although people will meet countless people in this life, it is not easy to find a woman who suits themselves and is single-minded about the family. What do you think?
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