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We all have the most beautiful desire for love, and we are willing to win the hearts of one person, and the white head is not separated. I hope that the loved one can also like himself, do not have to taste the bitterness of love, and the two people go on for a long time.
After falling in love with someone, I hope to have a perfect ending, and I hope that he can also respond to himself.
It's just love and can't be a common thing in this world, emotions can't control themselves, some people know that they can't love, but they still can't control and want to get closer, some people know that there will be no end, but they still want to try.
To a certain extent, we encourage bravery in love, it is not easy to meet someone you like, and you must pursue it generously. But not all people deserve our deep affection, and not all hearts must be directly expressed.
There is a situation, no matter how much you love each other, do not get close, love is the flow of affection between two single people, if the other party has a lover or a family, you must know how to stop it in time.
Of course, this is the basic quality that most people should have, but it is not excluded that some people know that the abyss ahead can't help but get closer.
For such people, you can't simply use the perspective of love to consider their starting point, those who know that you have a family, but also go close to you, have a plan, their intentions are nothing more than these three points.
Figure gentle and considerate, men with families will be more mature
When a woman is young, the imagination of love will be more inclined to smallpox, as long as the man in front of her is sunny and cheerful, understands romance, and can't help but pour out her heart.
However, after a woman has a certain emotional experience, she will long for stability, longing to be gentle and cared for by a person, and will like mature and stable men more.
Mature and stable men, in addition to being forged by time, have also been artificially polished. Every mature and stable man has become what he later became under the condition of failing again and again and under the tutelage of women.
At the beginning, he did not know how to cherish, would not tolerate, it was those lost loves that made him understand the importance of forbearance, at the beginning he was not careful and considerate, it was the women behind him who taught them little by little.
In "Thirty Only", Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou met for the first time, and outlined the image of a mature and considerate man, Lin Youyou wore high heels, and Xu Huanshan prepared band-aids close to her, and pasted them on her in time when she hurt her feet. This scene is undoubtedly deeply touched by a little girl who does not understand the world, and she does not know that his maturity and thoughtfulness are only possessed under the tutelage of his wife Gu Jia.
Many times girls always dislike boys are not mature and stable, always feel that young boys are unreliable and unreliable, will prefer experienced, mature and stable uncles, even if the other party has a family, will involuntarily fall into it, just because of the gentleness and thoughtfulness of the covetous party.
If at the beginning Xu Huanshan was an image that did not know how to pity Xiang Xiang and cherish jade, was not meticulous and considerate, and was selfish, presumably Lin Youyou would not take the initiative to approach.
Covet money and want convenience in you
To a certain extent, girls will have requirements for the material conditions of the other half, and they must hope that the other party is relatively rich in economy and can give themselves a better life.
There is no girl who does not want to live a life where you can go where you want and buy what you like without looking at the price.
Many people have experienced the pain of no money, and no one wants to live a life of breaking a dollar in half, cutting the rope, and being calculating.
However, there is a very real problem is that for a boy who has just entered the world, it is difficult to have a lot of money, and in most cases, they are still struggling at the bottom of society, trapped by rent and experiencing pressure, and they are tired enough to meet the requirements of girls for quality life in a short period of time.
At this time, some girls cast their eyes on men with families, and most of these men have a stable career, no longer trapped by money, and can meet the material needs of girls.
The seaweed in "Snail Dwelling" is such a type, she and Xiaobei are truly in love, Xiaobei has given all her body and mind to her, but he can't give seaweed a better life.
Every time she needed help, it was Song Siming who relieved her of her difficulties, and under the satisfaction of material desires again and again, seaweed completely fell, gave up Xiaobei, and embarked on a road of no return.
Women are easily seduced by material things and money to get closer to men who have families.
Figure love, even if it is despised by everyone, still wants to get closer
People with families can't touch it, which is an inherent perception of all people. But not everyone can suppress it, knowing that they can't do it, but they still can't help but immerse themselves.
There are people who are very good to you, it is difficult to like him, some people know that he does not like him, or can't help but turn into a moth, pounce on the warm flames, some people know that they can't get close, but they can't control their feelings, can't help but walk towards him.
In front of the person he likes, no amount of sanity will be left behind, even if one second he is still determined not to go to him, the next second when he sees him, all his determination is gone, or he will run to him regardless of it.
Loving a person will give rise to unprecedented courage, as long as it is him, even if it does not live up to everyone's expectations, it is still liked, once a person is identified, even if it breaks with parents, even if it is looked down upon by everyone, there is still no way to control.
Sometimes, even I look down on that kind of self, and I used to hate those who were close to married people, but eventually I became the most hated kind of person.
Approaching a husband with a wife because of love, even though it sounds very disdainful, there are still people who like a man with a family, do not want money, but simply like and want to be with him.
To love a person, there must always be a picture, some people want to love, some people want money, some people want him to be good to themselves.
Whether it is two consensual love or unilateral proximity, there must always be a plan to be able to continue that love.
It's just that people can't be too selfish, can't simply want to get, but also consider the feelings of others.
Even if you like a man with a family, you can't get close to each other, which is the most basic bottom line of being a person.
In relationships where even love cannot be allowed, coveting material things and coveting others is even less suitable to exist.
What you want to earn yourself, where you want to go, don't pin your desires on hurting each other's feelings.
Men who have a family room, can not touch, do not touch, no matter what the reason is not to get close, must remember this.
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