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Zhang Ailing said: I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love.
There are too many regrets in love, love and can not, love each other but finally missed for various reasons, because they do not know how to cherish and gave up the person who loves themselves deeply, recalling their own love experience, presumably few people can laugh and come out of the memory, are full of scars, licking the wounds all the way over.
We are always accustomed to fighting for a win or loss in love, what "the first emotional person will lose" and "the person who is too active loses", in fact, the win or loss in love is never compared with others, but with yourself.
In the past love, every time you fall in love, you can learn something, in the next love can be timely to avoid the previous misunderstanding, can put down the past obsession, with a more mature attitude to meet the next love, you are the winner in love.
There is a kind of win, is in the face of the snub in love can be withdrawn in time to leave, there is a win, is when you are passionately invested in a relationship, and he has not responded, never took the initiative for you, you can do not entangle, turn around and live your own life.
In exchange for the previous self, you may unconsciously increase the intensity of investment, delusionally trying to use more effort to let him see your good, but in the end it just makes yourself fall deeper and deeper. Later, you can passionately love people, or you can turn around coldly, which is a winning gesture.
Love someone again, and when he doesn't initiate contact you, do not pester, and you win.
People who don't initiate contact you don't love you more than you think
A man who has never initiated you, needless to doubt that he really doesn't love you.
Some people say that women's first reaction to love is bravery, even if they are shy girls, once they really like a person, they will be brave enough to express their likes, let alone men.
In the face of love, no amount of restraint and hesitation will cease to exist. You know that meeting him is not easy, so you really don't want to miss it easily, even if you don't have a good result in the end, it's better than the regret that never started.
Don't make excuses for people who don't contact you proactively, either the phone is broken, it's too busy to have time, or it's just that you don't like you.
"Actually, He Doesn't Like You That Much" has a lot of classic lines that are hard to beat: If a man doesn't call you, then he just doesn't want to call you. If a man doesn't care much about you on the surface, he really doesn't care about you, and without exception, the guy who really likes you won't let you go to great lengths to find him, because he will take the initiative to send it to the door.
In a relationship, no matter who moves the heart first, the person who likes you will definitely expose the active behavior, even if you fall in love first, when he perceives that he likes you, he will turn passive into active, never take the initiative to contact your person, more than you think.
Love, only two-way rushing has meaning, can not get the enthusiasm of the response, to know how to stop the loss in time
After liking someone, we don't care, but we become very tolerant.
It doesn't matter who pays more, it doesn't matter if there is no gift, he doesn't have time to accompany himself, anyway, a person can arrange his own life.
Will be very sensible not to disturb the other party, do not need him to find an excuse to deceive himself, has already thought of a reason in his heart, can be self-consistent enough.
It's just that this kind of understanding is also time-sensitive, I can take ninety-nine steps towards you, but the last step I am still expecting you to come to me, if you can't even get such a small step, then I will go in the direction of you.
Love, only two-way running has meaning, I pay you a millimeter, you give me a centimeter, so that this relationship has the meaning of survival.
Taking the initiative to pay is a kind of bravery, but stopping the loss in time is a rare sobriety, and such sobriety is a very important thing in love.
Many people can take the initiative to pursue, but will go to the black in one way, even if the front is already a dead end, or regardless of the way forward, hit the south wall will turn back, such entanglement in addition to making you more sad and sad is meaningless.
If you don't get a response to love, stop it in time, so that your love will not appear cheap.
The person who doesn't love you, don't have to pester, give him a turn around, give yourself a new possibility
Entanglement is the most ineffective way, neither to make him have a little love for you, nor to let his heart have some comfort, and in the end can only trap yourself.
People who don't love you, even if you pay more, there is no way to make him fall in love with you, all your intentions are difficult to ripple in his heart, at this time, no matter how much you invest, it is useless, do not entangle, decisively withdraw and leave is the best way.
No longer take the initiative to contact, take back all your enthusiasm and love for him, in fact, in a love, the initiative is in the giving side, your payment is your willingness, you decide your own payment time limit and degree of payment, when you are no longer willing to pay for a person, then the relationship will come to an abrupt end.
He never takes the initiative to contact you, at this time you should also withdraw your initiative, do not pay to him again, is the greatest protection for yourself.
Don't think about it, the reason why he doesn't accept your efforts is not because you are not good, but because he is not worthy of your good, don't doubt yourself because of this.
Don't dwell on it, decisively withdraw from it, give him a dashing back, but also give yourself a new possibility, leave a person who does not love you, your life is the real restart, you will meet a more wonderful life.
Love should be the mutual payment of two people, and no matter how much you love a person, you can't rely on one person's unrequited love to continue.
Being able to reach the realm of "I like you, it has nothing to do with you" can be said to be very deep love, but in real life, how many people can reach that state?
We like a person, holding a true heart and handing it to him, it must be to be able to get a response, if there is no response, I think you will also be discouraged, will have doubts about yourself, and may not dare to continue to love because of a failed relationship.
In fact, there is no need at all, in the face of people who do not love you, do not have to think wildly, do not have to belittle and doubt themselves, do not take the initiative and do not entangle, leave yourself a good posture, you win.
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