Tongxian, an adult fairy tale that heals contemporary youth groups and the lack of gender emotions.
"Why did you break up? Why break up without a third party and without parental objections? ”
01
"I think we're fine, nothing was a problem. But she said she was tired and wanted to break up. ”
Friends Duck Duck broke up, and in another month it will be the seventh anniversary of his and Ass's love affair, originally thought to be a love from wearing a school uniform to a wedding dress, but now it is dispersed.
Without a third party and no parents objecting, why would they break up? Duck Duck couldn't say why, he only knew that he couldn't change this ending if he tried his best to save it.
After Asi broke up, there was no new relationship, nor did she say a word in the social circle that it was not, and she was still quiet in the circle of friends.
I asked Asi, "Why did you break up, is there a dog outside the duck?" ”
Ass said, "No, it's just that we don't fit in." He likes to take risks, I like stability, and time only makes us drift apart. ”
Duck duck likes to be maverick when he is studying, always trying new things, and Ass only likes to spend time in a warm nest, more than six years of time only makes him more and more adventurous, he will quit a job with a good future to try a new career.
He was busy every day, and Asi was watching him busy except for work, and whenever he got busy, her life was left with a mobile phone.
"Is there a difference between that and a long-distance relationship?"
In a relationship, the most feared thing is that one person is very busy, one person is very idle; one person's circle is very large, and the other person is only him; one person is sensitive in mind, and the other person does not like to explain; one likes to be stable, one likes to toss.
The relationship between them is gradually estranged, not because they do not love each other, nor because of anyone's opposition, but because the contradictions and misunderstandings caused by too much difference make each other tired.
People who don't fit in, even if they like each other in their hearts, will be separated. No matter how much people who are incompatible, they are not compatible, and those who love each other are left with the road of breaking up.
02
Why have you watched so many vigorous romance novel movies, or can't keep your simple and ordinary love?
Obviously, the two people who once loved each other so much, without the obstacle of external forces, have also reached the point of breaking up.
Liao Yimei said: "Everyone is very lonely. Life in the world, encounter love, encounter sex, is not rare, rare is to meet understanding. ”
Some people have different ideas, some people are in a fake relationship, they have never known each other, talked about a long-term relationship, but found that the other party is still like a stranger.
"I found the reason for the breakup, which was that we didn't get to know each other, to understand her interests, and she didn't understand my interests, and then Chinese New Year's Eve, she said that we were not suitable, so we parted. After a few days I wanted to get back together again, but she still insisted on her own point of view, inappropriate, no topic to talk about. ”
Everything stems from too much not knowing and not wanting to understand.
"Do your girlfriends know you better, or do your boyfriends know you better?"
"Of course it's a girlfriend."
"Do you think your brother understands you or your girlfriend understands you?"
, it must be brothers.
Love is not sincere enough, not pure enough, not sharp enough, not gentle enough, and even subconsciously feel that they will not go too long with each other, and the two people who should be the closest in addition to blood relatives have the deepest estrangement.
Love is like solving a math problem, some people give up at the beginning, because it always feels too difficult, they don't look at the problem carefully and give up on themselves, and some people can stick to the end.
03
In this life, almost all the good encounters are hidden in the pain of parting, and it is not easy to grow old with a white head.
Love is defined as a beautiful thing, love itself does not hurt people, but it can hurt too many people.
Those parts that are not very beautiful, and even outsiders do not have to care about commenting, they are less than one-thousandth of the weight of love, but they often make real life bloody.
It is not only the third party and family reasons that defeat feelings, in fact, more breakups are due to their own reasons.
If in a relationship, two people insist on it for a while, there is no need to change to another person to meet and love each other again, in case two people insist on it for a while, they can see the light.
Even if persistence proves to be futile in the end, one day together, there is one day of joy.
If it is the end, it really can't stick to it, and it can't last a minute.
I hope that you who love deeply and are separated still have the ability and courage to love, and I hope that you will be different and happy.
Why did you break up?