A man has four behaviors towards you, don't doubt his sincerity, and that's love

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Many girls seem to be like this, when they are not loved, they pursue bitterly, but when they are in love, they suffer from gains and losses, and try their best to test each other's feelings.

In fact, don't blame women's sensitivity, because men's sincerity is difficult to measure, some people say they love you, but you can't feel it at all, some people are just pretending to love you, and they haven't entered the heart at all. We have been hurt and let down, so that later we are all a bit of a soldier.

On the one hand, they want to be loved, but on the other hand, they are afraid to invest, which is the current situation of many girls in love.

Being vigilant in a relationship is a good thing and can be a good way to protect yourself, but too much testing and sensitivity can miss a relationship.

Although a person's love will have an element of fraud, not all behaviors are debatable.

When a man exhibits these four behaviors to you, don't doubt anymore, that is, love.

Become very proactive

Initiative is a person's instinct to move the heart, and the man who really likes you, he will become very active.

It has nothing to do with personality, it has nothing to do with career, but anyone who uses busyness as an excuse, his dislike has become very obvious.

Women are very good at self-consolation, will find each other a lot of reasons why he does not take the initiative, but is not willing to admit that he just does not like you.

Like Gigi in "He May Not Like You That Much", she is very much looking forward to love, looking forward to the people who have talked to her and then contacted her to give a reply, but in fact it is just a polite remark from men, only she is silly waiting by the phone.

There's a classic line in this movie: Sometimes we'd rather believe a man who is stressed, too tired, too inferior, sensitive, has childhood shadows, or loves his ex-girlfriend too much than admit a simple fact. Yes, he's not too busy, he's not injured, he's not psychologically shadowed, he's not that his phone fell into the toilet or he's suffering from amnesia, he just doesn't like you that much.

People who like you will definitely take the initiative to find you, if they do not take the initiative, it is dislike, without exception.

Become attention to detail

Men are very rough and leafy, will not pay attention to some details of things, when he began to become careful, began to pay attention to details, must be because of feelings.

After the man moves his heart, he will first pay special attention to his own image, before he may not pay so much attention to his appearance, the clothes have to be worn, and he will not take care of his hairstyle too much, and then he will start to pay attention to his own dress, and every time he goes out on a date, he will show his best side to each other.

In addition to paying attention to the self, the girl will also become very detailed control, can remember the girl's aunt period, remember a sentence that the other party has inadvertently said, can find her emotional changes in time, understand her unspoken meaning, and can also understand the other party's desire to say and stop.

Shakespeare said: Great love often happens in trivial details.

When a man becomes attentive and starts paying attention to details, then he really loves it, no doubt.

Will change for you

Everyone is a unique individual, with their own behavior habits and rules of conduct. Even in the most intimate relationship, you must know how to respect each other, which is the premise of the continuation of the relationship.

If you really love someone, you must tolerate the other person to the greatest extent, not too tied, not strong, not requiring the other party to abide by your living habits, but let him live according to his favorite way.

And if a person really loves you, he will be willing to follow your rhythm, will change himself to adapt to you, even if he needs to give up some self, he will be willing to eat.

Really love, the heart is thinking that it is better for two people to be together, will give up some of their egos, as long as they can get closer to each other, then it is not difficult to change their habits.

Maybe he used to be a night owl, because you like to go to bed early and get up early, will change his schedule, maybe he likes to be lively, you like quiet, so he will cut off the noise, spend more time with you, love you, will be willing to change for you.

Self-motivated and know how to plan for the future

A lot of people say never to grow up with a boy because you can't wait.

In "Later Us", Xiao Xiao thought that Jian Qing was the person who could accompany him to the end, but he still did not wait for Jian Qing to mature, and Shen Jiayi in "Those Years, the Girl We Chased Together" really loved Ke Jingteng, but in the end he still did not wait for him and married someone else.

We all loved someone and thought we could go to the end, but in the end we lost it. Because there is no future in the other person.

If he is too young, he is not motivated, it is understandable, if he is mature enough, but still not self-motivated, no plan for the future, in fact, because he is not enough love. If you really love you, you will think about it longer than you, afraid of not being able to afford to have your future, will plan your life in advance, become very motivated, just hope that you can completely give yourself to him.

Girls should test love more, give each other a little more time, to test each other, do not easily dig out their hearts and lungs, do not trust the love in men's mouths too much.

We must learn to discern a person's sincerity, and rather than listen to him, we must use our own hearts to understand.

Proper testing is a responsible attitude, but don't be overly sensitive and suspicious, and when a man exhibits the above four behaviors, don't doubt it anymore, that is love.

Love will make men become careful, make him feel responsible, willing to change for you, after doing these four points, just cherish it, don't hesitate.

Author Nannan, focus on the field of emotions to create and share, with emotions to communicate with you and my soul, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.