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We all long to be hotly liked by a person, firmly choose, in the face of other people's love, often encourage them to be brave to pursue, to love each other passionately, but when it is their turn, they always look ahead, wavering and hesitation, do not dare to take that step easily.
Sometimes they even deliberately do something contrary to the road and drive the other party away with their own hands.
This kind of behavior is probably no stranger to every girl, and what girls are best at is to do something awkward and contrary to their hearts.
Obviously like it, but deliberately alienated, obviously missed, but unwilling to admit it, obviously want to let the other party stay, but will say some cruel words to make the other party roll.
Everyone says: Women have needles in their hearts, many men are deeply suffering, think that women's hearts are too difficult to understand, obviously a few words can figure things out, but they have to engage in the game of you guess I guess, guess not in the end she is not happy, but also angry.
In fact, all the awkwardness of women is because they are afraid, they are afraid that when they confess their intentions, they are told that it is only their wishful thinking, and they are afraid that when they pull out all the thorns and get close to a person, they will be hurt in the end. All the disguises are really just longing for warmth, longing for a person's firm love.
When facing outsiders, they are also very understanding, there will be no awkward behavior, only to you, will show this side, just from the side to verify her likes you, isn't it?
What men have to know is that women's likes, in fact, are a bit "deliberate", read it, it is simple.
Deliberately cold to you, trying to test your reaction
The ultimate enthusiasm is often exchanged for indifference, in the relationship between two people, if one person always maintains enthusiasm, naturally the other party will take back their efforts, just need to enjoy.
After all, people are a bit lazy, can not take the initiative will not take the initiative, enjoy is always more comfortable than paying.
And the reason why a relationship can last for a long time is that it is two-way to pay and run, if only a person works hard to maintain, eventually will always feel tired, the moment he withdraws his pay, a relationship will suddenly stop.
Generally speaking, women are often the party who pays more, whether they are the first to like, in the end women will indulge in it, but fortunately, now women are more and more sober, they will no longer devote themselves to a single mind, nor will they hold a true heart and unreservedly enthusiastic about a person, they know how to like a person again to be appropriately cold, and understand that if there is no response to the payment, they must stop.
Sometimes, they choose to be cold to a person, not because they don't love, but because they love too much.
There is a saying that goes like this: I don't take the initiative to find you, not because you are not important, but because I do not know whether I am important in your heart.
With this unsure, they sometimes deliberately ignore you, in fact, they want to test your reaction and see if you will take the initiative to find her.
Deliberately say something counter-to-say to verify her place in your mind
What a woman is best at is to say the opposite, and it is easy for a man to understand her mind when she says it, but saying it means exposing her cards.
In a less convinced relationship, exposing your hole cards is undoubtedly a dangerous thing, which means that you are more likely to lose.
Even if you don't win or lose in your relationship, at least do your best to protect yourself.
A sentence of "I like you very much", "I can't do without you", "I want to be with you all my life", these words are very easy to say, the moment you say it, you will feel very warm with each other, but it is just talk, the other party will not love you more because you have a deep affection for him, but will also do something to hurt you with your likes.
So girls have learned to say the opposite, they would rather say something like "I don't want you", "I can leave you alone", and when you quarrel, she will say "you leave and don't come back", but in fact she really misses you and really hopes that you can come back to her.
When she said these words, she didn't really want to drive you away, but she wanted to test what weight she had in your mind? She hopes that you can see through her toughness, read her true thoughts, and hope that no matter how hard and awkward she is, you can be with her as always.
Deliberately making you jealous and wanting to feel that you care about her
I don't know if you've ever done anything like this?
Deliberately pretend to be very kind to the other opposite sex in front of the person he likes, have the opposite sex like and comment on himself, will deliberately say it to the man he likes, will borrow the strength of others to test the other party's reaction, see if he will be jealous, whether he will be angry, that means that he really cares about himself.
In fact, such a routine is not only for girls to do this, men will also be, we are often not bold enough, do not dare to take the initiative to directly show their hearts, but will use some small skills to knock on the side, so as to force the other party to reveal their true intentions.
As everyone knows, such a trick is only effective in front of people who really like you, and for those who have no feelings for you, in the end, you can only personally prove that your idea is just a person's own sentimentality.
But in fact, this is also an effective way to test whether a person likes himself, if a person is not even indifferent to the overtures of the opposite sex, then he really does not like you.
If a girl deliberately mentions a name of the opposite sex in front of you and deliberately does something that makes you jealous, you should understand what she thinks of you.
Not everyone dares to express their likes directly, there are many people who obviously like it, but they will deliberately do some awkward behavior, these people like it at all, but the more they like it, the more afraid they are, the more they like it, the more they like it, but they will hesitate.
Women will be more reserved and timid in the face of love, they often do not take the initiative to show their likes, and will use some other ways to express their likes.
It's a bit clumsy, but it's very sincere and warm, a little hard to fathom, but in fact, if you really think about her, it's not difficult to understand at all.
Women have the above intentions for you, in fact, they like not to know.
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