"Daughter-in-law, how did you resign, what do I eat and drink with my son" "AA system of family rules is full"

Why did you choose marriage? Because of love or because of interests, anyway, no matter what your initial idea is that the person you want, so you will choose to form a family with him, to face the ups and downs of life in the future, marriage is to have a request, and the partner can meet your needs, of course, this is the best scene, unfortunately the reality is often your partner can not meet your requirements, but will go against the road, which is one of the reasons for the marriage crisis.

In addition to their own partners, the family will also affect the feelings between husband and wife, all say that parents are the best teachers of children, parents decide what kind of person a child will become, if the parents are sloppy, to a large extent, they can not educate the atmosphere of the children, and often these parents also love to meddle in the affairs between their children, everything must express their opinions, but also can not be fair, always biased towards their own children, always only consider their own interests, stinginess to add a selfish, Such a person will only keep others away from him.

There should be a community of interests between husband and wife, but there are some people who always have to be clearly distinguished, calculate clearly, and finally calculate the feelings between two people, and when they meet such people, it should be time to leave, and they do not have to feel sorry.

Wu Xin happened to marry a mother-in-law's husband, his mother let him do what he did, did not let him do anything resolutely, even the mother-in-law proposed the AA system, the husband also immediately agreed, anyway, from the beginning to the end of this mother and son did not consider Wu Xin's feelings, and did not take into account the children, but a person who did things too much, will always get retribution.

01. Found out that the husband is a complete mother-in-law man.

Wu Xin and her husband Zhang Zhifeng are introduced to each other, Wu Xin has a highly paid job, and she also put most of her energy on the work, emotional life naturally has some negligence, the first bridesmaid around the friends to get married is Wu Xin, and Wu Xin also wore a variety of bridesmaid clothes, that is, did not wear the wedding dress that belonged to her, looking at the happy appearance of the people around her, Wu Xin also has some envy, so she also entrusts people around her to help her pay attention to it. What is the right person to introduce her to.

In this way, she met Zhang Zhifeng, anyway, after getting along with Zhang Zhifeng for a while, Wu Xin felt that he was a very delicate person, and other people's boyfriends felt that it was a very shameful thing to help their girlfriends buy sanitary napkins, but Zhang Zhifeng never felt so, he felt that this kind of thing was normal, and there was nothing difficult to talk about. Wu Xin's good feelings for Zhang Zhifeng have been increasing, which is the first stage of love, finding countless shining points in him and constantly falling in love.

The feelings between the two people gradually warmed up, to the point of talking about marriage, Wu Xin met Zhang Zhifeng's parents for the first time, she felt that her future mother-in-law was a very strong person, but it was not the kind of knowledge and the strength brought by success, giving her a feeling of being a small citizen in the city, that is, she liked to mess with others, and life after marriage also proved Wu Xin's feeling.

After marriage, Wu Xin found that her husband had some too much to listen to her mother-in-law's words, and she never doubted that her mother-in-law let her husband do what he did, and once when her husband was in the bath, her mother-in-law directly pushed the door and went in to wash, Wu Xin could not understand this, but the mother-in-law said that her son had not seen what she had raised from childhood to adulthood, but felt that Wu Xin had some fuss. Wu Xin still can't understand, when he was young, he always had to have some avoidance when he grew up, Wu Xin had some adaptations, but Zhang Zhifeng didn't feel anything, he and his mother had always been such a mode of getting along, which didn't also prove that the relationship between their mother and son was good, these words heard Wu Xin frown.

Husband every day is what my mother said, what my mother wants to do, anyway, the mother-in-law gave the order to the husband will act, Wu Xin feels that the husband has no opinion, the husband feels that he is called filial piety, he asked Wu Xin not to belittle the relationship between their mother and son here, what problems are there between mother and daughter-in-law, Zhang Zhifeng has always stood on the side of his mother, what is the wife, how can he compare to his own mother, even if he is wronged, he has to endure, and then their family quarrels have become family meals, But most of the time it was Wu Xin who was below.

02. The mother-in-law proposed the AA system.

Later, Wu Xin was dismissed by the company because of some contradictions with her boss, after hearing the news, her mother-in-law had a crooked mind, Wu Xin packed up her things in the company and went home, she saw her mother-in-law sitting on the sofa, and she knew that she had something to tell herself. The mother-in-law did not bend with the heartless, and directly said that Wu Xin has no income now, so don't drag others casually, from now on, the AA system is good.

Wu Xin simply did not believe his ears, especially the husband on the side also agreed, he now has difficulties, and his husband and mother-in-law have to draw a clear line with themselves, how they did not think about this when they first spent their own money, now there are so many hearts and eyes, Wu Xin's heart has some sadness, but also hold her breath, she can not let others look down, Wu Xin said to her mother-in-law that the AA system is AA system, and everything will be clear in the future. The mother-in-law is very fine, and the cost of the family is fine to the point, and she is afraid that she will be taken advantage of.

But the mother-in-law's wishful thinking soon failed, Wu Xin's work ability is in, and there is work experience, but also young, not at all worried about not finding a good job, soon Wu Xin will return to the past, this time it is the turn of the mother-in-law to be dumbfounded, the mother-in-law also began to regret that she was too anxious, but now it is a state of catching ducks on the shelves, she regrets that she can not change anything at all, and then Wu Xin will not give her the opportunity to change, and then the mother-in-law began to play a variety of heart eyes, Anyway, it is to find a way to get money from Wu Xin, and even the mother-in-law has learned how to make false accounts, so that Wu Xin is eye-opening, Wu Xin is too lazy to worry about this old lady, and people without vision are like this.

Later the mother-in-law is beneficial to herself that is not AA, to their own no interest that must resolutely implement the AA system, Wu Xin is very disappointed in the mother and son, the husband only knows to follow behind the mother-in-law, Wu Xin also decided to get rid of the current life, after these years of work she also has enough savings, she plans to divorce and then go back to her hometown, living with her parents, she is ready to make all the preparations, but also ready to notify the mother-in-law and her husband, but the mother-in-law knows in advance, Hearing that she was going to resign, her mother-in-law was of course anxious, and she directly called the phone, "Daughter-in-law, how did you resign, what did I eat and drink with my son?" "The AA system is full of family rules, and those who have hands and feet will not think of a way, after divorce, we will have no relationship."

Wu Wuxin is very dashing, no matter how the other party keeps her, she has not changed her mind, she has always been a person who lives for herself.

Whether it is between husband and wife or between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it has become a family, whether it is poor or rich, the family should face it together, just want to get the good, throw all the bad things to others, then even if you can make a temporary profit, and finally let others see the nature of psychological selfishness, slowly withdraw their own goodwill and their own efforts, this practice is tantamount to digging a grave, giving up long-term interests for the sake of temporary interests, this kind of person is also short-sighted, only to see the present can not see the future, And in the end, they often lose everything they have.

The husband should not take on his own responsibilities, to achieve a mediator between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, rather than a plan to increase contradictions, the husband should be a fair image, blindly partial can only make others sad, anyway, take care of one or the other, can not do a fair look at things, then the feelings between husband and wife will inevitably be exhausted, if your husband never knows how to maintain you, then he is not worthy of your love, divorce early and get out of the sea of suffering.