In the picture scroll of youth, every color should be an interweaving of dreams and hopes, however, for 13-year-old Xiaoyue, her campus life is shrouded in a sudden haze of violence.
Recently, an incident involving bullying among girls has attracted widespread attention in a middle school, and Xiaoyue, as a victim, not only suffered heavy physical and mental damage, but also let us see the cruel reality behind school violence.
According to reports, Xiaoyue was bullied by multiple girls for a long time at school, and the methods were outrageous.
The occurrence of this incident makes us reflect: why does bullying seem to be more insidious and more vicious among girls?
Every time I see such a school bullying incident, I think of the movie "Young You" made by Yi Yang Qianxi and Zhou Dongyu.
This film not only reflects the problem of school violence, but we also see the outrageous methods of the girls in it.
The heroine in the movie, "Chen Nian", was isolated, spoken, slapped, kicked to the ground, and pushed down the stairs......
Why are the aggressors of the movie so bad? This can't help but make us think deeply!
In recent years, bullying among girls has been on the rise and is often overlooked because of its insidious nature and high psychological manipulation component.
In the process of growing up, some girls may gradually form strong and domineering personality traits due to the influence of multiple factors such as family and society, and when they bring this mentality into the school, it may be transformed into bullying and harm to others.
Why does the violence of girls continue to rise?
First, we must recognize the complex causes behind violence against women.
Gender role stereotypes are one of the important factors contributing to this phenomenon.
In some cultures, women are expected to be gentle and submissive, and when they don't meet these standards, they can be labelled as "strong," "difficult," or even subjected to violence.
In addition, society's expectations of women are often closely related to external factors such as their appearance and age, which makes it easier for some women to adopt aggressive behaviors to maintain their self-esteem and status in the face of stress and frustration.
Mental health issues also play a non-negligible role in female violence.
The high incidence of mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety, as well as the lack of an effective psychological support system, may lead some women to have difficulties managing their emotions and adopt violence as an inappropriate coping mechanism.
So, how to effectively reduce the dominant position of girls in school bullying?
Intensive Family Education:
The family is the first classroom for children's growth, and parents should establish a correct concept of education, pay attention to cultivating children's empathy and sense of responsibility, and avoid overemphasizing competition and success in the family, so as not to bring unnecessary psychological pressure to children.
Improving School Supervision:
Schools shall strengthen routine observation and guidance of students' behavior, have zero tolerance for bullying conduct that is discovered, promptly and seriously deal with it, and provide corresponding psychological counseling and support to victims, helping them restore their self-confidence and rebuild normal social relationships.
Carry out special educational activities:
Through various forms of educational activities such as curriculum setting, theme class meetings, and role-playing, students can realize the harm of bullying, learn to respect and accept different individuals, and cultivate a healthy personality and good interpersonal skills.
Focus on Student Mental Health:
Schools should be equipped with professional psychological counselors to conduct regular mental health assessments for students, and for those students who may be in psychological distress, special attention and counseling should be given to help them solve problems and prevent potential bullying behavior.
Raising the attention of the whole society:
Through various channels such as media publicity and public welfare activities, raise the attention of the whole society to the problem of bullying of girls on campus, and form a positive atmosphere for everyone to participate and resist together.
Epilogue:
Every child is the hope of the family and the future of the country.
In the matter of school bullying, there is never a neutral bystander, and all indifference is support for the abuser and harm to the victim.
Let's raise our voices against school bullying together, protect victims, and punish perpetrators.
Let us work hand in hand to protect their innocence and kindness with practical actions, and create a safe, harmonious and loving environment for them to grow up.