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Every love that can't go to the end, at the beginning is also with the most beautiful expectations into this relationship, every person who later changes his heart, initially there was a time when his eyes were full of you.
When a person loves you, he really feels that he will continue to love, and at that time he is really full of you, spends all his thoughts on you, loves you infinitely, loves you when he is true, but later. As the feelings of two people together for a long time become weaker and weaker, if another person appears around at this time, it is likely to make his heart run away.
It was true to love you at the beginning, don't doubt it, but then it is also true that you didn't love it, don't force it. When you love, you are brave and bold to admit it, and if you don't love, you can simply and neatly say it clearly, and the two people are peacefully separated.
If each of us can have such a sober concept of love, then it will inevitably reduce a lot of suffering.
It's just that often people who don't love are ashamed to admit it, and the betrayed people choose to cover their ears and steal the bell, unwilling to accept, and in the process of continuous pulling, the harm to the other party is getting deeper and deeper.
Sometimes men tend to have a greedy idea, while enjoying being taken care of by a person, on the other hand can not help but look for fresh and exciting, this is human nature, so even if men really change their minds, they will not actively admit it. Because I am not willing to give up the comfortable life in front of me, I am not willing to leave you, and I am doing things that hurt you.
Even if men are naturally like this, but as women, we can't be stupidly kept in the dark, once men have these changes, it is a manifestation of a change of heart, don't know.
The phone does not leave the hand, always staring at the phone and smirking, the chat history is all emptied
Nowadays, all the contact between everyone is carried out through mobile phones, whether it is business communication or emotional integration, a mobile phone has achieved its purpose.
I think when the two of you were first together, I used to hold my mobile phone and chat all day and all night, and later. The longer we spend together, the less this happens.
There is something to talk about, or just a procedural greeting, and the time when the two people are never back to the original love.
The frequency of a person's mobile phone and the expression on his face when facing the mobile phone can detect whether he has a different heart.
If a person suddenly does not leave the phone, or always stares at the phone and giggles, it is obvious that it must not be a normal work contact.
We all had moments when we were in love, when we were always afraid of missing his news, even if we went to the shower, we would bring in the mobile phone, afraid that the other party would not find themselves. All people in love will have a standard "love face", full of smiles on the face, only the person who likes it can have such magic and easily let themselves relax and smile.
Before Xu Huanshan and Lin You had a relationship in "Thirty Only", the two people often chatted on their mobile phones, she would share today's food with you, she would send him a selfie, and Xu Huanshan always looked at her sharing and couldn't help but smile and start the phone.
When a man has the heart to deceive you, it will make you unable to find evidence, even if you find that his mobile phone does not leave his hand, but when you go to see social software, you can't find any flaws, the chat history is all emptied, sometimes the cleaner it is, but the more silver is here, it is worth doubting.
You are picky in every way, and you are disgusted inside and out
After a man has a different heart in his heart, a very intuitive performance is that he will look at you wherever he is not pleasing to the eye.
In the past, although the two people had a dull life, they were always more harmonious with each other, and there was a lack of freshness and excitement between them, but neither side would deliberately find fault, and the two people were at peace.
After the man has someone else outside, there will be a contrast in his heart, and the relationship with that person, the two people are in the sweet stage, both sides are trying their best to show their good side, outside she is sensible and generous, gentle as water, dressed up in flowers, often bring him freshness.
And you are as light as water all day, do not like to dress up, look rough and leafy, you will not deliberately say something pleasing to him, and even always pick his faults, and manage him in the east and west.
In this contrast, you are clearly at a disadvantage. At this time, men will frequently find your stubble and begin to be picky about you, and they are picking at your faults inside and outside the words.
Before you counted him down a few words, he may choose to tolerate, and later you say him again, he will directly erupt, and his temper will obviously become bigger.
With these changes in men, you have to start to be vigilant, instead of looking for reasons from yourself, and still blaming yourself for whether you care too much about him. It's not that you're bad, it's because his heart is no longer all about you.
Becoming more and more silent in front of you, with nothing to say
People rely on the desire to share to communicate feelings, and the desire to share also needs to respond, so that a relationship can go on smoothly.
As long as it is someone who really likes you, even if the personality is introverted, it will share the desire to explode. At that time, the two of you will always be very keen to share the small things in your life, and every little change will be the first time to tell each other.
Men will also have the desire to share, their full desire to express is also need to have a place to stay, men in front of the people they like, will open the mode of nagging, sometimes you will find that he is more nagging than you.
And when one day he no longer shares anything with you, you don't understand his dynamics at all, he becomes more and more silent in front of you, more and more speechless, not because he has less to say, but because his desire to share has shifted, and he is chatting with others in a heated conversation.
Girlfriend Linlin found that her boyfriend changed her appearance some time ago, he became more and more silent, every time he came home, he was always alone in the bedroom, Linlin thought that he had recently worked too much pressure and did not want to be disturbed, so he was very sensible not to disturb the other party, and also gave him soup to help him supplement his body.
By chance, I found that he had recently had a hot chat with a female colleague in the company, and Linlin found that during the time when he turned off the desire to share with her, he was chatting with other people, and those private things that had not been shared with her were told to others.
Everyone has a desire to share, if it's not for you, it's for others.
No matter how good a person is at covering up, when he changes his heart, there will be some signs exposed
He started to get his phone out of hand, always staring at his phone and giggling, and when you look at his social platform, you won't find anything unusual. Sometimes the more empty the chat history, the more it means deliberately concealment.
I start to have a bad temper and be picky about you, because after the contrast, I will see that you are not pleasing to the eye anywhere, and will deliberately look for your stubble.
Becoming more and more silent, his world is opening up to others during the time he turns off his desire to share with you.
If the boy has these performances, you should be vigilant, indicating that he has two hearts.