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During pregnancy, pregnant mothers often have to go to the hospital for examination, encountering more embarrassing things is that the male doctor will examine you, which will make many pregnant mothers feel uncomfortable, although they also know that the doctor's eyes are only patients, but the heart is still not willing.
Unless it is a last resort, the vast majority of pregnant mothers will still insist on female doctor examination, even if it is a change of family or a few days later, but to talk about embarrassment, obstetric examination encounters male doctors are not the most embarrassing, the following are counted.
When "giving birth", he met a male doctor and put down his psychological baggage to concentrate on having a baby
Lingling is a young pregnant mother after 95, the closer to the labor period Linlin, the more nervous, after all, it is the first time to give birth, nervous and easy to think wildly, worried that the process of giving birth to a child is too painful.
On the day of giving birth, Linlin was pushed into the delivery room by the medical staff, but Linlin, who was originally nervous, saw a male doctor in the delivery room, and the tightness in her heart became stronger.
The next time to have a child, after all, it is a relatively secret thing, at this time, if there is a male doctor in the delivery room, it is still a very embarrassing thing, which makes LinLin's heart not very acceptable.
In this regard, Linlin also called out to the medical staff next to her, and the nurse met Linlin's eyes and knew what she was worried about, and then the medical staff also comforted Linlin, telling her that the male doctor was experienced and did not have a psychological burden, and Linlin put her mind at ease.
In fact, for the male doctor to deliver, Linlin is not to say that it is unacceptable, usually seen on the Internet can be understood, but really turned to their own, or feel uncomfortable, feel that they have lost dignity, in order to relieve their inner anxiety, Linlin also talked with friends about their own childbirth and met the male doctor.
As a result, after listening to the feedback from friends, I found that I was not the first to be delivered by a male doctor, and one of my good girlfriends said a sentence that made Linlin feel empathy, that is, "I don't want to give birth to a child, I don't want my face when it hurts, I'm afraid of what to take off my pants?" ”
Mothers who have experienced childbirth know that giving birth to a child is called a pain, especially if the smooth delivery is not smooth, it will take several or even more than ten hours, the pain has been unrecognizable, where to care what face is not face. In addition, these male doctors are also experienced in hundreds of battles, and in their eyes, only patients have no gender, so don't scare yourself.
Where does the stress of having a baby come from?
For many pregnant women, the pressure of giving birth to a child is very large, these pressures come from all aspects, part of which is worried about the failure of childbirth, encountered the choice of "big and small", the Internet also saw a pregnant woman enter the delivery room before, secretly stuffed a note to the doctor, which wrote "Must protect me!" ”
It can be seen that the TV series and movies still cause a certain psychological burden to the mother, and then there is a male doctor in the delivery room, and the heart will also be uncomfortable, after all, giving birth to a child is a very private thing, the male doctor is still a little embarrassed, and these psychological burdens may also become psychological pressure.
There is also the first time to give birth to a child, facing too many unknowns, and because of no experience, pregnant mothers will be very worried in their hearts, for which the family and husbands should do a good job of psychological comfort for pregnant women, more concern and more enlightenment.
How can family members help women relieve their emotions?
Including during pregnancy and after giving birth to a child, the fluctuation of maternal psychological conditions is relatively large, especially after giving birth, many mothers have a tendency to depression, and the family should pay more attention to more solutions to help pregnant women recover a good mood as soon as possible.
Before giving birth, the husband can learn some maternal knowledge with the pregnant mother, and can also understand some simple parenting knowledge, imagine the happy life after the arrival of the child, and say more comforting words, which can well reduce the pressure of the pregnant mother.
This work is more or less to the husband to do, as the wife's closest person, more need to accompany, give her encouragement and strength, so as to make the childbirth more smooth.
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