Guo Jin | the couple's baby
Big baby Linlin
By August 18, 2021, my eldest granddaughter, Guo Molin, was four years old.
When she was just over a year old, she would call me Grandpa. I'll video chat with me, which is amazing!
Linlin loves to watch cartoons and often competes with me for remote control. She has recently learned to watch vibrato, small volcanoes, and sometimes she is crying, and I shout "vibrato!" "She pounced on me, grabbed my phone, watched the vibrato, and then looked at the small volcano, the phone will not be returned." I've missed a few important calls. The courier couldn't get through to my phone and returned my courier several times.
Every time I was leaving with my interview bag, my lovely Linlin was always crying and shaking, and she would still grab my bag and not let go. I had to give her the bag, crouch down and let her crawl on my back, circle around the house, and while she was happy, her grandmother said, "Go!" Go to the balcony to see if your mom and dad are back? "She then returned the bag to me, and her grandmother led me to the balcony, and I also took the opportunity to flee in a panic, otherwise I would not be able to leave."
The more so, the more I worry about my little granddaughter, sometimes in the middle of the night, busy with the day's interview tasks, I suddenly remembered to open the WeChat video, chat with my lovely Linlin, listen to her voice after sound "Grandpa! Grandfather! "I was moved to tears. I said, "Linlin! Miss Grandpa? She said, "Think! ”
A "think" word is that I am filled with infinite happiness and warmth from my heart.
I haven't seen my Linlin for another ten days!
I miss her!
On August 18, 2017, a beautiful little angel descended on our family to be our elf granddaughter. Merlin, because of your arrival, this day has become a beautiful day for our whole family. Since then, the world has added a touch of seductive color.
This year, your mom and dad accompanied you through many firsts. Your first cry, open your eyes, smile, turn over, crawl, stand, and walk on your toes, although you can't speak yet, you have been able to fully express your meaning in your way of acting, which has brought us great joy.
Merlin, your arrival has reached the age of four, thank you for growing up healthily and ushering in the age of four. Thank you for growing up safely and unharmed. Thank you for growing up smart and quiet.
Merlin, I was not able to be by your side when you came. Today, on this special day, I and my whole family wish you well. I wish you health and happiness with the most sincere heart! Happiness and peace! Forever infect everyone around you with your lovely smile.
So, the family happily went outside to shop and buy you gifts. Eat at the restaurant at noon, and everyone celebrates with joy and joy.
Four-year-old Merlin's personality has begun to take shape, and overall, this is a lively and enthusiastic child with rich feelings. Don't look at her young age, the popularity in the community is not low, meet anyone will smile warmly, showing white teeth, unlike his parents, and neighbors in a building for several years have not said hello.
Merlin especially loves to laugh, and she never smiles reservedly, always grinning and showing people that she is enthusiastic and active. What bothers us is that Merlin also loves to cry, a little unsatisfactory is a small mouth, a red eye, bean-sized teardrops roll down, she not only likes a flat mouth, but also a particularly flat nose!
Merlin now has a lot of skills, after smiling, Merlin will also applaud, as long as we praise her "good", she will warmly applaud, every day when eating is the peak of Merlin's self-expression, because we will frequently praise her "obedient!" Eat well".
Merlin is particularly sensitive to music, and her favorite TV show is the weather forecast, presumably because she likes to listen to that music. Her favorite song is "Shepherd's Song", as long as this song is played, Merlin will immediately shake her head, her body swings rhythmically with the music, Ah, listen to "Shepherd's Song", this is completely the style of literary and artistic youth in the eighties.
Merlin began to learn her teeth, and amazingly, the first title she would say was "Grandpa"! For days, she kept chanting "Grandpa!" all day long. Grandfather! ”
The most surprising thing for us is that Merlin will be a relative! One day, I hugged her tightly and said, "Kiss Grandpa, take a bite," but I didn't expect her to actually put her soft little mouth on my face and lick it with her wet little tongue. Even though I was drooling with her kiss, I was so happy that I almost fainted. This is Merlin's first kiss!
In order to predict Merlin's future, we specially prepared a few things for her to catch the week. Catching Zhou seems to be a matter of ancient times, we put pens, books, gold yuanbao, small trains, combs, a bird that can beat drums, and my mobile phone, all on a plate, and brought to Merlin.
Merlin was playing with the toy, saw the plate in front of her, threw away the toy without thinking, and grabbed the bird that could only beat the drum. I kissed her happily, clapped my hands and said, "Merlin is awesome, let's be a drummer from now on!" Merlin ignored me, discarding the bird and taking the little train until she had taken all the contents of the plate.
Honestly, no matter what Merlin grabbed first, I was just as happy. If you catch a small train, it means that you can become a driver in the future and drive all over the great rivers and mountains of the motherland; if you grab a pen, you may be Jin Yong second; if you catch a book, you can accompany the book in this life, nothing else, at least not so lonely...
I have had many ideas about Merlin's future, but I don't have too clear expectations. I was always humble about not being able to plan for the future of my children like other grandfathers, until one day I read an interview with Luanke, a German who came to China to teach, and said: "Just because I have no expectations for the future, there is nothing that must be achieved, I can do what I do." "I suddenly opened up and found theoretical support for my behavior, of course, you can say it's an excuse.
Our generation, from birth, carries the heavy expectations of our parents, no matter how far we go, when we think of the eyes full of expectations behind us, even if we are tired, we dare not relax. Take myself as an example, from a young age personality is rebellious, notorious disobedience, in fact, only I know, the so-called disobedience is only the appearance, subconsciously, I do a lot of things to meet my parents' expectations of me, for example, when I was young, I knew that my parents cared about my grades, I would work very hard to get a good grade. When I grew up, I thought I had gotten rid of this expectation, but it wasn't at all.
So I hope to start with me and try not to expect anything from the child.
Dear Merlin, I don't expect you to honor your ancestors, nor do I expect you to get ahead, you can do anything you want, as long as you don't endanger the world. If I'm expecting anything from you, it's that I want you to be yourself, and everything you do is done for yourself, not to meet the expectations of mom and dad, grandparents. If you want to succeed in mainstream society, I will certainly support it, and if you are bent on going off the beaten path, I will never oppose it. Grandpa has had many regrets in this life, but who has no regrets in his life? So Grandpa doesn't expect you to make up for these regrets for me. Of course, there are so many difficulties in the world, Grandpa still hopes that you better not nibble on the old.
My dear little granddaughter Merlin, you are four years old, for your future, Grandpa has no expectations, only wishes, may you be healthy and peaceful, may you be happy and happy, may you be gentle and kind to the world (is this also counted as expectations). In case the world is not gentle enough, it is nothing, people from birth, you have to learn how to reconcile with the world, this lesson is very long, your grandfather and I are sixty years old and have not yet understood. My granddaughter Merlin, no matter what happens to you in the future, Grandpa hopes that you will remember, don't compete with the world, don't compete with yourself, the sky has not yet collapsed, even if the sky falls, there are tall people on top, what are we short and tough people afraid of?
In the past four years, the little granddaughter Merlin has grown up healthily around us, and has hardly bumped into each other, all of which depend on the careful care of his wife Zhao Xinjie, but the wife is full of injuries in order to take the child, and she is sick and cannot be healed in time. Once came back from outside, the wife wanted to give the little granddaughter to pee, did not expect the child to be a dozen straight, almost fell on the ground, the wife in order to protect the child, their two knees, all broken, did not go to the hospital, just stand up, for half a year to walk are painful, is now good, but also left a large purple scar, who saw it is very scary. There was also a time to hold the child to flush milk powder, the child a struggle, the wife one arm a force, the wrist flashed the tendon, and then left a tendon bag, until now the arm has been hurting, even a slightly heavier basin can not be ended, to the hospital to see, the doctor said that it is a tendon sheath cyst, need surgery to pick apart the tendon bag, but the thought of the operation can not take the child, continue to stand up, the wife said to wait until the child is taken out of the hand to say it. I really can't imagine how several children in the past were brought out as parents. Sometimes I say that in the past, children were born free-range, and now children are babies, all are intensive. Yeah, kids today are indeed smarter than kids their age in the past. The little granddaughter was less than 6 pounds from the time of birth, and now she has grown up healthily, almost no disease, and this child has been active since birth, and has been alive all day. Seeing this, the tiredness has passed, but the wife has worked hard.
There is a little granddaughter in the family, tired is a little tired, but sometimes watching the child understand things day by day, the heart is also very happy.
My little granddaughter was just able to climb when she was eight or nine months old, and we teased her to practice crawling on the climbing mat. It's funny to watch her use one leg to force, the other leg won't use force, arch by arch, sometimes it's not good to get it right.
This child is not very small, but it is very skinny, and the son and daughter-in-law often take the child out for a walk, visit the mall or something. I remember the first time she visited the mall was when she was four months old, and the people in the mall saw it and said how to bring this older child out. When her son drove her back to her hometown in Aotou, she was not yet one year old. From Pingdingshan to Ruzhou, and then to the hometown of Aotou, I don't know how many times toss back and forth, but good, developed a little granddaughter love to sit in the car problem, as long as she sits on the car is happy, from the time she will sit, the first time let her sit in the co-driver's position, and then every time you get on the car to sit in that position.
The little granddaughter is quietly growing up around us, the little granddaughter is very smart, every day as soon as I get dressed and go out, she will give me a flying kiss and wave goodbye to me!
The little granddaughter is particularly fond of music and toddler dance. As soon as the music or song sounds, the body will start to move, and the rhythm is very strong, and the movements can be beat to the beat. Merlin is more love to jump and love to jump, the music began to jump up, with the speed of the music rhythm, the action is also urgent and slow, more surprising is that the action is self-written and self-performing, see the TV piano or guzheng playing, she also learned the look of others, two hands on the TV cabinet back and forth, the body also shook back and forth, good is pleasing to people.
Every time I take my little granddaughter to the park or playground, the little granddaughter will perform to the fullest. There will also be a flying kiss, which makes everyone like her.
The little granddaughter will also turn on the air conditioner and turn off the computer, two small hands to turn on the TV, turn off the TV, and adjust the station. She loves to play with my phone and glasses, and sometimes she's crying and I say, "I have a phone!" I have glasses! She burst into laughter, came up and tugged at her glasses with one hand, grabbed her phone with the other, and laughed while playing.
Maybe girls love to be pretty, and the little granddaughter loves to be clean and beautiful since she was a child. Every time you go out, when you're done, you have to look in front of the mirror, and when you praise her for being beautiful, you're happy. You rub some skin care products on her face or hands, she has to order them when she sees them, and she rubs them back and forth on her face and hands.
The little granddaughter began to coax people, and whenever she saw her grandmother angry at her disobedience, she sang "ah-ah-ah- to her grandmother" and laughed until she coaxed her grandmother to music.
The family has a little granddaughter, is it bitter, is it tired? Or happy, happy? Only those who are in it can appreciate the taste!
Two baby Jiajia
Time flies so fast, and her little granddaughter Guo Jiahe is one year old! Today's little granddaughter Jia Jia has grown from a baby to a toddler, and it is really more and more popular the longer it is! In order to celebrate the first birthday of our little granddaughter, we held a grand, lively and festive birthday banquet for our little granddaughter Jiajia. When Jia Jia grabbed Zhou, the first thing he grasped was books and pens, which made me very happy and showed that there were people in my career.
Today, it is the first birthday of the little grandson, and the grandparents deeply wish the little granddaughter a happy first birthday! Happy Every Day! Happy and happy forever!
As the saying goes, "A child looks at his own good." "Grandparents don't think so. Since having a little granddaughter, my grandparents have truly enjoyed the joy of the world! Besides, the little granddaughter is really good, good is good! On the occasion of the little granddaughter's first birthday, the grandparents praised her as a very happy thing.
Happy first birthday to Jia Jia. I hope to be happy in the future and lively face difficulties. Have a healthy body.
I wish Jia Jia health, happiness and peace. I hope you are physically strong and grow up quickly.
Maybe I had a relationship with Jia Jia in my past life. Everyone knows that when a child is learning to speak, there are four people, grandpa, grandma, father, and mother, and the word grandpa is not easy to call. However, the first thing my granddaughter would call was "Grandpa."
I remember that it was when she was just a little over ten months old, I came back from a run in Baigui Lake early in the morning, just entered the house, Jia Jia climbed up to me, and the small face called out to me for the first time, "Grandpa", I was a little disbelieving my ears, and I was very happy! Her grandmother was also overjoyed, and said busily; "Jiajia, call again, also call a grandmother." But her small eyes blinked, and she just couldn't tell.
In the evening, when my son and daughter-in-law came back from work, I told them that the two of them didn't believe it. Within a month, the little granddaughter would be called by grandpa, grandma, dad, and mom. The little granddaughter would call Grandpa first, which made her mother very jealous, and said more than once: "You girl, why don't you call your mother first?" ”
Every weekend, JiaJia's uncle's 4-year-old Guo Molin and her younger brother Guo Qilin, who is less than two months younger than her, return from Primavera International to the Huguang Garden in the new city where we live to reunite. Three children a play, Jia Jia Lou lou this, hug that, sometimes also mischievously take Linlin's long hair to pull a bit, take Kiki's neck twisted a hand, people cry, but she laughed. Whenever her grandmother held Kiki, her calves straddled and sat on her grandmother's other leg, and she learned to fight.
She loves to watch cartoons, and when she sees the bald head crying, she also sits on the couch and weeps sadly, and grandma doesn't know it, and asks: "Jiajia, what's wrong?" "Grandma!" She pointed to the television and wept with tears in her eyes. You see, how sensible such a child is!
Whenever the TV shows dancing and singing, Jia Jia will also dance with her hands and learn to sing. My little granddaughter also likes to follow me for a walk in the sunny, flower-in-blooming, butterfly-flying bee-dancing park. The little granddaughter liked all the small animals, especially when she saw the flocks of butterflies in the vegetable garden and the flowers, like colorful pieces of paper scattered from the sky, drifting with the wind and drifting with the wind. So the little granddaughter called her grandfather while chasing the butterflies, just as Yang Wanli wrote in the Song Dynasty: "The hedge is sparse and deep, and the flowers at the head of the tree have not yet become yin." Children rush to chase yellow butterflies and fly into cauliflower nowhere to find", this is one of Jiajia's happiest times. We went to the municipal building with her at night to watch the dance, and she also stepped on the beat, compared and paddled, and did not let the adults help her, running around in the crowd, it was really a person to go crazy.
If Father's love is a mountain, then I would like to give her a blue sky. My little granddaughter Jiajia, in every road she has traveled, I am willing to follow her all the way: send her a responsibility, send her a love, send a piece of consummation to her; at the same time help her plant a dream along the way, an ideal all the way, a hope all the way; because there is a dream to have an ideal, there is an ideal to have hope, and there is hope to succeed.
Whenever she did something wrong and her dad tried to fix her, she beckoned me with her little hand: Grandpa, come, grandpa, come! And when I pretended not to see, she walked silently behind me and followed me closely, as if she had found a reliance. Some people say that if a child falls, he will let her get up on her own, but I can't do it. When she looked at me with pleading eyes, my refusal shattered in her pleading eyes, and when she called me in a crying voice, my faith collapsed in her voice. I always believe that loving her is actually loving myself. Because her father's blood flowed in her veins, and her father's blood flowed in her father's veins, and her grandfather's blood flowed in her grandfather's veins, it was precisely because of this blood inheritance that life could continue, so immortality was no longer a myth.
If the birth of a son is a responsibility, then the birth of my little granddaughter, I feel more of a worry, always worried that there is not much time to accompany her, always worried that her future is not happy enough, always worried that she is hurt even a little. Along the way with her, sometimes the mobile phone does not dare to play, the article does not dare to conceive, vigilantly watching everything around her, afraid of not seeing her in the blink of an eye. Jia Jia loves to read books, whenever a book sent to me from abroad arrives, she is the first reader, always turning this one and turning that one, sometimes holding several books at the same time, until she has turned enough, I can take it and look at it carefully. When I was writing, she would also come to the computer to make trouble, randomly pull the keyboard, and several times I had written the manuscript that had not yet been saved and could not be found, so angry that I could not find it.
I always feel that I am old, I always feel that there are many things that I should not worry about, and I feel that I am easy to be sad. I have not finished the road, but also ask her to help me to walk, I have not finished, but also she to help me to do, I have not completed the work, but also need her to help me to conceive. And I also firmly believe that in the future, she will go better and go further than me, because development and progress are an eternal theme.
Mom and Dad came to the stairs after work, and when she heard the movement, she ran to the door.
The other day, idle, we two old people playing. I pretended to be angry and trained her grandmother, and as I spoke, I slapped my hand on my wife's shoulder, which annoyed Jia Jia, and her calves did not run very fast, and when I came to me, I raised my small fist and snapped three or four fists. I was lying on the couch pretending to cry, I usually rarely shed tears, I don't know how this time I acted so devotedly, really squeezed out a few tears. Jia Jia saw that I was crying, and quickly came over to coax me again.
My two sons got married late because they were in college and busy with work. When I was young, I watched my peers play with their grandchildren and granddaughters, and my eyes were so hot that I often took other people's children on the street and played with them. Sometimes children squeeze their noses and make eyes, or say something funny, which makes adults laugh, and I say, "Not only do adults play with children, but children also play with adults." People always laugh at me, saying, "Where do children play with adults?" "What do you think?" How can children not tease adults? Isn't that just my granddaughter teasing me? This is the joy of heaven, this is called happiness.
It's nice that adults tease children, children tease adults! Let's play while the child is still small. In a few years, the children are older, and we are older, and we want to play with the children, and the children will not tease with us. Isn't it a fool to have such a lovely granddaughter who won't enjoy the world?
There is a saying: "The crops look good to others, and the children see their own good." "Maybe some people say that I am (partial to eating) the pendulum, and I admit that there is this factor. However, this is not the case. You look at your children, the children around you, which one is not like this, which one is stupid. If you look at the children on TV, the words that sing are round, the singing has a board and an eye, the back of the poem has a rhyme, the calligraphy is written correctly and generously, the dancing is dancing, and those children who can calculate are faster than the abacus and calculators. Why? What era and environment are we living in? At that time, especially the children in the countryside, eating coarse tea and light rice, seeing the broken houses and rotten kang, adults teaching the local language, ten years old to enter the school, most of the children are not small and have not been out of the door, which has seen the world, even the train is standing and walking, or climbing sideways do not know. As for today's children, most of their parents are college students, some are still graduate students, doctors... Adults teach children Mandarin and foreign languages, children play with high-tech products (TV, tablet computers), go to kindergarten at the age of two, and there is a strong cultural atmosphere outside the home. They are well-informed and not intelligent.
For many of the time every day, grandchildren and granddaughters occupy my mind.
Some say the best way to dissolve your thoughts is to distract your attention. But in the face of these three little guys, are you scattered?
So, I'm particularly reluctant to travel now. Even if there is the best scenery waiting for me outside, there are the best food for me to taste. I was afraid of that mental torture, I couldn't stand the loneliness of not seeing their smiling faces and hearing their cries.
The three young brothers, the older sister, 4 years old, had just been sent to kindergarten — and now they were particularly clingy; the younger brother, who was not yet 1 year old, smiled and giggled every day, stared at me with a pair of big eyes, and seemed to know who was his dearest person.
I cherish my time with them. I tried to be a little more with them. Around them, I try to hug them more, talk to them, tease them. There are little granddaughters and little grandchildren here, and when they are older, it will be difficult to hold them.
The little granddaughter Jia Jia has her own thoughts. Start grinding people. Sometimes it annoys people. Sometimes I cry without a head. She wanted to use this method to achieve some of her goals. For example, if you want to eat a chocolate chip cookie, for example, if you want to watch a cartoon for a while. She wanted to have her own freedom, and the adults always didn't give it. In the conflict between heartache and inability to indulge, sometimes I don't know what to do.
The little granddaughter and the little grandson don't want to lie down, they just want people to hold. The whole family took turns hugging, and everyone was tired and sore. My waist was not good. Slightly better, I am not afraid to repeat the offense, take the initiative to hug her more.
We are tired and happy. Seeing their knee-wrapped scenes and intimate movements, tired from time to time to forget.
I sometimes think about them, my throat is hot, and I want to cry. Especially when they are sick, I see how uncomfortable they are and want to do it for them. You know, they are still so young and their language is not clear, how can they be allowed to suffer that sin?
The years are moving too fast. They are the continuation of life and the hope for the future. Generation after generation, it is carried out in such a relay, what reason is there not to cherish it?
Three baby Kiki
I have three treasures at home.
The first treasure is the old family's Linlin, my wife and I took a picture of her at the age of 3, the second family gave birth to Jia Jia, which is the second treasure, and we rushed back to the new city to take care of Jia Jia. In less than two months, the old people gave birth to a grandson Kiki, which is the third treasure. We rushed to Primavera International, where the old people lived, to take care of Kiki. Just after taking care of it for a month, the second daughter-in-law was afraid of being laid off because of the reform of the unit, so she went to work early. We rushed back to the new town to take care of Jiajia.
We consciously took care of Kiki for a short time and treated our little grandchildren badly. There was no way, Kiki's mother had to quit her job and take care of her two children at home. We had to wait for the second daughter-in-law to get off work, and then go to the old people overnight to see Kiki and Linlin.
When I first picked up Guo Qilin's soft and pink little flesh ball, I felt my blood flowing and extending on his body, and the affection and love rose from the bottom of my heart. I was afraid that he was cold and afraid of his heat, both afraid of feeding too much, and afraid of being hungry, and as soon as he cried, I quickly hugged him in my arms. It is said that "next generation relatives", I feel it from the moment my grandson is born, and maybe the "habitual child" begins from here.
The little one has begun to learn to talk. Rich expressions coupled with his babbling you can sense his needs and expressions. When he was happy, he was unusually excited, lying flat on the bed or in the car, dancing in the air with his hands and feet together, and his eyes flashed with excitement. With a flurry of hands and feet, the head and body twist together, and the mouth makes a "hmm, mmm" sound, and the tone is particularly high to express his joy.
When she is hungry and sleepy and tired, Kiki's small eyebrows will be locked tightly, her eyelids will be down, her mouth will "hum", her face will be unhappy, and her head will drill into the arms of the adult, according to the length of time, you will know whether he is hungry or tired or wants to sleep. If the adult does not handle it properly, or if it takes a little longer, he will cry twice, usually without tears. Unless you are hungry and the milk cannot be supplied immediately, you will really cry, and the tears will really flow down.
It's fun when you're bored. If he is in the car or in bed for a long time and wants to ask the adult to hold him, he will twist his body and "squeal" for a while, holding two small fists and shaking two small arms, if you don't hold him, he will squat his ass up and down, haha, this little guy.
In the impression, when Kiki was more than ten days old, she often began to smile on her little face in her sleep, it was that kind of unintentional smile, and when she opened her eyes and looked at everything strange, she would only use her crying to convey her discomfort. Hungry, crying; sleepy, crying; peeing, crying; annoyed, crying. Cry cry cry, and also with a loud voice. I thought: How can my little grandson have such a big temper and cry so loudly!
I remember the days when I was just born, the milk had not yet dried well, and his crying was really hoarse. I can feed it with milk powder and be afraid of milk returning. I can't eat it in my mouth yet. The more he cried, the more he couldn't eat in his mouth, and the more he couldn't eat, the more he cried. Mom's milk was swollen, but he was so hungry that he cried and his throat was dumb. I cried with heartache. Two days after being discharged from the hospital, the child's little face turned yellow. Go to the hospital for a check-up, jaundice exceeded the standard. The daughter-in-law cried bitterly. No matter how bad the conditions are, it is still important for the child. The grandson began to practice his legs in four or five months, and he did not let people hold him, often standing on the ground and playing on the table and bench. Anyone can hold it, can eat, have fun, and don't cry when you don't see your mother for a day. At eight months, he still drank milk powder without crying. But the ten-month-old grandson's hair is not long, and the forehead appears to be wider. But the hard-legged man will stand on his own and move, I use the traditional rural custom of luck to hold the knife, and every time he moves, I use the knife to cut a knife on the ground between his legs, proving that he has cut off the trippin and walked smoothly ever since.
The grandson was less than ten months old and had just reached the tv on the seventy-centimeter combination cabinet. I know that pressing the switch, hearing the music on the TV, I hold the table with one hand and shake it with the other hand, and stomp on the ground with the other foot, moving with the music, the face smiles and blossoms, and the mouth hums.
Yes, seeing grandchildren is indeed tired and boiling, and at the same time happy and happy. Tired and happy, in a word.
We enter the state of looking at the grandchildren in the, pee. My wife and I began to closely around the grandson, coaxing him to tease him, play with him, and when we were having fun, we saw that the little baby's expression was slightly stagnant, and a smell of wafted into the nose - the little guy pulled, and the joy just now suddenly stopped, and the wife eagerly and loudly issued orders: Take the diaper, take the water! "I was busy taking this and that, bringing up the water, my wife reached out to try, one would say it was hot, one would say it was cold, and I ran several times to turn the water temperature and wipe the little guy's ass clean. The little baby was comfortable, and played with us again, and the whole house was full of the joy of the grandchildren, but the little one suddenly somehow was not happy again, crying for no reason, and from time to time flashing tears in the crying to catch us... Looking at the little way he cried, we already had infinite love in our hearts, and the wife picked up the grandson with pain, coaxed gently, coaxed softly, coaxed affectionately, but no matter how coaxed, the little guy was not moved, and the crying did not stop. We are a little flustered, neither when we are hungry nor when we are thirsty, and our heads are not hot, nor our bodies are burning, so what are we crying? Why cry? Although we know that the baby's crying is the expression of the appeal, we can't understand what he is asking for for a while, and the only way we can do it is to hold him and coax him wholeheartedly... When the wife's arms were sore, the legs were tired, the little guy was quiet, and then slept sweetly, and the little face with the tear stains still showed a sweet smile, and we breathed a long sigh of relief.
The little baby slept, we did not dare to breathe loudly, all the movements were hand-to-hand, the wife began to wash the grandson's clothes, I began to mop the floor, and then ready to go to the market, we are all busy, all willingly busy for the grandson.
But such a wish requires great patience, or utter dedication, because it is a routine day-to-day labor, a labor with crying, with cuddling, with, with washing, with cooking, with a market, with so many things. In the midst of fatigue, we will also lament that it is not easy to see children! The wife will also touch the past: cough, when I was young, I unconsciously raised my two sons, and now how can I feel so tired. I said: After all, the years are not forgiving.
In the face of such busyness and fatigue, I often secretly sigh: I love to read and write in my life, I have published more than 60 books, and I am also a person who has some pursuits and is not willing to be mediocre, and now no matter what kind of pursuit you have, you have to put it down, and you have to live in the usual busyness of watching grandchildren and housework, although I still love to read a little book in the middle of the night, but that is just a sneak in the busyness of ordinary labor. Some people say that looking at children is a mediocre thing that is not doing anything, and I thought so, but after having a grandson, the power of blood and kinship quickly weakened this idea of "mediocre things". For example, sometimes looking at the cute little baby, thinking of a life that continues the bloodline of a family growing, a sacred sense of responsibility and mission will arise in the heart, and it is also a great thing to think that it is a great thing to look after the grandchildren, to say that it is related to the future of a family, and to say that it is related to the future of a country. Thinking like this, that sense of mediocrity becomes unusual.
"Whoa, whoa..." The grandson woke up and cried again. The cry was the trumpet, and we immediately pounced on the grandson. At this moment, we only have grandchildren in our eyes, and all our emotions are grandchildren. The power of this blood and affection always makes us forget about ourselves, let us dedicate ourselves, no complaints, no regrets.
The days rush by in the busyness of watching grandchildren, who thrive in our care. In the same way, looking at the fatigue of the grandson is also like the growth of the grandson. The grandson will climb and can climb all over the ground. At this time, the world in front of him was full of excitement, everywhere could arouse his curiosity, he was always interested in the things he saw, he had to crawl over and touch it at all times, regardless of whether there was danger ahead, just to climb forward. Although we know that the curiosity and excitement of the little guy is inevitable in growth, but we are also particularly aware of the great responsibility we shoulder in it, we must be careful and careful, we must not let him bump and touch, if there is really a mistake, we feel guilty, and we can't explain it to our sons and daughters-in-law, that is our all heart and liver baby!
To ensure the safety of our grandchildren, we need to tighten our heartstrings at all times and take care of this curious and active little life with the strongest sense of responsibility. Therefore, we also enter another kind of tiredness: the tiredness of both tightening nerves and fast hands and eyes, which is both mental and physical tiredness.
Of course, while watching the grandson's physical and mental fatigue, there is also happiness and happiness, otherwise how can the happiness of the world last forever. When the little baby makes you laugh in front of you with your unexpected actions; when he hugs your neck tightly and kisses you; when he babies and talks to you; when he touches his little feet, kisses his little face... All of this puts us in infinite joy and happiness, and we often forget about the fatigue and immerse ourselves in the joy of watching our grandchildren.
It is said that older people should be childlike, and I think seeing grandchildren can just make me find my childlike heart and childlike fun. This may be what people should do at what stage of life, and it must also be a beautiful stage of life. I think that if a person lacks the process of seeing his grandchildren, he must also be a regretful life, or an incomplete life.
We are "tired and happy".
A souvenir of a grandson. He rode a small wooden horse and looked ahead, like a soldier in battle. His cheeks were always red, like ripe apples, and his eyes were particularly clever, and his thin lips smiled softly and sweetly. It is common for adults to hurt children, but they cannot be coddled. Kiki's mind has a deep memory, he looks at the face of the adult and acts, every time he comes to my house, if he moves, the adult's serious and calm face makes him sit, he does not dare to stand, tell him to do what he wants, he will do. When the adults laughed at his obedient behavior, he immediately crawled and played around. They all called Sun Tzu a first-class man.
As the saying goes: first-class people look at faces, second-class people teach with eyes, third-class people teach with mouths, and fourth-class people teach with sticks. People often rate the level of being a person according to their usual words and deeds. My grandson was known as a "first-class man", which made me a grandfather happy.
Seeing this grandson who intoxicated me, I felt unspeakably happy in my heart. Hope burns in my heart, and I firmly believe that my grandson Kiki will be able to become a useful talent in the country in the future.
Guo Jintao, born in May 1958, pen names "Zhiquan", "Guo Xiao". Aotou Village, Linru Town, Ruzhou, Henan. A member of the Chinese Peasants' and Workers' Democratic Party, he graduated from the Correspondence University of Chinese Literature in 1987, graduated from the Writers' Class of the department of Chinese of Fudan University in 1993, and graduated from the Lu Xun Literature College of the Chinese Writers Association in 1998. He joined the work in 1980 and served as the editor-in-chief of Xiangyin, the editor-in-chief of Yuxi Bao, the executive editor of Wind Cave Literature and Art and Vicissitudes, the director of the Creative Research Office of Pingdingshan City Literary Association in Henan Province, the vice chairman of Pingdingshan Writers Association, and the editor-in-chief of Eagle City. He is currently the editor-in-chief of "Literary and Art Circles" and "Zhiquan Liuyun", a member of the China Famous Walking Prose Writers Alliance, a visiting professor of Pingdingshan College, the president of the Pingdingshan Branch of the Henan Reportage Literature Society, the first vice chairman and secretary general of the China Internet Writers Association, a member of the National Mao Zedong Literary and Art Thought Research Association, and a member of the Literary and Art Creation Professional Committee of the Chinese Fuxi Culture Research Association. He began publishing in 1974.
In 1994, he joined the Chinese Writers Association. In 2001, he joined the China Reportage Literature Society and was a first-class literary creation. He is the author of more than 60 novels, including "Beauty Mountain, Beauty River", "Village Soul", "Biography of Guanyin Bodhisattva", "Wind and Rain Dragon Pond Love", "Destiny", "Heaven and Earth People's Hearts", essay collections "Sixty-year-old Sayings", "Children's Fun", "Ruzhou Style", "Nostalgia Old Deeper", "True Feelings on Earth", "New City Beauty Rhyme", "Moon is Hometown Ming", "Lei Yu Beacon Fire", "Zhanhe Armageddon", "From Mayor to Death Row Prisoner", "The Road of Luck", "Fragrant Years", etc., with a total of more than 20 million words, and 194 (partial) works have won awards. Among them, "Zhanhe Armageddon" won the first prize of the national outstanding reportage to celebrate the 80th anniversary of the founding of the Party, the script "Wupin Township Official" won the first prize of "Chinese Writer", "Eagle Strikes the Long Sky" won the second prize of "People's Literature", and the long poem "Cold Night Crying Mother" won the first prize of "Literature and Art Newspaper". In 1992, he won the first Outstanding Literary Organization Worker Award of Henan Province. In 2005, he was awarded the honorary title of National Outstanding Propaganda Cadre by the Central Committee of the Chinese Peasants' and Workers' Democratic Party.